Why should men make the first move?

[Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

Say it with me now...
*"MEN CANNOT READ MINDS."*

[Young_Metro]

I mean there’s nothing stopping women from making the first move

[Prence]

Guys love it when girls make the first move. It’s something that a guy will remember for the rest of his life.

[dpbzedf]

Western men are stepping back so bears can step up.

[rogerm]

A woman makes the first move on me who I reject; I don't tell anybody
I make the first move on a woman who rejects me; she tells everybody

[FinalFaintasy]

“Please talk to me so I can tell you to go away. I need to feel important while being left alone.”

[waltski]

Gents, once you learn not to care, life becomes so much easier and pleasant.

[andycap]

00:14; "Leave women alone..." .Message received and understood.

[shawnclifford]

My wife made the first move, because she realized I was completely unaware. So glad she did. Keep it up Lady J. 🤙☘️

[stephenfoster]

Men are not waiting for women to make the 1st move. They're just protecting their peace by avoiding the chaos of modern feminism.

[jackuzi]

One phrase you'll hear used is "unwelcome advances"--but whether they're welcome or not is only possible to know after the fact. The only way to avoid making "creepy unwelcome advances" is to never make any.

[willwinters]

Women still haven't figured out that men have developed the ability to just say "No.
No more. We are not instinctually obligated to you, any more.
We're past that now."

[cairnex]

All of these women say some variation of "What's wrong with men" when nobody approaches them, they never stop to consider the possibility "What's wrong with ME."

[jameslauder]

Feminism - Men are damned if they do and damned if they don't.
Stay single guys.

[zeerox]

Last time I asked a girl, she freaked out and that was not a pleasant experience, especially when everyone was watching. Then I stopped, but then there was a girl who made a move, we been together now for over 3 years. Its better if the girls make the move to be honest, because men are not disrespectful like the majority of feminism girls are.

[bragiodinsen]

chasing women is a giant waste of time you could spend on yourself. if a woman isnt wise enough to notice and value my worth, then she isnt worth being treated well by me

[LanceTobey]

Women: We're strong, independent women who make our own money and don't need a man, but if we're dating you had better be prepared to spend lavishly for our attention, and maybe even pay our bills if we expect it! And approach us when we want to be approached, but not when we don't! Oh, and men should completely change all their behaviors that might, possibly make us uncomfortable because we're delicate little flowers that need protecting at all times from big scary men!

Men: *throws up hands* Oh, eff us. We're out...

[marekprazak]

it is not about man not approaching.. its about that girl being butthurt that she so saw dude out of her league that maybe smiled in her general direction and now she wants to justify lack of her confidence to try anything

[seanwolslau-holdren]

Bottom line is: The only way to win is not to play.

[kathleen]

I met my guy at his job. I asked him where something was, we kinda had a little connection, I figured why not, and went up to tell him I couldn't find the product but said to him "hey I think we should hang out sometime" he was taken a back and then I said "you should take my number." So he got a pen and paper to write it down. I was approaching it from a friend, hang out space, so I didn't feel uncomfortable asking him with any pressure of romance. A week later he called me to ask me out to a concert. We've been together ever since. It's been 10 years. He said he had a lot of girls who were interested in him at the time, but it was me that he liked because of how forward and direct I was :) take this as your sign to be bold!