Restarting my life at 29 | Quitting my design job, broken engagement, future plans

Hello everyone! Today I'm sharing with you life updates - no job, no relationship, and only few months to decide and prepare my next place of living? Will I end up in Europe, Asia or somewhere else? Also, what am I planning to read soon, now that my studies are almost done? Find out in this video!

... And now I start my life anew. No job, no engagement, no problem - I have plans that I want to share with you! And... moving again soon?!

Remember to let me know if there is anything you wish to see - maybe we can chat more about my specific learning methods or about my books? Hehe

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Timestamps
0:00 I'm restarting my life
0:35 My broken engagement and big life changes
02:08 Why I quit my UI/UX product design job
03:36 Health problems and burnout
04:56 How I could quit the tech industry
05:47 My 6 month plans and learning
08:24 How I am going to rest
09:42 BOOK TOUR!!!!

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[gilpederiva]

Sometimes people think that 29 is too old, but not, when you are 40 or later you realize that when were 29 you've just started your life. I'm 42 and I'm learning English in order to change my life.

[dcmsuccess]

29!!! I just started over at 51. Anytime is the right time

[cuppiesaur]

It's crazy that for many of us millennials, when we were kids, we thought that by our 30's we would be marry, living in our forever homes with a stable dream job and maybe with one or two kids. And now, he we are - just beginning our lives, change paths now and again, learning each day more about ourselves and about the world, trying to stay sane, alive and afloat regardless of what life throws at us with each passing year, struggling to make sense of all of this, but most importantly - persevering in searching for joy and happiness in the little things in life, in those little moments that make us happy whilst tracing our own individual paths. Star strong, Lindie! 화이팅! ガンバレ ! ♡

[raonei]

This same EXACT thing happened to me at 29. I broke up an engagement, thought my life was over. Then one year later here I am, in another continent, making YouTube and in a healthy relationship. What's more! I'm adding another language! You got this Lindie🎉

[awe_possum]

30 years old, unemployed for 1 year (quited after 3 years of abuse), single (and celibate) for 4 years, no friends except my sister, still living with my parents, OCD, GAD and depression diagnosis. And I thank God for every single thing. I am med free for a year now, I built my body in the gym and although I may "lack" any things, I have my life and health ans the people that I love the most. Heads up people we will never surrender 💪🏻

[martaiw]

You are JUST 29 girl! look how many things has happened during last 5y, as many can happen in the near future :) Remember, sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together ❤️ I'm wishing you the best 🤞

[YarnGeek]

Wishing you the best of luck. My life turned upside down at 39 and I feel like I’m too old to restart my life but a lot of people are telling me that’s not true. Society makes it seem like you need to have it all figured out by your early 20s and that’s just not realistic.

[janniagonzalez]

Moses restarted his life at 80. Never is too late

[abbygirl]

I just turned 30 this week, and am in a very similar boat, except my life hasn't really started yet. I've never been married, engaged, or in a serious relationship. I had serious mental health issues in my early 20s that I didn't get help for til I was 25, and that's mostly what I've worked on for the last 5 years. I'm just now getting my life started. We got this Lindie

[yleniaiva]

At 28 years old, going to 29, I was diagnosed with a rare blood cancer, PMBCL lymphoma. One year later I’m 30 and I have to build my life from scratch. After many surgeries and 700 hours of chemotherapy I’m okay and I’m in remission but life is not the same. Few months before the diagnosis, I’ve moved to my husband’s country. So I’m in a new country, without any kind of stable career and facing health challenges. Life is unpredictable but it is beautiful too. You are not alone!

[Harry-iopd]

Hi Lindie, so courageous to share your life struggles, disappointments, and challenges. You’ve accomplished more in 29 years than many accomplishment in a lifetime.
Your trust in God is such an example for His Glory!

[katherinemoreno]

I'm about to turn 27 and I'm almost in the same situation.... I tried to end my life cause the overwhelm but now I'm like you... Redoing my life. So send you a lot of love and support. Good bless you

[Tanyaq]

It's actually very common for people around 28-30. It's everybody's first Saturn return, makes us question our whole life, switch careers, divorce, move to different countries, buy a house. Which is actually a good thing, because you become more authentic through such experiences

[mikaeladeer]

I didn't even realize how stressed I was at my previous job even though my eye was twitching almost constantly. I went to the doctor, they did a bunch of tests and nothing, of course. Almost half of my face was twitching at that point. I finally decided to quit my job. The next day after leaving it my muscles stopped twitching and it never came back. Your body often tells you to stop what you are doing if it's too much. And now you have the freedom to do whatever. And I also want to move to Spain soon btw. :))

[kwiyopta]

As a silent reader of your blog since many years ago, I admire your tenacity and faithfulness. Lots of things happened to you in 2 years but I only see an inspiring and strong person that I always admire. Keep shining and inspiring us!Godbless.

[ikatiawarman]

i am also 29 F, have quit my job with no back up.. Felt physically and mentally sick from the job. my partner, friends and family saw me change (i wasnt bubbly anymore) I was depressed and tired. I ended up making the decision to leave. I felt like i made a huge mistake yet the right decision (huge mistake bc no income yet my health is improving!)😅
I felt ashamed like i failed at life, but i’m so glad to see i’m not the only one experiencing this ‘crisis’ at 29-30.
I wish you all the best in life :)

[CrisOnTheInternet]

Lindie, it always amaze me how you share "bad" news, you embrace whatever is happening and put yourself back on your feet, with or without tears in your eyes. Really encouraging for many of us. Wishing you the best ❤.

[jimd]

You would be shocked how many people pass on because of job stress. You made a good move. You have many talents.

[lobofelipelobo]

I understand you much, I spent a lot of years studying architecture and after finish the university I found no job. Now I am studying foreign trade, but I want to study a post grad in landscape architecture soon. Wrong diagnosis is very dangerous. I wish that now your health is getting better now.

The most peark thing that you have writing books is that you don't need to hire a translator to translate your works to other languages.

[KellieatLarge]

I'm starting over at 40. Others are starting over at 50, 60, 70 and on. The stability of marrying for life and working at one company until you retire is just not a thing anymore. We will all be starting over at multiple points and for differing reasons and not all of us will be happier or sadder than we would have been in the alternative life, but I do think we'll be more interesting.