Single Women || Becoming functional in your 30s

[kamogelothamaga]

I totally agree, I got engaged when I was 22 because I was extremely feminine, focused, warm and loyal. Things went left when I adopted the feminist mindset, I was constantly challenging him now, sure he has his issues however I put fuel to the fire with my aggressive attitude… we parted ways and I vowed to do better.

4 years later, I have toned down, I had to do extensive work on myself. I’m extremely feminine, firm but also gentle, respectful and overall loving. I know my place and trust me I don’t want to compete with the masculine energy… and because I have rested in my femininity I met one amazing man… ladies please listen to Abuti here✨

[thereallehasa]

Purity, femininity, respect, nurturing and loyalty. Looks come after all that.

[ronniewiseman]

I'll START LISTENING TO YOU MORE. GREAT PERSPECTIVE

[DineoMpala-qgbl]

Another day, another great video and insights. Feel better. ❤

[ref]

Truth but I'm staying single. It's tough. it's rough. Can i be 60% happy with life and be ok. Good luck to those still aiming for 100.

[PhumudzoMaguga]

Can you please also if not yet in a previous episode make a video explaining what a leading man is in a relationship. With a great number of South African men being raised in female lead household Most of us don’t know what that is or what it looks like. Sometimes we take it too far and become abusive and sometimes we become too weak and get dominated.

[phumlanindlovu]

0:47 😩😭💔🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "Man man man..."

[simangalisondlovu]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 negotiate uthi ngicela ungiboleke indoda yethu🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Whoo_shem]

Ive not been looking to date but women have been asking me out. All of them in their 30's and have kids. Im in my 30's The young women are not actively looking for me to settle, they looking for a nice time and to rack up her body count. The younger women are looking to run around having 3 guys in her life having a jol. What im looking for? To settle, ive been looking to settle since I was 25....i have been finding younger women who are playing games. Btw i have my own house, own car, no kids and a stable income. 30 year olds with kids are running after me and i dont want them! I dont want to be a stepfather. Why do women want to settle when yal have kids but when yal dont have kids you looking to date more than 1 guy?

[boitumelobmolomo]

3 kids that's a wild statement on the topic of accountability

[ThandiweBolsiek]

I knew I was going to be triggered but then I decided to listen right through. No lies detected. Amahloni kimi😢🥴🥴

[thembangwenya]

He indirectly advised women to be homewreckers

[RebuildingLerato-xb]

Mina I found a Dimond guy unfortunately his married and I not in the mood to be a home wreckeri live him alot but he doesn't want second wife being a side chic is not for me never applied for it

[zimasajam]

In your view. Do you think successful men in their 30s should date women in their 30s? Despite these are the men who were single in their 20s.

[gizmo_kzn]

I wish you had elaborated on how a sister would need to step up in the place of her simp, should shxt hit the fan excuse my french. Perhaps with regards to which duties?

[Nthabeleng]

Almost didn’t watch this video because of the triggers it started with. You are a smart man you should know better to engage in discourse rather than venting. Romantic mysigonour of black men to black women vice versa. These types of chats don’t help in that in anyway, especially in platforms where ppl are promising to watch in numbers. Y’all need to do better. But I understand you are venting. It is your platform. Your opinions.

[unitedcolorsofafrica]

Oh Penson, let ingane zabantu be with their Thalalaz😂😂😂😂

[pillay]

Of 10k women hearing these facts, 99% of them just can't absorb it bro.
God made those creatures too stubborn, emotional & ego fixed to understand how they lose @ their own game..
Maybe after 5 more burns, they'll get some wisdom to understand what we gents are trying to fix for them & society
Over all

[unitedcolorsofafrica]

Each to his own, and I have much respect and appreciation for a man like Penson, ey kodwa ngiyafisa uqonda kabanzi ngalama nails ablue or black asefakwa namhlanje. Ningixolele, I'm not with it, I just curious, respectfully so.

[hazelnutbar]

Women, date and marry for provision. Women in your 30's go for older men from their late 40s, 50s and up abanemali and savings and retirements in place etc. Leave the little boys.