when you feel like you have nothing to offer, you can do this...

This is something I've been thinking a lot about.

I feel that since I have experienced it myself, I have a unique perspective on this.

I hope to god it is useful or helpful in some way because I am very well aware of how serious of a subject this is.

This is just one tiny peice of the puzzle. it wont solve all your problems. But I do beleive it will shake the inner belief enough for you to start questioning if it is actually true.

Obviously, please go to a professional if you are dealing with feelings of worthlessness.

I just felt like I need to share what I've learned for anyone seeking answers here on youtube.

[myrawest]

Hi guys! I am overwhelmed by the love!! Thank you so much! I was terrified to post this one because I only want my vidoes be helpful and I didn't know if this one would help other people as much as it has helped me. But I see from the comments that it is having a positive impact!

If you believe in this message, if it has helped you and if you think more people should see it... please leave a comment and share the video, this will help the video reach more people who may need to hear it.

I love, love, love reading all your comments and feedback. Interacting with you is my favorite part of all of this.

[julieinmpls]

"If you have nothing to give, give a smile." That is SO powerful, because something as simple as that can set off a whole chain of great things. It can make a bunch of people feel good, which increases positive energy, which comes around back to you. Lots of wisdom here.

[eexaniouseksk]

I had in 2014 brain bleed and 4 brain operations the last operation i went to a coma for about two months and one day doctors asked my now ex wife and my parents to say thier good byes and disconnect me from life....i came back on the last day....so they put hold on everything and i guess they were all happy :) i was born from that day again and had to learn to walk and talk and much more..i battle with it all and today i won it all never the less i lost my wife and family down the road and end up being all by left the country and now i am starting new life once it has been rough ride but am doing oke. Smile is a powerfull act of kindness and cost you give it up and recive a lot more.

[doingisking]

Honesty is a scarce resource in YouTube.
Keep delivering :)

[oneworldonehome]

“Any gift, however small, improves the condition of humanity. You cannot see this, of course, but it is true because it is an aggregate. It is like a scale. If evil and oppression are weighing down the scale completely on one side, you don’t have something as great as that to counteract it, to balance the scale, to offset the overwhelming dominance of evil and circumstance, of ignorance, of oppression, of poverty and so forth. When you add to the other part of the scale something small, it seems to have no effect, but when others add something small, sooner or later, in time, the scale is balanced, and beyond this it moves in favor of what is true and natural for human beings—which is to be united with others, which is to be creative, which is to be in service to their families and cultures in the world, to preserve the world, to take care of people, to be inspired and to have the glow of an inner life within themselves. Even when circumstances look bad, even in the face of failure and defeat, the power of Knowledge is within you.”

If you resonate with this quote, I recommend exploring The New Message from God free online along with the work of Marshall Vian Summers.

[vegetasolo]

Your beauty is not only outside, but also inside, hidden in the kindness and care you have for others. You are beautiful

[wolfgangsprenger]

My father always smiled at me. I often wondered why. But now that I may listen to you, Myra, l'm beginning to understand. He had such a warm, friendly smile.

[admirbarucija]

I’ve been feeling this a lot lately!! I appreciate this 💛

[kemina]

Thank you so much Myra, this has helped me fight depression another day. Really means a lot that you posted this because for over ten years now I have felt I have nothing to give. You are appreciated and love your smile sister🤍

[keks]

I love this thought. Sometimes I find it hard to show genuine interest for someone because my social anxiety makes me focus so much on myself and how I think I appear to others. But I will try this and maybe I'll get better at it over time :-)

[skidrowoffroad]

I think most people have felt similarly at one time or another. I think it's great that this fella is showing up to your group gatherings. He's making an effort to get himself out there which is a huge step and kudos to you for reaching out to him despite his behavior. Keep reaching out and sharing. You have such a beautiful soul. Love ya, Myra! ....and don't forget to smile. :)

[georgeprime]

I remember a saying from a while ago that I've just been reminded of. ' if you see someone who has run out of smiles, give them one of yours.'

[Tjstev]

Myra words can’t describe how much you have helped me, I am literally you as a guy in every aspect. Even the same age. You’re a beautiful soul thank you very much for being you.

[johntrafford]

Oh, so pleased to see you back. Well done you for sharing!

[anon]

Everyone has something to offer. Meaning and value is in the eye of the beholder. Giving a smile is like lighting a candle than just cursing the darkness.

[VodkaSelekta]

Make one small change week and don't go back on it. After a year's worth of small changes every week your life will be very different and you will barely even recognize yourself when from when you started.

Good places to start are meditation/mindfulness/eating healthier/exercising more/cutting down on screens/learning about the human body and the science behind mental health. I truly believe if anyone implements everything on this list one thing at a time they can get themselves out of the deepest depression possible.

[wolfgangsprenger]

The world is so beautiful because it got Myra in it. 💖

[XDaosoadX]

Hard to smile when you are stressed out/tensed in social situations. I already try to be nice to people, to the point that I think I seem even more weird. Often I'm not able to have normal conversations with people. You are right that we feel to have to give something to people, that's a side-effect of low self-esteem.
Either way I believe like you that being nice is a good start to try to interact with people and it's better than doing/speaking nothing at all. (It's also a good character trait to keep to a healthy extent) But you still have to be careful, so you don't get exploited and don't stop building and trying to be able to show your real personality. Many people won't respect shy and kind people.
And letting the other person speak more is also a good advice, even though even listening to people often also makes me nervous, since in some way or another I have to react to what the other person was saying.

[jonathanplumley]

Messages are usually written in the condensation of rain soaked windows but only some of us can read. The background reminds me of a famous painter btw. God bless

[gerardovillacres]

You are a very special young Lady Myra. You are beautiful on the outside but more important in the inside. You care about others and give good advise on positive things to others. Whoever you end up marrying in the future will have a true gem!