The REAL reason no one wants to talk about divorce.

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[nealart]

Oh my, lots of shaming comments here. Like she didn’t put any thought into this difficult decision. I’m sure it happened for sound reasons. Don’t judge what you don’t know.

[maverickjackson]

Perfectly said. I am in the middle of a divorce and the shame is real. But the peace is REAL-ER lol.

[nonFluencerNoWa]

The first step to destigmatization is speaking about it openly. Exposing the reality that most of us, MOST OF US, share in the same experiences and we’re not actually alone in the world.

TYSM for sharing Akouto ❤

[melissajustine]

Thank you for sharing! I have never been married or divorced, but conversations and content like yours helps me build some better understanding and empathy for those I meet in this life that have experienced these things. Wishing you a beautiful new chapter in your next journey! 🕊️💕

[JubeiKibagamiFez]

18:17 For a long time, women have been conditioned to "stick it out." Part of that shame is religious patriarchy. The political dynamic of marriage has been one sided for centuries and women have been getting the short end of the stick the whole time, and my mother is a testament to that. My father was no good, low down. I use to try and convince her to pack up and leave with us and her reason was always, "How are we gonna survive?!!" Subservience is not a real marriage and it is not real love, no matter how much a religion or government or whatever, says so.

[noluthandosibiya]

There's so much joy in the simplicity of just finally being able to get your cat ❤

[Loveroffood]

My divorce was the best thing in the world. My ex-husband is narcissistic, came out of the closet a year after our divorce, and is now my ex-wife.

[jjamerican]

I appreciate your perspective. Freedom and the lack of compromising with a romantic partner are big reasons why I prefer to be single. Having to not negotiate chores is another one! All the best on your solo journey however long it lasts.

[EveD]

Looking forward to you getting 100k subscribers

[denwerOkk]

There is a reason why there is a shame. Marriage is not supposed to be an entertainment. It is designed to be a hard work of survival where both partners work on benefit of their cooperation. Usually the reason divorce happens is one or both of the partners won't want to do the job and be selfish and caring only about their own benefits.

[JubeiKibagamiFez]

6:06 It's a shame that people get shamed for wanting to be happy instead of sticking out a marriage that both parties know was either rushed or shouldn't have happened to begin with. I got married because I thought I was doing the right thing... And then there was the wedding night confessions.

[exploringwiththeshiv]

BRO AS A SINGLE PERSON, THIS SCARY FR but thanks for sharing this because most people do not look severely inwards...

[chronicfatiguehermithiker]

To invest ourself into something for years and it fails and we become uprooted and have to start life over with less support system and the state just stamps a piece of paper to end it, that IS surreal.

[smilesallround]

Thank you for sharing! ❤ Congrats on the success of your channel 😊🙌🏿

[benitakay]

Fear of the unknown is a big reason for not taking that step along with the fear of being judged and shame.

[Kane.JimLahey.]

Wow this is incredible, what a revelation!

[goingut]

Growing up, I didnt know any better - even until my younger adult years, regarding divorce. I and many others believed in "one person, one soulmate, one life forever and ever." The thing is, it's not reality, and it's fine to go thru a divorce and go through life with different people in different phases in life. It matters how both sides handle things, but it doesnt mean we need to be locked in with one person forever, is What I've learned.

Look at it with fondness for the good memories and learned things from the relationship, dont be eternally bitter, and improve/move on from it. Similar to how folks should look at work/companies too . Life isnt black or white in many areas unfortunately.

If two people, a couple in a relationship have tried over and over numerous ways to fix a connection but it still can't work - they should look into separating. It's a part of life, people come and go. Too many people put so much into this belief of two people for eternity, and it sets up a ton of stress and shame as you mentioned, when things suddenly cant work out.

[peoplearebeautiful.]

Jesus loves you, he has a purpose for you. reach for him.

[JubeiKibagamiFez]

Sorry I can't stick around. I only have a 5 min break in between my routes.... But to get things going....
Divorce is a business, plain and simple. Lawyers make millions on uncontested divorces alone.... Just like marriage is a business. In my opinion, true marriage is a matter of the mind and heart, if you're committed to someone, truly, a piece of paper, or no piece of paper, won't change anything between two people. True love is always true and real commitment is always real.

[afamous]

Married before becoming Catholic to another non catholic and abandoned me and filed for divorce and never spoke to me again. We divorced a few months later. I joined the Catholic Church and the annulment process has been so stressful. Anyway the shame and embarrassment of it all is hard but I am grateful it ended because he truly didnt love me. Thank you for sharing this! thank you so much! Im on the freedom side of it now 😊