I Love You But I'm Not IN Love With You (ILYBINILWY)

Hearing the phrase "I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You" from your girl can be quite confusing & scary. I mean, we all know it's not good, but what exactly does a woman mean when he says those words to a man?

In this Attraction Tips video I'm going to be discussing what a woman means when she says, “I love you, but I'm not IN love with you”, & the difference between affection & attraction so you never have to here those words from your girl. #ILYBINILWY #LostAttraction #InLove #Attraction #LostFeelings
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I'm Erik Peterson, a men's relationship & dating coach, and at Skill of Attraction I provide dating tips & relationship advice, mainly for men, to help facilitate growing & maintaining attraction in their romantic life to where it's fun, loving & relatively effortless.

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"Women Will Not Love You Unconditionally":

"Top 3 Signs She's Losing Interest":

"You Must See Yourself As The Prize":

"After a Breakup Never Chase or Beg":

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[narcfreeatlast]

I love you = I love you RIGHT NOW.

When my ex ended it, I just said something like this: it’s sad that you feel that way, if this is truly what you want Then I respect your choice. I wish you all the best. I then disappeared, went no contact and cried my eyes out in the shower. I didn’t beg, plead or show weakness. I discussed it with the guys over a few beers instead.

2 weeks later she reached out and said that she misses me.

Women often say this when they cheat as well.

[iamwhatiam]

Space is by far the most important thing in a relationship, you really have to give a girl space sometimes...

[ddmozz]

"think about how a girl feels about her dog" LMAO, that was brutal

[ralfj.]

This means "It's over, I'm leaving soon"

[debonaire_nerd]

Only water boys have their hearts flowing.
Get off the bench and start playing.

[FreedomLocs]

I was in a LTR for 2 years and though she wasn't saying the words her actions said ILYBINILWY. I ended it

[Alcohogrifo]

Eric, what does exactly mean to be dominant AND what are the traits? Im a little confuse about that. Thanks for all your work, its amazing.

[deckbeltran]

Me and my ex broke up last year, it's been 6 months of no contact. Last contact she got mad because I couldn't see her when she wanted me to, so she decided to not reach out or give me any plans. Today its her birthday, and it's also a day where we had our first time, a special day for the both of us and where she was the happiest when I had a surprise for her. I feel really hurt and sad for not reaching out..I didn't wish her happy birthday last year after the breakup.
Am I doing the right thing by not wishing her happy birthday?

[KeVEGAN]

M 34 ( Scorpio ) my ex gf F 31 ( Sagittarius ) my ex broke up w/ my on 11/12/22 " She told me I love you, but not in love w/ you " It's so weird she invited me to visit her parents & bff on 10/26/22 - 10/30/22 & came home move in w/ her for barely a week than she keep me out her appt than she broke up w/ me. We were together 1 year & 4 months

[monkeybubblessupperdude]

What's your opinion on age difference....I've known a girl for a while now and get on really well so I want to ask her out ...I'm 44 and she's 23

[ralphwiggum]

I had a girl tell me once I have love for you just not the type of love you deserve low key looking back on it it really sounded like she was saying her heart belonged to someone else cause she moved on very quick an never tried to come back

[albertovalencia]

How can i give her more of my time, love and my full support? Long Distance Relationship

[smokeyjoeruff]

My girlfriend told me that she loves me but not in love with me. We live together and she requested space and I gave her. I began spending alot of time by myself, doing hobbies, catching up with friends etc, basically keeping myself occupied. I asked her tonight if she wanted to break up, if she needed more space or if she is ready to resume. She didn't answer and told me she can't answer those tonight. Should I be worried? I mean we've been together for nearly 4 years, I just wanna know where I stand so I could make my next move, with or without her

[gabynyy]

What do I do when I’m in a one sided relationship with a girl who acts like we are in a relationship sometimes but has dating apps, goes to clubs and hangs out with guy friends who have tried to make a move on her before. We have an on and off relationship for about a year. I’ve lost a lot of power in the relationship by not enforcing my boundaries, being needy, etc etc and I can’t take it anymore. I want to change the relationship but it feels like it’s too far gone. When I try to talk to her she doesn’t want to talk or compromise on any of the problems I have with her and our relationship. What do I do?