I Love You But Not In Love With You | What It REALLY Means!

I love you but I'm not in love with you. The words that take our hearts out of our chest! Right? Although this is expressing a real feeling, it can mean many things. It usually takes couples a while to figure out where and why this has happened. Is it a part of the normal cycles of love, or is it a sign of an end of the relationship? When we ask ourselves why are we falling out of love or not in love anymore its because there is an absence of another kind of feeling, and you may think the relationship won't last. Although this may prove to be the truth, it is more likely it isn’t. The underlining meaning behind this and improving or saving your relationship is getting to that feeling of absence.

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[AndyJMacLeod]

Love is not a feeling. Feelings come and go. Love is a decision to commit yourself to someone else and out their needs above your own.

[somebodysomewhere]

In the end,
Stop looking for happiness in others.
Learn to Love yourself first.

[nwvnfiy]

Simply move on.. I've learnt that some of the feelings we have is not real, it's just attachment.

[KungfuJoeProductions]

In the end "The man wins" (he is free) now he can elevate financially and build his masculine frame.

[Glasshopper]

"I love you but I am not in love with you"

Translation:
Your turn is over.

[Eyes-of-Horus]

"I love you but I'm not in love with you." When I hear that, I'm gone. I learned with my first girlfriend that it doesn't matter what you do or say she wants someone or something else. Fact is, she never really loved you anyway. So, let her go. People will always do what they do because they feel it is the best choice for them at the time. That is they always act in their own self-interest. This is done regardless of the consequences to others or even their self. So, let 'em have what they want and move on. You don't need the aggravation nor the pain. "The root of suffering is attachment" the Buddha.

[Sugabullets]

It actually means "I don't love you, and I'm not attracted to you but because I choose the cowardly choice of words I have cognitive dissonance towards actions and desires, also I don't care how it makes you feel because I don't want to have to deal with your negative emotions and I don't want your perception of me to change because my ego is to fragile and I am selfish".

[GaryFowlerPiano]

I love you but I’m not in love with you means “I can tolerate you for now because I have no other options”

[bigtimedrum]

The short answer is, she loves you as a person but not as a person she wants to be on the next woman who wants to fall in love with you cuz shes into you and wants to spend her life with you.

[yaboihuck]

It means "I'm wasting your time, find someone who isn't scared of commitment or consistency and has gone through therapy to resolve their childish tendencies."

[tdjohns]

Man listen, a woman’s feelings change everyday. My ex wife said these words to me before and said she don’t think her feelings would ever come back. I begged and pleaded and she got more bitter and mean. I fell back. Started talking to other women, ignored her, and then she wanted to work things out. I took her back but I didn’t feel the same for her anymore because of what she put me through.These days people’s feelings change every second of the day. Best way to be in a relationship and stay in a relationship is to be able to pick up on certain behaviors and attraction levels.

[c.mchido]

“I love you but I’m not in love with you “ = one of the MOST STUPID statements in human existence. If she says that crap, it was over a long time ago.. it means you’re no longer pleasing her like she wants you to. It means the infatuation (not true love) she had for you has gone away, and now she’s facing reality.. Take courage and move on, because you’re not the first nor the last she would tell that senseless statement.
If a woman can’t make herself happy, it is not her man’s job to keep her happy or to keep pleasing her.

LOVE IS A DECISION, NOT A FEELING.

[midnight]

"Maybe she dropped so many warning signals or so many signs" That right there, is the problem with women. They drop vague "hints and signs" instead of TALKING to us and telling us the truth about how they are feeling. It is childish and causes so many unnecessary problems that could be avoided if yall would just speak to us like a human being instead of playing charades.

[brianmarshall]

With those words, you will generally get demoted to "friends status" next... sadly, your time with her is pretty much over.

[rocket]

just tell her "Thank you" and get the hell out as fast as you can..get your freedom back..she did you a favor! LOL

[bobuceaschi]

Just say "ok", go to the gym, cry on the way there. Hit the weights, eat lean protein and tons of fiber. Act as if it doesn't bother you, be classy. Save up some money, dress nice and stay sharp. 🤷‍♂️

[biggeesus]

"I love you but not in love with you" usually means she loves someone else. As soon as my 18 year relationship ended she was already living with a new guy 2 weeks from the break up.

[guitartownguns]

It simply means that you are not the man she wants, you're just the man who's there. Best thing to do is leave. You deserve better. I dealt with this for 7 years. Left 5 years ago and have never been happier. She's still single and miserable and I don't fell one bit sorry for her.

[Laffingrl]

Let's be real, it means she is with someone new or is contemplating seeing someone. Of course she will deny it. But she needs to justify in her mind that she was "honorable" and broke it off before she slept with them. Don't kid yourself....it ALWAYS means this!

[sundayaito]

Ouch.."l love you, but I am not in love with you" that hits home alright....Thank you ms Apollonia for unraveling the mysteries of the woman heart....I am growing stronger and confident by every video you put up on how to deal with these matters. Much appreciate....