The Art Of Being Mysterious

How you can master the art of being mysterious so women feel more attraction, curiosity and interest in you.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is new to my work. Since he has only read through my book, 3% Man, one time, he’s becoming attached to some of the things he has read and is in danger of acting like a robot on his future dates. He brings up being mysterious and how being evasive and not answering her questions will make a guy appear evasive and like he has something to hide instead of being charmingly mysterious. I explain the subtle nuances of making a woman work to get to know you versus telling her everything about you and the differences between being mysterious, charming and playful, and being evasive.

“Women are like cats when it comes to dating in that they tend to stick around to find out more about guys who are mysterious, unpredictable and exciting versus guys who are an open book, boring and predictable. Being mysterious is akin to not knowing the ending to a new movie release so you can enjoy living in the present moment and the movie as it unfolds in real time. Being boring and predictable is akin to reading and knowing all the spoilers, major plot points and the ending of the movie before going to watch it and telling everyone what you know before they see the movie. The juice of life is to be found living in the present moment where the future is never guaranteed or certain, despite the fact human beings have a fundamental need for certainty.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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From my heart to yours,

Corey Wayne

[TheTerrypcurtin]

This coaching is on point. At 63 I am shocked how much I didn't know.
Now it's not easy to step back. Old habit. But I was going nowhere. I met a beautiful woman. Younger by a reasonable amount. She pulled back. I stepped back further. Didn't text. Didn't call.
She did. I win. I even told her the truth. I am busy and she can have all the space in the world. I could tell. No one ever told her that. I showed super confidence. The key is you have to be willing to walk away. They feel it. Wow. Great stuff. Going out tonight. She texted me. Thanks C

[CoolClipsable]

Moral of the story: NEVER lose your mystery. As long as you keep being mysterious, she'd never stop chasing you. But the moment you let her see all your guts, then it's a losing game for the both of you.

[christopherarmstrong]

8:20 By not volunteering everything and being unpredictable and having a life of your own, goals, a mission, purpose, a business that you’re building, career that you’re building. Being that fun, interesting guy and having a busy life helps enable you to appear mysterious. It’s not about playing some game with her.
9:35 Be different, be exciting, put some thought and effort into it.
10:40 *You always want to leave them wanting more.* In every TV show and movie there’s always a cliffhanger. There’s always some emotional tension that doesn’t get resolved. The only way it gets resolved is when you tune in next week, or when you go see the sequel when it finally comes out. *The key is to be unpredictable, to be different. Don’t be just like everybody else.*

[kingtitan]

So after being the butler for an extended amount of time she started to go cold on me. After finding these videos I just simply realized I was always trying to make things happen instead of let things happen. I noticed when I started following all the techniques and getting the inner alpha male to come alive time itself seemed to change for me and slow down. I now realize I can watch things happen from a rested state of being.From that perspective I realize how edgy I was all the time trying to make everything happen. Wow just wow 😮 change overnight is grand.

[robertparousjr]

Corey Wayne you are the man! Before watching this video I attracted the woman of my dreams at work by being quiet and mysterious keep up the good work

[franciscoguardado]

Hey Corey everything you say is helping me in college. I go to school for the Nursing program and what you teach in your first book and Mastering Yourself are helping me to my everyday life. Every time I don’t feel like Study or going to the gym I take a few minutes to think about your teachings. Keep up the good work!

[gumba]

Thank you Corey! these past few weeks have really helped me get rid of some toxic people from my life, massive props!!!

[christophern.]

Ok man, you got me. I'm half way through the book, and I'm pleasantly surprised - at times, even shocked. So I'm gonna do this damn thing 10 to 15 times in a row, non stop.
I've looked at a lot on this subject, and this to me, is like taking kung-fu from an old master, compared to learning karate at the YMCA.
And.. repetitive exposure, whether movement or thought, will be committed to memory.
I have a goal, and a woman. We have history and even if I later have a change of heart concerning how I feel now, I am still going to make this happen. And I feel so confident that I can, that it's almost like watching a trailer for a movie coming soon.
I'll report back my progress after the 10th

[scarecrow]

Thanks for everything coach! You’re truly amazing!

[veronicasharp]

I agree. Works both ways. Be enigmatic stop with showcasing everything about yourself. Especially with social media!!

[MrJabbothehut]

The best way to be unpredictable on a date: tell her you have tourettes.

[RaviSingh-bemx]

OK is it just me or does Corey look like he wants to burst out into laughter?..like hes holding back lol

[satturatedphat]

Baller house brother.
As far as your advice... 100% true. The crazy part is that I subconsciously knew every bit of this, just didn't know how it tied together. Kudos for putting the puzzle together. Glad you've made the living you have from the work you've done. Bravo

[smokemadbuds]

Corey!! I thank you so much i started watching after my EX left me and i needed help. I didnt know what i was doing wrong and i found out, ALOT.

I used your advice in videos and the book to help work on myself and move past my amazing ex and let her figure herself out. I let no contact do its work and it worked!

I've never felt so good, generally confident and happy with myself. Now she wants a second chance and i have the power. I have the tools to make it work how it should have for the first 2 and a half years and i hope we can make the long stretch together. Without you i'd have been lost. Thank you.

[aliboxer]

Listen to this guy! He knows what he’s talking about. Bought his book and my ex contacted me within less than a week. I wish I would have known about coach earlier

[spencerjohnson]

This is something that personally comes naturally to my entire demeanor and persona. Even going back to my middle school years, I've always seemed to be that way. I've even had a girl in high school tell me she thought I was very attractive for being, as she put it, "so mysterious".

[deanrobert]

Hi coach, just a total thankyou I know you dont wanna be a guru but you definitely are :) us guys are clueless and you provide a service for free and obviously when I am in a position when I can give back I will, I am looking forward to reading mastering yourself :)

[BrashTV]

Is this his house? It's like a museum from 1950 showing what apartments will look like in the year 2000.

As far as the content I love it. Thanks!

[ryanmcdonough]

Got your book and was on a date a week later and felt great!

[Eddieeloverr]

Simple yet effective topic. Thanks for all you do coach!