A Lack of Boundaries Invites a Lack of Respect 💯

A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect...I want you to understand that the problem is not you being too nice. Too many times we don't establish healthy boundaries and that causes less than ideal situations to take place in our relationships.

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"You need to have boundaries. You need to be able to tell people "no." You need to be able to let people know when this is going too far and this is unacceptable."


“You have to be able to vocal and honest about the boundaries that we want set in our life and relationships

You can be a nice and respectful person and still draw the lines in regards to what emotional, spiritual, and physical boundaries you don't want another person to cross. The moment you are able to establish clear and consistent boundaries in your life you can begin to remove the negativity and unwanted relationships.

As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.

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[mollyanderson]

I definitely agree! I had to enforce my boundaries.. Like they say, “You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” Protect your energy at all cost! 💯

[lonnierashid]

It’s not always about setting the boundaries but..: Enforcing them!!!

[lebonhlapo]

Setting boundaries with FAMILY AS WELL. That's also very important too.

[Jheloas]

I do recommend setting boundaries. Then you will see who stays and who walks away when they can no longer use you for their own gain.

[tsuyayaka]

I set boundaries with my ex a few months ago and I haven’t heard from her since. 😂

[valerie]

Boundary violators. They’re everywhere!!!
This is a common topic in my therapy sessions.

[katoriaqueendom]

Currently dealing with this. Many men confuse kindness with weakness. He has taken advantage of my kindness one too many times. Now that I'm being more assertive he's questioning "us." My thing is don't expect me to be cool with you doing to me anything that you wouldn't want me doing to you. If you know you're not done playing around or you feel like you might miss something if you get in a relationship, cool, but go be a bachelor in your own space or be with someone who's okay with it. Don't try to live with someone when you know y'all are not on the same page or don't want the same thing. Be a man about it. Maybe it's bad timing. Maybe it's not meant to be. Either way a decent person with integrity wouldn't play games.

[chavonnehart]

I agree or else the person will take full advantage and run over. Also, from a spiritual perspective, the devil is good at using that against us. "CHRISTIANS are supposed to be nice and forgiving", as if saying no is a crime/sin. Saying no is necessary and healthy at times. We don't have to be rude, but we should have healthy boundaries to avoid being taken advantage of.

Thanks for the video!

[ericapaul]

Courting/dating in 2019 requires you to have boundaries and listening to what the Holy Spirit is saying about a person!

[dyoung]

So true. When I finally, after many years far too many years, set boundaries for my former mate in a nice way he dipped out and quickly found another victim. I've never been happier.

[aprilmallory]

I totally agree!!! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 I get told my “boundaries” or “standards” are too high but I disagree. I believe it’s necessary to have both of these in place. When the time is right, the right person will come and they will respect what I stand for! I’m not afraid at all to say NO lol! ❤️

[rosaliesullivan]

I struggle to enforcing my boundaries. Working on enforcing my boundaries & not give people too many chances!

[nsi]

Peace.. Facts... The same with children..

[ladyempire]

Sir....that was a WORD as they say. 😉Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Keep growing in your God given purpose.

[stevenorth]

Sometimes the people violating your boundaries don’t take a no for an answer when you’re being nice about it.

[katiaantonova]

This man said it best!! Exactly what I needed. Thank you. Many blessings!!!

[sassyone]

Knowing when to say no unapologetically is a true sign of maturity. I have no problem saying no and establishing boundaries, however, this does result in being by yourself too. I still have faith that the man for me is out there somewhere. I’m just trying to be patient and waiting on God to put us in each other’s paths. It’s not hard sticking to your standards but it is hard dealing with loneliness as a result of not settling for less than you deserve. Feels like a catch 22 at times but I try to be positive. Seems that the men who don’t have their stuff together are more aggressive in dating than the men who do have their stuff together....at least it seems that way in my city.🤷🏽‍♀️

[mikegarrens]

Respect is earned. It's not asked for. It's been like that since the beginning of time. If you are searching for respect, you are a very shallow person. If you are trying to make someone respect you, you might as well just say this person needs to like this person and not care about how they feel. It's expectations. That's the problem.
People just do not understand this. That's why they get in But always respect people as human beings. That's a given and that's the truth. Everybody have a good day!😊

[durgaambika]

I too agree. I overshared with my friend my personal problems and now she started using my infos against me and started disrespecting and Judgeing I should have not allowed that person to much close to me

[tamathawilson]

First, you have too let who ever is around you too let you know, do not talk too me any kind of way, and if so bye, , and move on, thanks for the video and God bless you