DATING MEN IN THEIR THIRTIES 30s | WHAT WE ALL NEED TO KNOW

The truth is that many of us will have interactions with these men and each of us need to know what we are getting ourselves into.

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[Xoutthebs]

Correction * gen z was born with a phone in hand. Us millennials were born during the transition period.

[mvelomt]

Ahhh Chengi!!! 😍😍😍 The knowledge you give us is priceless 🤞🏾🤞🏾 i deal with a lot of mellenial men... Ide love a video on how to deal with them (in a relationship). Am i forced to dumb down just because i understand why they are the way they are ?! 🙆🏾‍♀️

[ZariDV]

Millenials arent the generation that were born with phones in our hands. We were 90s babies. We are the generation who only got phones in our pre-teens to high school years and even then parents were very cautious about it even though the most we could do was call, text, listen to the radio and play the snake game. We had more access to becoming connected to each other but social media wasn't a thing until we were well into our teen years. Even Gen Z had a period where they didn't have access to phones in their childhood because their phones were smartphones and there was more danger for parents to worry about. Generation Alpha are the only true generation born with phones in their hands. They're the ones who get kid tablets, YouTube for Kids and Netflix profiles of their own.

[nataliagiraldo]

So what would you recommend to women in their 20s? Only dating men in their 40s? Love your videos 💕

[mads]

Not a fan of men my age. They want a mother not a partner😢

[sphinx_]

Both my sister (84) and myself (88) raised by boomer parents, are millennial babies and we were the generation that still played outside and only had a home phone till I was 14, when I finally got my first Ericsson flip phone. We had a super Nintendo when young, and original game boys, and the internet wasn't even a thing in our house or my friends homes till the late 90s. We are a very different and at times entitled generation for sure. We were the kids that got a 10th place participation ribbon at the sports carnival so we wouldn't feel left out, and told you will be whatever you want to be the sky's the limit, instead of taught what it is to try so you can win, that failure is an actual possibility if you don't try, and just because you dream of walking on the moon doesn't mean you will. Reality in some ways was distorted in the theory that we would go further if we were given the extra belief in us. But we lost some of that ability to learn how to be proud of real effort, or be a gracious loser and good sportman cheering on your friends and actually being proud for them . But we have brought something great to the table... we are the creative thinkers, the dreamers, the out of the box ideas group, the big hearts, and the last generation who got to experience what it was like to play outside with your friens on a weekend until dusk when your mum gave final call to come in before dark. Or knowing what it was like to not fall asleep with a phone or tablet in your hands interfering with your head before sleep. So you have to appeal to our hearts, our creative minds, and our need to have people around us to feel more of a connection to our roots and happiness . Luckily my parents raised me to be less entitled and to be able to rely on my mind and not electronics and internet for answers. All the men I have dated have also been millennials and it can be frustrating at times as it's a tendency of theirs to be a bit more attached to their mums or have mother wounds, as they were likely babied a bit more ( in my opinion). But that doesn't mean it's all as an entirety, and we all grow up at some point, and are hopefully able to do the healing work necessary. Especially as we typically learn who we are and what we want out of life in our 30s. I see it as the decade of understanding self and starting to settle into life more, when the 20s are more about exploring and figuring out where we stand in our world. Thanks for sharing 💖

[kat-ipvq]

I'm in my early 30s, still single. I have not yet found a man to settle with. Most men my age are either married or divorced with kids. I'm not a fan of being a step-mom, so I'm still single. The single men I've noticed are not as masculine as I'd hope they would be.

[itsi]

I'm a 22 year old woman. What would be a recommended age bracket for me to date if I'm seeking a man that can provide 70%-100%?

[zeinebchem]

I really don’t relate with the men of my age range.