Why All INFJ Men Feel Invisible & Overlooked

Why All INFJ Men Feel Invisible & Overlooked | With a preference to be the lone wolf of their social surroundings, the INFJ man knows what it's like to go it alone. However, one of the many INFJ man struggles comes down to the fact that they have a hard time being payed attention to when they need it.

Most INFJ men know the feeling of being completely ignored, overlooked and forgotten about.. But what's really behind it?

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00 - INTRO
00:49 - Number 1: Because it’s somewhat true..
02:12 - Number 2: They learned how to go unnoticed
03:40 - Number 3: Their chaotic upbringing made them feel invisible
05:06 - Number 4: They choose introspection over socialization
06:31 - Number 5: Selflessness
08:02 - Number 6: They tend to lean towards being more passive than assertive
09:40 - Number 7: They always read the room and adjust their demeanour accordingly
11:00 - Comment Question!

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[PSYCH-O]

Hey PSYCH-Os! 👋
*So, do you feel overlooked as an INFJ man?*
Comment down below 👇

[mendotafinest]

I’ve always felt misunderstood. My intentions have always been pure even when it went against what others WANTED. I followed my moral obligation, something majority of world don’t fully understand.

[uhohfinellio]

This poem was born out of social frustration, and that feeling that everyone else got the life handbook but me. I didn't know why I always felt like an outsider or on the fringe when everyone always had good things to say about me. I noticed and focused on superficial differences in appearance and the ease of someone's social flow and popularity. I felt like I had all the wrong features, that was why. It had to be. It's easier to accept that than my personality, who I am, was the root of rejection. I wrote this 8 years ago. This is the 1st time I've publicly shared it.

I Once Knew A Frightened Boy
By Mike Finelli



I hate myself,
and whatever made me weird
I dont have cool hair
it's too poofy, coarse, and dark
so you dont stare
Not in the way I would want someone to stare
I dont have those eyes
No gorgeous, colored, piercing eyes to bare.
To draw you in
To make you care
If I can't mesmerize, approach you?
I wouldn't dare
This I know
I see it, feel it everywhere I go
It's like a show
To watch the pretty people living all around me in the flow.
I feel their glow
I'm so confused by life
and they're all in the know
I feel them having fun without me
When they laugh real hard I doubt me
Are they snickering about me?
And as I wonder if it's ever gonna end
In walks Paralysis
my closest friend
If l'm quiet, maybe they'll like me enough to not shoo me away
So I blend
I just stand by dumb,
not knowing what to say
And tell myself it doesn't really matter anyway
From the back I can always see
everyone laughs for him
but not so much for me
Even when I tell the joke in the exact same silly, animated way
Would I be super funny too
if l had colored eyes to tell a joke through?
I bet she'd like me if l saw through blue
But l'lI never know
So I hide away
Where I don't have to worry how I look and feel
or what I'm supposed to say
But I don't grow
So the hill gets harder and
harder and harder and harder
and harder and harder to climb each day
How come I don't know much
but I always know that failure's on it's way?
l've had to learn to love the bottom of the hill and the color grey
Sorry that ľ'm boring
I don't do much, so I have nothing much to say
It's much easier when I pull me out of the way
So at home I stay
And at home I play
Maybe l'll go out again tomorrow
but not today
Today I play
I play my way
I know it's lonely
but alive l'll stay
And maybe eyes won't matter guite as much one day
Not in that way
Maybe my shit colored eyes will see there is no hill
there is no grey
Open my 3rd eye, and see there never was that I chose the fray
But not today
So at home I stay
And alone I play
Think I'l make a mask
so no one sees my pain
If they see sunshine
they won't notice rain

[Jack.Waters]

We INFJs are a peculiar bunch, aren't we? We crave the spotlight when we want to shine, but once our moment in the sun is over, we retreat back into the shadows like a shy vampire. We put on a spectacular show, delivering speeches that could rival Shakespeare's soliloquies, but then we're off to our bat caves, wondering why no one is throwing roses at our feet.

In those moments of solitude, we might feel a twinge of abandonment, like a forgotten sock in the laundry room of life. But fear not! We quickly rationalize that the accolades are fleeting anyway, and our true reward lies in knowing that someone, somewhere, might have benefited from our words.

We're often misunderstood, like a misunderstood genius in a world of simpletons. People just don't get us, and that's okay. We process information faster than a supercomputer on caffeine, and our thought processes are more convoluted than a plate of spaghetti. But hey, we've accepted our quirks, so why can't you? Just accept our answers and move on, like a cat ignoring a dog's barking.

And let's not forget our social skills, or lack thereof. We're about as socially adept as a hermit crab at a cocktail party. We never know when to leave, so we rely on our trusted friends to give us the signal, like a secret code between spies. "It's time to go, " they whisper, and we respond with a casual "ok, " as if we were just waiting for permission to return to our natural habitat of solitude.

[spmoran]

I am involved with a INFJ man . I am a INFJ woman. We are both quiet storms . He is a lovely man . But a direct target for Narssists. As i am older i told him not to get involved anymore . He did not have a great childhood . And he has Autism to. He was bullied as a child . He doesnt like gossips and he likes quietness . Going into the forest for inspiration and strenght . I find nature good too. He is kind . And inlove him.

[bumblebee_ms]

As an INFJ all of these resonate with me. I would have loved to have met an INFJ man.

[sajidulhasan]

Bcoz we don't like the spotlight and have to deal with the consequences of that.

Plus I think I rely too much on letting others show they care if they naturally want to, rather than forcing it. Turns out most people can't appreciate what's in front of them

[howyduinyall]

Invisible, misunderstood, underestimated, ignored,
Looked down upon
Spoke to as a simpleton, it’s a never ending list or so it seems.

[marcusdj]

I've felt like the invisible man a lot. This is something that dates back to my childhood. Being overlooked is nothing new for me.

[firstcor]

Loved this video ! So true! Thank you!

[GenieD-ljyc]

This seems very applicable to INFJ girls too.

[gr]

The reason for your "invisibility" as an INFJ when you are an adult: You would be a leader in a normal world, a humane leader who is rich. Wealth should be visible in externals. But because the world is the way it is, many INFJs don't live the life they should, so to speak. If he had these appearances, no one would be interested in "oddities", minor character flaws.

[MagnumTalawah]

I worked on myself so I know how to stand out if need be. I dress very well n my body is muscular. I'm very careful how n when I turn on being social because I know it doesn't last long.

Being alone gets boring so I like being around ppl but off to myself until I see someone worth my time. If anyone tries to walk over me, I quickly show them I'm willing to take this as far as they want to. I don't play that crap.

[Mystic_spirit-k]

In india INFJ also suffering from Unemployment because i didn't get by 27 year of age. 😢
Very disappointing to live alive in india .

[jaredvaughan]

INFJ YouTuber Ross Rosenburg talks about how codependents are attracted to narcissists.

I think this is a common INFJ trait.