you can always start over & create a new life

starting over until you find the life you like

when people ask me what my goals are, i feel like i have 10 different answers depending on the day & my mood. there are so many versions of myself that i want to explore in the lifetime, & i eventually realized that i do not have to limit myself to one. for the past year, i've been on a journey of starting over multiple times until i found a life i liked. in this video, i share how to disattach from your old life, embrace change, & start over without fear of the outcome.

timestamps
0:00-2:29 leaving my old life + traveling
2:29 how to know what you want
6:04 the best learning comes from experience
9:24 resenting others cuz you chose the safe route
12:16 this could be your last day
13:56 make the best of what you have + enjoy the side trips
20:12 life is long + disattach from your old self

stay in touch ;)

[maiyaphenix]

Love this! I’m 47 and still finding new things out about myself!

[DiNx]

I feel like having confidence in oneself is what will truly remove that fear and open so many other doors of opportunity.

[forevergenella]

Girl. This is my life. I am literally jumping from state to state to just explore cause it’s a new chapter in my life that I have to honor. I love you channel so much man. I am starting to shift my content to this stuff.

[IAMLIBERATED]

This is such an aligned messages. The collective is real. Thank you for utilizing your voice & power in a gracefully productive way. You’re a true inspiration 💫🫶🏾

[maya.kaelei]

really love & appreciate this video 💕 i have struggled so much with feeling like i'm "too late" for everything & anything. since i compared myself to success stories from teenagers on social media making exorbitant amounts of money & fame, i'd think that at 20 years old i missed my "prime" age. graduating from university at 22 rather than traveling the world & coming home to beautiful apartment would feel like i failed even though nothing could be further from the truth. now i'm 23, starting my own jewelry business, & with content like yours, i'm realizing that we all deserve to pursue our passions & goals freely. no time limit. no comparison. just sincere excitement for what's to come 💖 xoxo

[therealuniquenichelle]

I knew I would resonate with this video before even clicking. I just turned 26 and have just been having this overwhelming feeling— feeling like I’m running out of time with things, people, and places. I just recently moved back in with my mom just to get a fresh start and build myself back up & tbh the generations before us just don’t understand… the burning desire to explore, travel, experience new things & get looking outside of where they were raised, the constant state of fear at times, everything that comes with this journey, etc! Channels like yours literally make me feel seen, heard, & less alone. Still a work in progress but I’m here… and I’m trying🤍

[miiasaurous]

I just want to say that your work online has continued to shape and change me for the past 2 years. Thank you for all you do Lynette, and continue to express yourself and your ideas with the world -- I watch every upload silently but your journey has been incredible/continues to keep me in awe

[fllenstarr]

I love the title. We are all born into the world and automatically programmed in whatever town are parents put us in to be raised. Some people stay in one place their whole life (that's fine also) but there comes a point I think for some of us where we start to look outside of that. We have big dreams that don't relate to our enviroment we grew up in. We travel, move to a new city, pursue a new life and then flourish.

I believe the burning desire in ones heart for a goal, the people who look after themselves, manifest/work towards something are meant to fulfill that we just can never give up. The more you live the more you know about yourself.

I love these kind of videos as it reminds me I'm not alone doing it!

[gamerstudios]

I got fired from a Target job a few months ago, which forced me to start chasing after the career I've been wanting. I'm currently 26, and I already regret waiting this long to start. I appreciate you posting this. It reminded me that it's never too late to start. 🙌❤️
I'm a new subscriber, btw 👍

[itsnaenae]

I Love Following Your Journey Because I Always Feel Like We Talk About The Same Topics & Themes, Without Ever Talking. 🥺

I’m Currently Pivoting & Building My Business. Collecting All The Knowledge I Need & Implementing Said Knowledge.
PLUS Finishing My Accounting Level 3 Which Will Allow Me To Have A Skill That Gives Me Location Freedom.

I’ve Met Someone Who Aligns Deeply To How I See My Future. So My Partner & I Have Weekly “Monday Meetings” To Ensure Separately We Are Achieving Our Goals, That Ultimately Work Towards Our Shared Future. This Includes Hobbies & Passions Not Just All The Career “Western World” Worries & Concerns.

I’m Ultimately LOVING LIFE Not Comparing Myself To Anyone, Not Even My Partner. I Only Compare Myself To Who I Was Yesterday, Last Week, Month, Year Etc.

I Allow Myself The Freedom To Be Able To Pivot & Change Direction If That Is What I’m Called To Do. ❤

As I Will Not Settle & Allow Fear To Keep Me Stuck.

Love You Lynette, You Are Amazing & Keep Being Amazing. ❤

[LeOnlyJoker]

i just decided to do something risky for my life. i went back to school, to risk the possibility that I will get a better job--not even a secured decision.

[EarthOrNothing]

I knew I'd resonate with this before I even clicked on it. In my astro chart, there's a part that reads that I'm meant to create my own life. My biggest hurdle was post-grad and being let out of the gates to do just that. I felt decision paralysis so hard but also things not panning out, feeling stuck, feeling behind, etc. I even recently quit my full-time job because I felt so stagnant and unfulfilled. I've tried soooo many different things and will continue doing so. I'm meant to create my life and I'm starting to fully understand that.
PS I think the point of creating more than you're consuming is ESSENTIAL

[Cynthia]

New subscriber here, we are all in the same boat. Early thirties, trying to reinvent myself, trying to get into a new career with no experience has been challenging, countless rejections emails from job applications, but can’t give up now.

[Robynvlogs]

You have no idea how timely your videos are to my life 😮 I just booked my first trip to USA from UK and I’m going there to explore see if it’s a good fit for me to maybe move there one day. You helped me be bold an book it solo ☺️

[raytolbert]

I love hearing these topics trying to juggle mental health & reality of what you wanna be. It’ll feel like a rat race of just chasing Your tail…

[laurawinters]

can't explain how much I appreciate you and your content <3

[maily]

i feel like you always post what i need to hear at the perfect moment. thank you for your thoughts and advice! i really needed this

[naomikouassi]

Thank you for this! Definitely resonates, in a transition and I’m so uncomfortable but excited for what’s to come! Sending love on your new chapter!

[marctrujillo]

Your experience literally shows through your words 🙌🏼 def tuning in

[learukavina]

I've been watching you since 2021, and you have helped me so much with everything. You really paved the way for me to discover more about myself and about loving myself. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I wish you the best in NYC!!