What Do Men Find Most Attractive In Women | 5 Things You Should Know

What do men find attractive in Women. I interviewed men from 18 to 80 to find out just what their opinions on this is. We are truly Venus and Mars. #relationships. #venusmars. #maturebeauty #maturerelationships

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[aalbertsr]

I found it interesting about the "independence" factor. My first husband wanted me completely dependent. My precious second husband just died at 93 and after 33 years all he cared about was that I was by his side. Anything I did, wanted or whatever, was just fine with him. I ask the Lord every day to tell him how much I love him and I'll love him for all eternity.

[sherribennett]

I married for the first time at age 55 two years ago...I was willing to spend my life being single vs being unhappy with the wrong guy just to be married. Making me laugh was high on my list along with being kind...He is both...everyday with my husband is fun, full of laughs, and especially love...I’m so blessed 💖

Sandra, you look especially beautiful today!!

[texaslyoness]

I think of the very true line from the 80’s movie, Sex, Lies & Videotape. “Men learn to love the person they’re attracted to, and women become more and more attracted to the person they love.”

[inikidaisy]

I agree with you on what we women (or at least myself) look for in a man. When I was looking for a man after divorcing my first husband, I was 52. All I wanted was someone who was kind. Well, he turned out to be the kindest man ever. He said he was attracted to my looks when he first met me; however, we soon discovered we had a love for adventure travel. For the past 10 years we've gone everywhere from the Congo to Antarctica. My feeling is that as a woman, I take care of my physical appearance, but I also have a passion for traveling and animals. My main advice for women is to find someone who is kind and will put you first and adore you.

[Mamia]

I'm turning 60 early next year and think and feel I know exactly what I want in life now. I have learned to love myself and take good care of me.. Since I got divorced I worked on myself and established my boundaries. This is the time of my life I feel complete and found happiness from within. More men pay attention to me now, they say my positive energy is very attractive. I enjoy all the attention, if any man meets my standards that will amplify my happiness that'll be great! I'd rather stay single and content than be with the wrong company.

[littleblackbabycat]

I agree😊 I'm 49 and met my partner a year ago. He wasn't my type, i wasn't physically attracted to him but he made me laugh and and we just got along it was so easy to be with him. Thank goodness I gave him a chance as he is perfect for me, what I need and such a gentleman and now I adore him😘

[samiyam]

I really agree with you about women being attracted to kindness, and I would also say, someone safe... A lot of guys are angry these days...

[chadwickdavis]

I’m a 62year old man and the first thing I look at is a woman’s appearance, she doesn’t have to be beautiful but she has to do the best she can with what was dealt her, (men should do the same) she has to be confident in herself and look at each day as a blessing regardless of the circumstances, and BTW Sandra.. your a doll

[lynnydonnelly]

I really enjoyed this topic... thank you! I’m 64 my first husband died when I was in my 30’s with a 6 and 4 year old. I dated a bit and had a serious relationship that didn’t work out. After that I decided to stop looking until the children were raised. I really stopped looking and was just enjoying my life. When I was 50 a guy from my work asked me out. I knew he was a Christian and I knew he had been a faithful and caring husband. So I went out for coffee and we had so much fun!! I hadn’t laughed so hard in years. We had so much in common. I really appreciated the fact that he pursued me. I realized I had never been pursued before! I highly recommend it

[charlottebruce]

Does it matter what men want? Enjoy your life, have some close friends, make a lovely life for yourself, and help others, If a great man for you comes along then great, if he doesn't then great. You shouldn't find validation in someone else it comes with you. Strive to be happy whether with a man or not.

[bernadettedevereaux]

I used to work with a woman who always told stories about Charlie, her husband of more than 20 years. At lunch one day she told me that although she loved Charlie if he should die she wouldn’t remarry. She said it was because of the perpetual series of grinding compromises.
In my 30s I taught hand quilting to mostly married women in their 50s - 60s. They all said the same thing, that they wouldn’t remarry.
Now that I’m 67, I’m glad that I never married. Men require too much looking after. They want to take charge of the important decisions but they want me to take care if the much more frequent details: grocery shopping, cooking, tidying the house, scheduling medical appointments, reminding them to take their medicine, making travel arrangements, remembering birthdays, weddings, graduations, etc. And on top of those things, I should always look good and be ready for sex. Phooey!

[dancelover]

Hi Sandra, you are a beautiful woman inside and out. I was married at 23 to a fun loving man.
He got sick at a very young age and decided not to open a pharmacy but work for one. He said to me, "we are going to play the rest our lives". He was 23 and the doctors told him he had about 5 years to live. He was diagnosed with Hotchkins Disease. We had our two beautiful girls and they played with us. Snow skiing, we had a boat and water skied, tennis,
bowling. sky riding, you name it. We were married for 42 years! He has been gone for 12 years
Loads of fun, but I never felt like my own person, I was into my husband who I loved very much. I am now well grounded and learned to fend for myself. I would love to meet some one who loves life and adventures, and has a great smile. I was against it for a long time, but all of a sudden I'm getting that feeling again. I am 78 have always worked out so I'm still in pretty good shape, as good as you can be at 78. Not looking for marriage as I'm happy by myself and my animals. But would like to meet a kind healthy man with a sense of humor.

[annamillan]

You told young boys didn't find you attractive when you were younger, looking at you it's hard to believe that. You are still a beautiful woman.

[libragirl]

Sandra, it's very true . Im in my late late 40s!!!! And i would rather have some man who was kind good natured and generous in spirit. Men are but not all people that look good, are good, it's great to have someone you can laugh with and just be your self....

[ddoris]

Best advice I ever got: Go out with lots of men on separate dates, do NOT sleep with any - get to know them as friends. If one or two drop off, you won't be sad and will still have the others to keep you company. When the star hitter shows up, cut the rest of the team loose. Also, if you do meet someone, maintain SEPARATE properties/residences and just "date" him - go on holidays together, family events etc, stay over at each other's places - ensure you have a pre-nup or contracting out agreement in place. You're not his Mummy or his Nursie he can afford his own medical care and hospital cover/insurance. Also, don't for a moment be naïve enough to believe that he's planning to be monogamous and exclusive with you (unless he's old, sick and needy - i.e. undatable). If you find him attractive, many others will too. You need to be okay with that. MOST men will lie to your face "Of course you're my one and only darrrrling, sweetheart" - yeah right. Ladies, I am a REALIST - Greetings from New Zealand.

[joepratte]

my wife and i were drawing apart. we had different interests. then she had a stroke.
she realized she needed me and i was so scared of losing her. we came together and our love for each other grew so strong. lost her now but will always love her.
for me the most important trait is inner beauty.

[glgardener]

I think it was Dr James Dobson that said: "We all know men can see better than they can think". LOL. For me a man must have my same spiritual beliefs. Plus: honesty, intelligent, kind, similar interests, fun, health oriented, educated, good provider, loves to travel, soulmate, good manners and grooming, and good with conversation. I checked all these areas out before I married my husband and we have been married 50 years which we both can hardly believe. Time goes by fast when you are having fun. Enjoyed your topic.

[belvadalidowich]

I met my husband when I was 14 years old at a dance. He asked me to go steady (be his steady girl) on that same night I met him and I said yes. We stayed together and got married when I was 18 years old (he was 22) . That was 1962 . Yes, we are still married and very happy. But independence? No way. I guess we are stuck in being old fashioned. He always did the driving if we were both going somewhere together and he still does. He paid for all of our dates. He was always the gentleman but I was expected to always be the lady. He opens my car door and still does. I was also surprised that none of those you interviewed said they wanted a good cook. My husband would have put that first. I learned how to make all of his families ethnic dishes and to this day I honestly think he loves my cooking abilities very much. If I were gone and he had to choose another I am certain if she could not cook he'd be gone. Also no one mentioned looking for one of the same faith, or morals. Anyway it was a very interesting video. I do think a little independence is good but not too much. I believe our 58 years of marriage and still going is because we both gave up a lot of our independence. Just a thought.

[christinadaggett]

Hi Sandra. I love that you find such interesting topics to discuss. I agree with what the older men said. I'm 60 and have been married to my husband for 37 years. I would say when we were young and first met, that our relationship was based on more of a physical attraction and that over the years, our communication has gotten so much better. We talk about everything and we're best friends. Since my husband retired, we've been traveling the world and discovered that this is something we both love. Now, we're renovating an old apartment in Georgia (Europe) and are having the time of our lives. I guess you could say we've really grown together.

[mapitsorangaka]

I'm looking for a friend first, friendship is important this stage first, friendship first with no rush, no pressure mm