Narcissists dont follow the rules they set for others

narcissists dont follow the rules they set for others

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[CobaltLobo]

When they call you dramatic, reactive and immature when you’re calling them out and their mask slips

[tiffanyrodgers]

Why do they call us Controlling yet they are the controlling ones 😢

[rosaderojelio]

Basically, they don't want a partner, they want a pet, sit pretty seen and not heard and all, how dare we have feelings and verbalizing them like a human being capable of speaking.
That's really how I feel today, even told him fine guess I'll sit pretty like a good puppy without ability of verbalizing feelings, was that a bad idea?

[tranquility]

They also hate when you say something "negative" yet they talk about everyone like a damn dog behind their back.

[DeboraSampy-ebnx]

They sure don't they want you to go by their strict rules but they can just do what the hell they want smh 🤦🏽‍♀️😤😒

[cloyewoods]

He was the king of double standards. He could have gifts, pictures, videos, from previous relationships, but I couldn't. He could call, video, blow kisses, and say I love you to his female "friends" (and they could do the same to him), but I couldn't have the same relationship with my male friends. He could lie about going to work, but I had to be where I said I was. He could have a sexual relationship with a female 10 years younger than him, but he complained about his daughter dating a man 6/7 years older than her. He could be married and cheating, but he complained about his other daughter dating a married man. The list goes on and on. He always had advice for couples, but he never followed his own advice. Like I said, the king of double standards!

[sweetoneloves]

If a person treated a NARC as they treat their They would not stay with the person. So why does anyone want to stay with them. I woke up and ghosted him. I was there once, when I tried to flip the script???? He tripped the hell out. I had to run

[JEden]

You’ve been herded … go ahead and moo 🐮 😅 Sad but true 😢

[spiritdavis]

That’s how I felt in prison. Walking on eggshells not knowing what his attitude was.

[susannelee]

Thank you! Your funny. I like your charisma. I was with my ex narcissist for 20 years. I was beat down so bad I couldn’t even speak in the end.

[Cellia]

The fence Lee! I love the fence! I broke out of my narcissists cage and I refused to be controlled and told what to do like I'm his daughter or something. Probably why he left me. I was a very bad supply. I don't care either. No one takes away my freedom and my human rights to be human either. Screw him and screw that too.

[narcismeonderdeloep]

Just made a video about this a couple of months ago. It's so toxic that they don't play by the same rules. And in the end it's always about CONTROLE 😮

[tiffanyrodgers]

True I couldn’t have male friends but all of his were female

[MrBassem]

I used to say this all the god damn time 😂

“It bothers me when you do things that you say bother you when I do them, hold yourself to your own standards.”

What a fucking waste of time!

[teamoreo]

What annoys me to no end is the denial of the double standards existing even in the face of evidence. Instead I get an excuse or dismissal that the two things were not similar. I’m then accused of making stuff up to make him look bad when I know he is nothing but a good guy. Gaslighting what is that he replies.

[myriambrien]

Why does a narcissist think we are the crazy one !?!??

[LondonBridges-zkcy]

I made the mistake of cheating on a narcissist. Every since any and everything was fair game and covered under "I wouldn't be doing it if you hadn't done it first". I truly believe he actually cheated first but I was first to admit it and he continued because now he's justified.

[nellymarie]

This is so true everything you said in this video omg I swear I used to think I was crazy cause something in my spirit used to tell me that shit just didn't add up or seem right dealing with the Narc smh it's so sad and I never dealt with anyone like this til my Ex Narc 🤦🤦🤦

[southerncatlady]

Oh lawd... You mentioned that pen, and it's so accurate. Never thought of it that way before, but it's true. And I'm terribly claustrophobic. So not cool...
Every video, you say things that make me think. Thank you!

[spiritdavis]

He used to tell me you can go anywhere you want to go. But at the time there was only one vehicle so how could I do tray if you have the car. He stayed out over night and I know if I would’ve done that it would’ve been a problem.