The REAL Reason Men Cheat On Their Partners - Jordan Peterson Explains Why Men Cheat

The REAL Reason Men Cheat On Their Partners? - Jordan Peterson Explains Why Men Cheat

[sandrasolimine]

I'm glad that he touches base on this. Too many men out there are putting out videos Saying basically that it's so much worse if a woman cheats. However, when a man cheats it's not as bad Because, Somehow when it comes to sex men get a pass on that behavior. I'm really tired of That. It's wrong all around. It doesn't matter if you're a man cheating on your woman or if you're a woman cheating on your man. Not one act is worse than the other. You're betraying your partner at the end of the day. You are violating your partner's boundaries and not caring about the consequences that your partner is going to have to suffer because of that.

[listentogodsvoice]

A real man or a woman is actually who know how to control themselves!
These sort of men and women are actually the most powerful human beings on earth !

[Messiahandmaster]

JP is right as usual. We should strive for more than just animal impulses and cheap validation if we want to truly become evolved and civilised. Sadly people are addicted to that quick dopamine fix, through sex, food, drugs, alcohol, social media etc. Society/media encourages these base behaviours so we always stay in a low/pliable state and help tge rich get richer.

[strangeworld]

i never understood this verse in the bible until now, "all sin you do is outside your body except adultery."
if you treat someone as casual sex partner you are treating yourself the same way. interesting.

[TheOrignalTRockz]

“You should pick one. That’s a sacrifice!”
And the other guy is nodding.
He’s basically saying “Men don’t love, all men love is sex. Not having sex with any woman they might could sleep with, is a sacrifice.”

No matter what she is like - remember Arnold Schwarzenegger having a child with his quite unattractive housekeeper while he was married to a gorgeous woman.

Those guys can feel so understanding all they want, women feel nothing but disgusted and less and less respect learning that men act like stray dogs and try to make an excuse by saying it’s in their nature. What is the difference between a man and a boy? A man takes full responsibility of his actions and is in control of himself.
A boy makes excuses, trying to blame anyone and anything for his own failures and mistakes, but himself; feeling all sorry for himself when he’s confronted with the consequences of his actions.
A world full of boys, immature and whining instead of growing up and taking responsibility for themselves.

Don’t start a relationship unless you are in love. Its easy to identify: You ACTUALLY don’t find it difficult to “sacrifice” your best part to that one woman exclusively.
And if that feeling blurs, improve your communication with her and see things from HER point of view BEFORE you jump to righteous - and straight up wrong - conclusions that she isn’t “giving you enough”. Make sure YOU give her the respect, admiration and support you want from her first! Or you will end up as one of those cheaters who cry for themselves when they realize they were nothing but being all selfish and lost her now.

Stop making excuses and playing the victim; those “lining up women” either hope to make the man fall in love and get him exclusively, what you could call naive or worse, but that’s just how it is, or those women got/get paid - and as sure as hell they sell this “service” for they have to make money and don’t see any other way.

[spiritedaway]

i wouldn t call him a man if he cheats, a man has morals and integrity, if he wants someone else just be a man by being honest.

[nryan]

Great video. If you're mature then you'll make the right, moral decision.

[danielwalley]

I think this is one of the funnels a maturing man has to go through. Especially if you started off without female attention, and built yourself up to the point where you have options... it can be difficult to let go of the urge to chase and sleep around once you find yourself in a relationship. But for the sake of the person you love, and for the sake of your own future, I think it's something you have to learn to manage.

[jayell]

The trouble is all cheating involves lying to your partner. That is no real relationship at all.

[glenncuthbertson]

He still danced around the question, yes it may be noble in choosing the moral highground. However, the statistics say affairs and casual sex is rife. The question is "Why"

[sallybabybabybaby]

if you love someone you shouldn't cheat, i always say it's okay to find someone attractive to you but it's NEVER okay to act on those emotions wether it's emotional or physical cheating

edited:grammar

[pa]

Marrying a men and giving your whole damn life to them is worst. They're all players and cheaters. Better not to waste time

[Monas]

It was Bill Burr who said that. Not Lous C. K. I love Louis but give credit where it's due

[blossommay]

Not all men cheat. Men aren't animals. Only boys who cheat will find excuses such as "humans aren't made to stay only with one partner in monogamous relationship" yet they never say women should have multiple partners too. My ex just cheated thousandth time today and I cut all ties today. Thanks to people like that who talk about "sacrifice" and normalising cheating women like me choose to give more chances but it is wrong. Any person either a man or woman or any gender who cheats is just selfishly disrespectful towards their partner and not truly in love. I disagree to believe that all men cheat if they cannot sacrifice themselves. If anything, it goes both ways, a woman sacrifices her life too by being loyal to one guy.

This video sheds a bad light on men and cheating and as a woman I find it quite awkward and uncomfortable how many times women are seen as objects, like a set of dolls men choose from based on how she looks. My ex and most guys who cheated chose to cheat based on looks and because they knew they could hide it and get on with it, if they were real men, they would leave the relationship as men with balls.

Ex also didn't, he even told the girl that he would lose us both, he acted selfishly hiding it from me but she told me. She knew about me and still cheated but at least I learnt the truth. So 99% of time men cheat because they think they can and because they are snobby, selfish.

[StarSurvivor]

Im 46. Never have I cheated on a boyfriend or former spouse in any kind of way. If you do, you really have to be ok with lying, betrayal, cheating...being a complete scumbag. No morals or empathy for your partner and wanting your cake and eating it too- theres a term for this its called being a Narcissist

[redwolf]

A man is only as faithful and as loyal as his options.

[GabrielB]

Anything that gives pleasure can be addictive

[ldyg]

very true about the fact that most men have a limited pool of potential sex partners, this is good for understanding their sexual behaviour

[aaroncohenour]

Wouldn’t the inability to separate sexuality from other aspects of life actually be a sign of immaturity. The ability to express and express sexual freedom while still building healthy relationships (people actually do this, successfully ) seems like a sign of greater maturity and intelligence.

[FraBra]

They do it because they can. Simple as that. No need for a philosophy major to understand it.