Biggest SECRETS of the Narcissist that they DON'T Want You To Know

In today's video Jill explains the biggest, deepest and darkest secrets the Narcissist has, that they do not ever want you to know. If you have ever wondered what they are hiding about themselves, then today's video is for you.

Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic abuse and Cptsd. She uses her experience and what she has learned to help educate others and bring awareness to narcissistic abuse. She is also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and works with clients all over the world heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation and Complex Ptsd.

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[theenlightenedtarget]

Here’s the video about a Collapsed Narcissist.

[ft]

When they realize that you know their true colors, they will hate on you. In worst cases they will simply ignore you and treat you like you do not even exist.

[cefarther]

Love this lady's style and information. Well done.

[froggyfrog]

Great point about the mirroring and how we can fall in love with ourselves by their mimicry, it happened to me recently and it took me two years of hard slog to figure it all out which I did very recently. Its mind blowing. Its stranger than fiction. I also think people with childhood abandonment trauma are very suceptible to this mirroring sould-mate stuff of the narcissist's because it enables us to for the first time see our inner child reflected back at us, to see our true self without bad object and its intoxicating.

[laurelvance]

This describes perfectly mine and my narc husbands relationship from the very beginning. Wow! Right on target.

[edcorrigan]

Have you ever encountered, what I like to call "mirroring", which is copying the purchases, activities and interests of those they associate with? I won't go into too much detail but I've noticed that trait of someone who I'm convinced is a narcissist. Thankyou in advance.

[treatpeoplewithkindness]

This can relate to a narc targeting people to be friends.

[dalmaingrant]

I am not surprised i always know my narcissistic other was hiding some deep secrets

[jessmason]

🤔 I hope they know that underhandedness is a major turn-off.

[MLJ]

Another great video Jill 😁✌️. Nailed it here 🔨.

[funlovinbloke]

Everything in this video is very familiar to me. I had a love relationship with a covert narcissist. She used all the tricks and the trades but I am happy I ended this fake relationship after 8 months. These people are sick, damaged, insecure, immature cowards and don't respect others and also themselves

[hhsg]

100% 🎯. Everything you said is correct. After 13 months, I finally got out 11 days ago. He did indeed think he was ‘special’ and superior because he constantly told me, no one is worthy of him and I wasn’t smart enough…..he has no idea I recorded 140 of his rants and threats from 30th june 2022 and the police have them as well. On their recommendation I am taking him to court for not only domestic abuse (emotional and mental) but also coercion, which is a criminal offence in the U.K. he’s been doing this for over 40 years and I’m the only one standing up to this nonsense. He couldn’t wait to get rid of me and now phoning around his exes (yes, they believed him when he said it was all their fault) trying to get character references.

[FrostSoul-qskq]

This whole Mirroring deal is new to me ... Because showing high levels of empathy was not something they showed properly.

[warrenbradford]

I know narcissists chose us for our vulnerabilities and that they needed us more than we need them already. The rest are new to me. I sharing these secrets with my therapist. Thank you for the video!

[m.f.richardson]

Always informative.
Thank you.
Peace 💕🇺🇲

[scleo]

What an excellent explanation. Yes, they need constant admiration to say the least. What a nightmare

[sandracameron]

I just came across your video and this information is exactly what I was looking for. I just recently figured out that I’ve been with a narcissist for the last 7 years and no one has done this content. Thank you so much. So many answered questions.

[Wonderwall]

Thank you, Jill. You're as beautiful & charming as ever.

[makrofocus]

When you realize that what you fell in love with is your reflection, you start thinking who is the narcissist here... :)) But seriously, these daemons that want to attach to you should be avoided as soon as you realize what they are. #GreyRock

[keithstewart]

My mother's secret is the fact she's a Sadistic Catholic...