How to date an INTJ (with LiJo)

Trye TypeMatch! Free personality type based dating app!
Download:

TypeMatch website:

#mbti #intj #16personalities #relationships

[elmoomle]

If an INTJ male is talking to a woman about any topic that's not related to his current purpose...he is flirting.

[KatrinaKatress]

As an INTJ, A dealbreaker for me is someone who does not put emphasis on their own personal growth and development.

[notavideographer]

INTJs don't flirt. INTJs stalk. And then we engage militarily after thorough strategy analysis.

[InternetLiJo]

Thanks for having me on Katie!! I really enjoyed your questions!

[Revaiel_]

INTJ males flirt when they are confident and with a friend they are comfortable with, and it is by using their humorous wit to make the person laugh.

[YonasonWeideman]

INTJ date ideas: various museums, date at home/ Netflix, park or nature trail, online/ Zoom date, walking around a college campus, anything that accomplishes something practical, am escape room, volunteering, etc.

[Elfen]

Lindsay, you're speaking my language. I think boyfriends who show up unannounced at work is a deal breaker because if I have a project I'm working on, any distraction will not be appreciated. And if a guy can make me forget that the world exists for a minute, I'm his.

[futuristicorange]

30 minutes of lindsay and kate flirting lol. If you wanna know what an intj flirts like, its usually like this but a bit more. Just having fun playful banter, while also talking about interesting topics. Well done you two. I love both ur channels. 🐨💛

[luisacordero]

My closest girlfriend is an INTJ and the male friend I’m interested in is also an INTJ. I love their brilliance and even when they appear insulting, I can see through it and know they deeply care.

[rebeccapem]

I'm an INTJ and my husband is an ISFJ. I come up with the big plans and he helps me carry them out.

[NanulSavage]

INTJ’s don’t care about the activity of the date since the purpose is to chat and get to know each other. But one can definitely list what are bad dates; movies, concerts, stuff that doesn’t allow the purpose to manifest.

[rodemates]

I'm an INTJ female and my ideal date is somewhere relatively quiet (outdoors/cafe) where we can just mainly talk. I want to know who the person is and if they are interesting to me. It's sink or swim. I like to strip away all the big distractions from what is really important in the beginning. Let's not waste either of our time is my thought. But I do understand that some people need the big distractions like movies and malls because they are so nervous. I'll go along with it sometimes but I don't like it. I mean I don't even really like those things on a normal day.

[yd]

That introduction was sooo INTJ! LOL
Anybody else to their guest : "can you introduce yourself for those who don't know you?"
INTJ : "Her name is x, link to her channel down below. So, first question : ..."
So efficient, i love it! Thx

[guillonremi]

INTJ's basically are trying to rationalise, even what shouldn't be, typically : love, flirting...
I don't know if it's common among INTJ's but I feel like deep down we're super romantic but we're so weak emotionaly that our TE older brother won't let anything threaten his little brother FI
looks like I'm doomed to remain forever alone ^^' (FI actually crying inside)

btw 22:00 climbing in tree... hum remembers me of where you'd spend a lot of time during your childhood Lindsey, am I onto something?^^ (don't be afraid I'm just another INTJ trying to solve everything ;)

[RelentlessRoxas]

Something to know about INTJ's; hard to get, easy to lose.

[hannapriskilla]

Date idea: As an INTJ, I would love it if you took me to an escape room and then dinner :) But it's maybe more of a third date idea..

You get to see how the other person works with you as a team, how they think, how observant they are, how good of a memory they have, how they work under stress, and how good they are at solving puzzles (and how competitive they are). Plus it's super fun.

[ProJanitor]

Golden pair intj plus entp lol great video!

[ClovisPiper]

I’m an ENFP female newly dating an INTJ male. This was so enlightening. What’s funny is that I am always rushing out the door and he is thinking of a million things to do.

[barbarat]

I relate to so many of the things LiJo says. Especially the deal-breaker, where people think "time together" = how much I love you. I find that true in all relationships not just romantic ones. I have always found It hard to express that to others who don't understand. I have felt bad so many times when people thought I didn't care about them or wanted nothing to do with them just because of time apart.

I can see that some feel deeply hurt when I don't spend enough time with them so I try to meet their needs. Although, I know within myself that "time spent together" doesn't equal my love for them. I find it inherently stressful that love should be defined by "time spent together" and I am always scared of not doing enough interacting with those kinds of people.

I have some people in my life that completely understand this either because they feel the same way or can put themselves in my head. I find it peaceful to be in relationships with those kinds of people because they understand that my love is unrequited and not something they have to earn (it just exists because of the person they are). That is why I seek out these relationships more, no fuss.

[notavideographer]

"SF" is where people meet. So true, and a helpful thing to be aware of. *takes notes*