Men NEED to understand about WOMEN's loyalty

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[cwdcompany]

That's the problem, those women will be loyal until their feelings change. And it will change.

[JeffreyCrisp]

A woman being "loyal" to HER feelings is literally the antithesis of loyalty.

[gpj]

The danger is that women, relying on their feelings, also do destructive things, which have no logical explanation, and later regret it.

[afroslacker]

This is the nicest way of saying...

"Women ARE NOT loyal"

[smz]

This is why I believe in the Christian notion of putting God first in a relationship. A woman who loves God will have a force and structure to honour that is beyond w.e. feelings you can give her, even as a high value/high integrity kinda guy. And God in your life will keep you in the highest frame possible to operate for you both and that she can respect even further.

[davidehl]

"Under the right conditions" says it all. It's conditional loyalty. Period.

[scottverge]

I learned this the hard way. She was incredibly loyal. Until she wasn't because her feelings had changed. But I had no idea they'd changed.

[markroden]

Being loyal to your feelings means you're not loyal 😂😂😂

[george-trad]

Yup, just happened to me. Her exact words, “I didn’t want or expect this to happen, but I was triggered and there was a shift in my feelings and I felt like i had zero control over it.”

[briannewman]

The key thing to remember here is that she is loyal to HER feelings, not to you or YOUR feelings. She is loyal to how you make her feel about herself. She doesn't really even care if you exist, as long as she continues to feel this way. When that stops, due to her changing her mind, or you not providing that feeling for her, then she will abandon you without a second thought. This is not real loyalty, it is self preservation. You don't matter, and you never will. Remember that.

[vedinthorn]

Being loyal to your feelings is being loyal to yourself for your own benefit. That's literally just not loyalty.

[torachan]

Good luck not only reaching that level of attractiveness to a woman, but MAINTAINING it over the years and against constant competition both in person and online

[SecretSquirrel]

"as long as those feelings are in their hearts" = "until they don't want to be"
= NOT LOYAL

[thedevilsadvocate]

And this gentlemen IS the piece of the puzzle you need to understand the most. Most of us men will never ever ever see this in our lifetime and that is ok, as long as you can accept it.

"She's not yours. It's just your turn."

[chotuverma]

I stumbled across this book, The Shadow Game of Attraction By Atruve, and I was not sure what to expect at first. But as I kept reading, I realized just how much we are not told about attraction, influence, and power. It is not the typical advice you hear everywhere. It actually exposes the hidden dynamics behind why some people seem to have an almost unfair advantage. Once you see it, you cannot unsee it. I do not usually recommend books online, but this one is different. If you have ever wondered why some people effortlessly draw others in while others struggle, this book explains it in a way that just clicks. Worth a look.

[lioninthemountain]

She's not being loyal to you, she's being loyal to her feelings

[TheHaiku]

A more accurate and simple way to put this is: a woman is loyal to herself.

[statik]

Feelings are up, feelings are down, feelings are all around. If you live your life by your feelings, you're going to be in for one hell of a roller-coaster ride, and it will be brutal. What ive learned, is to live an intentional life where you have goals that you can aim for. If you dont have anything in life to aim for, you're just going to be aimlessly wandering through life. ...and that's not good.

[TheSingingTrumpeteer]

They are not loyal to the man. They are loyal to their feelings for the man.

[AntonioBrandao]

Being loyal to your feelings is NOT being loyal to the man.

Being “loyal to your feelings” is basically the same as “I will do whatever I -feel- like, and if I have a crush on another man, we are over”.

That is NOT loyalty. That is basic egocentrism. Loyalty by definition is always to another person.

If your theory is correct, then women do not have the capability of loyalty.

From my experience, this does indeed apply to many women, but not all. I’ve met a couple of women who knew and practiced loyalty on a spiritual level.