The Breaking Point: How Women Are Shattering Men's Psyche

In this thought-provoking video, we delve into the sensitive topic of how women are unknowingly shattering men's psyche, often leading to broken trust and emotional trauma in relationships. Drawing from John Griffin's expertise in personal development, we explore the subtle pitfalls that can lead to marriage failure, and how intimate details shared can be a double-edged sword. By developing emotional intelligence and communication skills, men can overcome their vulnerability and work towards personal growth. But what happens when trust is broken, and forgiveness is a distant dream? Join us as we uncover the underlying dynamics that can make or break a relationship, and discover the importance of relationship insight and life coaching in navigating these complex issues.

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00:00 A Few Poorly Chosen Words
01:14 She Broke Her Husband
03:46 Women Don't Understand Male Vulnerability
08:40 A Thousand Cuts
11:20 Hobbies That Feed Your Soul
13:20 Crossing My Boundary
15:14 Trust Must Be Honored and Respected

[MaryAnn_Deacon]

She didn’t “change” into that. This was her all along. She just decided it was safe to be cruel and therefore dropped all façades.

[szymonk]

They simply get bored and feel unhappy, so they start blaming you, your hobbies, interests, work, trying to put the responsibility on you for their lack of ability to manage their own lives.

[danfloros]

I was married for a brief period in my mid to late twenties. In our first year of marriage she said to me = you are not allowed to go on your annual fishing trip with your mates - something that I had done for more than a decade, well before I met her. I knew then and there it was over. I went anyway, enjoyed the trip and when I came back home, she did not speak to me for days on end. Needless to say, I divorced her in my 4th year of marriage, something I should have done 3 years earlier as it was an uphill battle from there with many demands from her end, She fought a losing battle regardless and in the end I won the war. Saw her recently and she looks like a sack of potatoes...boy was I lucky. Today I travel the world with my work, and make it a habit to fly fish every 3 months - in some of the most beautifuland peaceful places in the world. Enjoy your life gents, because it is YOUR LIFE, and no female has the right to derail it. More power to you from Down Under! Thank you John for your body of work.

[mrsherwood]

My ex shamed me for being "obsessed" when i admired pictures of her. I never admired her again. She shamed me when i initiated sex with her. I never initiated again. She shamed me for my taste in food. I never ate with her again. She shamed my unusually extensive vocabulary.

I never spoke with her again.

[burtbakerack]

When I was 21, I got into a relationship with a young woman that worked at the gym I went to. She pursued me hard, despite the fact she was leaving to spend a year overseas in a few months. We were pretty inseparable for four months. I remember sitting in the basement of her family home as she was packing to leave. She was crying, talking about how she didn’t want to go but was committed. Telling me how much she was going to miss me. I had planned for a clean break but, watching her cry, I offered to keep in touch and forgo other relationships/sex while she was gone - provided she was willing to do the same. She looked at me and said, “what if I meet someone special?” I thought to myself, I thought you already had. It was over for me that moment. After she got home, she immediately tried to rekindle things. Ran into her (and slept with her) numerous times over the next decade but I never once entertained the idea of letting her back into my life after what she said in that basement. Words have power, ladies, be careful how you use them.

[Eachoneamystery]

They’ll always use your insecurities against you.
They can’t resist.
It’s their insurance policy.

[Madosatoshist]

The saddest thing is those who need the most to listen to your wisdom, women, are not here.

[plasmaarmelund]

A wife shaming her husband inside the home is one thing. But her doing it IN PUBLIC in front of other people takes it to a whole other level. That's the kind of disrespect that is impossible to recover from and the marriage is dead in that very instant.

[MostlyBuicks]

I used to do body off frame restorations. Now I buy nice cars and maintain them. Whenever a woman asks me why I prefer cars to them, I say it is because I can FIX a car.

[Jerry-uv]

it amazes me how considerate many men are yet just get completely disrespected and made into a villain. and society seems perfectly okay with it.

[michaelfarley]

Gentlemen, the woman you marry is NEVER the woman you divorce!

[stephenkilpatrick]

Absolutely right. At the wedding and for 35 years after, she was someone I would do anything for and my best friend. At the divorce she was someone I didn’t recognize or even knew existed. A complete change into a stranger.

[LVpops]

I'm 55. Never married. No children. Got my heart broken 30 years ago and it taught me a very valuable lesson about marriage and women. You're absolutely right about vulnerability and trust. Trust in a relationship is so valuable and yet so fragile. I realize after watching your content and others like you how lucky I am to be single. Thanks.

[MrBrndin]

I had been doing a job for 20 plus years and hated it. My wife of 10 plus years said that I should quit...
4 months later, I thought she was right, we had no debts and our house was paid for. I was like 32, so I had my whole life in front of me and couldn't imagine working that job for another 30 plus years..
I said to her one day that I was thinking about quitting.
She was not having it. "You are not quiting your job and living off me!" And the thing that made me question everything, she said "you're a miserable person, and you'll be miserable no matter where you work!" That caused such a fight that I moved in with my mother for a month.
It was her bringing it up that even made me consider it.

I'll never be the guy I was before that day again.

[terrysmith]

It never ceases to amaze that a woman can remeber the points throughout the past 28 yrs that made her unhappy, but cant bring herself to remember the awesome great times we had and the heavy duty shit i went through to bring her a secure, safe and happy life. Giving so much encourgement to get through her lack of self esteem and emotional support through her depression.

[IronJoe_Florida]

Great video. Married men live a very difficult life. If you lose your frame, she leaves. If you trust her with your deepest darkest secrets, she uses them against you, then leaves. Stay single.

[Ian-yffo]

I’m now 58. Was with her for 13 years. We had no kids. Now divorced from her. She knew the crap I went through on my first divorce. I was reluctant to get married to her because of my previous experiences. She swore that she would never treat me the way I was treated when I was previously married. For years she was loving and attentive. Then she got bored but still “ loved me, but not in love with me” then the evil dragon appeared. As soon as she Monkey branched, she went for the jugular. I was still trying to keep things friendly through the divorce ( even though she initiated it all). She even said at the beginning, that I was a decent man. She took nearly half of the proceeds of my house. The house I owned before we were married. We had no kids and she earned a lot more than me. But the judge just said she should get half. The nastiness that that woman turned into. I had to bite my lip all the way through the whole process or the judge would have given her at least half. As soon as your princess walks out the door, she turns into the ice queen. You have been warned!!!

[Limitlesspursuit]

Met my girl 6 years ago at school. Year later we graduated and she moved in with me. She was short, skinny with a curvy lower body, blonde hair, extremely feminine, and always needed me to hold her. Honey moon lasted a good 2 years.. then she started gaining weight, eating nasty, telling me where things go, making remarks as I would play madden or something. Now I wasn’t perfect. But damn she changed. She left for good 4 months ago with our 2 dogs about 30 minutes away. Still going through it alone but watching theese videos reminds me I made the right choice to have her leave. Miss my damn dogs tho so much. Love ur content man

[MrSmyrna]

I was married for 32 years and for 31 of those years, I had complete faith my marriage was going to last. I was so naive because after asking what was wrong with her in the last few months of our lives together, without emotion she said I just don't want to be married to you anymore. I made a huge mistake desperately trying to save our marriage only to have her file for divorce a couple of months later. Women definitely change without any warning. I truly loved her with all my heart and it was not until after the divorce was final, I found out a man she had met at her sister's third wedding was the reason she wanted a change.

[SpadeAce-]

Wmn don't change, they just get tired of faking it.