Jordan Peterson: Why some men can't get women

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[pablosanchaz]

I cleaned my room. I swear it changed my life. In no time I was cleaning the house then I was cleaning up my life.

[mashable]

The fact that this man is giving away this knowledge for free and that he has haters in the world proves how messed up people are.

[scrimpmster]

I remember that my boss once pointed to my desk, which was a mess. He said that a cluttered desk is the sign of a cluttered mind. He wasn't too happy when I pointed out that his desk was empty.

[diegomendes]

I’m so happy that this guy is in our generation. He is brilliant

[johnyang]

I love education but hates school. I enjoy learning on my own pace rather than being forced to take in some information just to be able to put it on a piece of paper for a grade. Videos like these are my favorite

[thesunflowchannel]

Jordan: go clean your room
Guy: is that psycho therapy?
Jordan: Well it depends on how you conceive the limits of your being

[SallyWPM]

It's crazy how knowledge can make you cry, realizing how wrong you were from the start.

The best part is when you keep watching the video and you realize also that it's not too late to fix what you couldn't fix before

[jossal]

I don’t who all these kids are, but they were extremely lucky to have had these classes with him.

[NH-hpnn]

“Once you aim, the world will reconfigure itself around that aim.” Who else feels like this is really true and has happened to them in one way or another?

[dezzorhellian]

ok so now i have cleaned my room
i guess girls are on their way to my house

[CrazycruxGaming]

Watching this three years after he really changed my life is incredible! So many of these things he's saying are implicitly understood by me now. Retrospective confidence is great!

[mrmyorky]

12 years ago, in the midst of a period of confusion, I decided to write down on paper what my real wants and desires in life were rather that having a mass of jumbled up expectations that were mostly unfulfilled and still in my head. I looked at that paper on most days and realized just how powerfully it confirmed that I now had a real direction.
As Jordan say's, the world really did seem to 'reconfigure itself', not in an immediately obvious way, but opportunities and choices became clearer and easier to make along with the realization that I'd been going in a direction that was not right for me. The key for me is staying true to what you truly want from life and being truthful to yourself.

[YourNickIsTaken]

0:00 to avoid inner chaos start make order in your own living space
9:34 on communication in relationships

[grfuldad]

It's a really good message. Woman (good women) want a man who is competent which can be confused with confidence. Competency is much more and is a true confidence without the messy overuse of Ego. You attract people based on your competency. Cleaning the room is not about being organized it's about taking CONTROL of your surroundings. Great message, far from easy but it's a pattern of behavior just like bad patterns of behavior.

[JC-XL]

Random guy: Why am I not getting any women?
Jordan Peterson: You've not cleaned your room, punk!

[bangbangcomics]

I cleaned my room, did the dishes, took a shower and am currently crying myself to
Am I alpha yet?

[cozmovox]

when my room is a mess, I feel the discrepancy with my psyche and my room, then I clean it up, and I feel much better....it IS psychotherapy ! :-)

[beemo]

Key points:
1. Your room is a reflection of your mind, which reflects your life
2. Improve your room, so you can improve your life
3. Be careful what you focus on. Spend your time on good goals
4. Be open to learning new things from others
5. Good relationships make you grow

[christinagates]

@7:30

He talks about having your emotions and your thoughts come into synch—this is exactly what finding your intention is about! Intention is everything!

[ilag]

Wherever I catch myself about to make a poor decision, Jordan Peterson’s voice pops in my head reinforcing the right choice- such an influential human