I Love You But I'm Not IN LOVE With You | My Wife is Not In Love With Me Anymore

My name is Coach Adrian. I want to dig deeper and put this 'I love you but NOT in love with you' in context. I was coaching a man in his 50s who lives in Paraguay, South America. He said to me "My spouse says she loves me but that she's not IN love with me'. My client was devastated and thought it was the beginning of the end of his marriage. Learn what his spouse was really trying to say to him.

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I Love You But Not I'm Not IN Love with You Meaning:
This is the short version but basically what I told my client what his spouse was saying was that she cares about him but she lost faith and belief that he can make her happy. That is what this means. I love you but I'm not in love with you. "I care about you, but I don't think that you can make me happy."

Ultimately it is not as bad as you may think it is because if there's love there's definitely enough to make a relationship and even a troubled marriage strong and healthy as long as you approach it the right way and have a clear plan.

Over many years of giving relationship and marriage advice to men, I find men become a shell of themselves in marriages. They start to depend on their spouse for everything and stop inspiring their spouse in the process. Wives no longer feel secure and safe and no longer see their husband as the inspirational person that they fell in love with.

The Goal:
How do I make my wife feel happy again? How do I make her feel special? The goal is for him to be able to inspire his wife and create an environment in which she can feel happy again, but most importantly where she can feel safe and secure. Learn how to speak your partner's love language.

How to Rekindle your marriage and bring excitement back into your relationship:
1. Take a step back and make sure you understand truly what went wrong
2. Don't try to do grandiose acts of love to try to make them fall in love with you again
3. Put daily actions into place to shift the perception through actions
4. It’s not what you say that will make her happy with you, it's what you do
5. Focus on speaking your partner's love language every single day
6. Don't be overbearing or too needy
7. Make sure your thoughts, actions, and your words are in harmony
8. Don't try to control and let your fears get the best of you
9. Reinvent yourself and in turn, change the way your partner feels about you and sees you
10. Be patient.

In conclusion:
Ultimately they had two children and they've built a wonderful life together. What she knew was that she wasn't happy and that something needed to change. She still wanted to be on good terms and have him to be in her life. Because love coupled with happiness and fun and new activities and new excitement and new energies can enable a woman or a man to understand that deep down inside that in love feeling can still be recaptured.

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[donhenhawke]

It's not anyone's responsibility to make another feel happy, that comes from within .

[jcporosity]

My wife told me this 1 month ago we have 2 kids. It hurt soo much.. why I was never home and was not able to be there. Im changing everything ima give her time and space. Im learning i have faith.

[jcporosity]

My wife has a negative friend that gives her bad advice. She's jealous of my wife

[ackm]

This hit home for me.. I’m at the point where I don’t know what else to do..

[cococha]

so said when that happens.. Sometimes you can win her back sometimes you can't

[palebleudot]

This was ultimately the demise of my relationship. And we still live together. He broke up with me last Friday.

[chrissyw.]

My ex moved to California after a long distance relationship that we started a year before. He came out here and we moved in together right away, unfortunately I got sick shortly after he moved here to be with me and things just went downhill from there. The woman that he fell in love with was not available anymore. This illness forced me to make some extreme changes in my life, including joining a gym and going on a diet. Recently, he told me that he loved me but wasn't in love with me anymore because I had become somebody else. Now I'm concentrating on improving myself and regardless of if he comes back or not, I am becoming more and more self-confident and healthy and will inevitably attract the right man.

[JoshuaCyberNerd]

Thank you for your excellent insightful video. Although I’m not fully in this position I don’t think my situation is all that far off either. I’ve been thinking I’m in a difficult situation as I have 2 children with my wife but the way she has treated me since we got married has been abusive and toxic. She has a past which makes it difficult for her to treat her loved ones in a good way, but at the same time, I and her other loved ones including her children deserve to be treated better. It’s not easy to stay in a relationship, and and stay in love, with a person like this.

[zoehunter]

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[zainabbello]

Thank you for such a great video! You said so many things that deeply resonated in me ❤️

[GOLDENLOTUS]

Can you make a video about how we can do fix this problem

[isacha]

I’m the stay at home mom he is talking about. Plus him traveling 99% of the time for work didn’t help. Now he wants nothing to do with me. We have 2 kids.

[EyeSurpri]

It's shocking. This wife sounds selfish and still needs to grow up. Love and security come from within. If you end up relying on someone else for this and happiness, you've got a rude awakening coming. I feel really sorry for the husband.

[Angie-dxtf]

What if he said that she love me but not the same as before and he wanted to break up because he dont want to pretend and hurt me anymore. But right after that, i see him doing things like caring, that he used to do to me to other person that i used to be the reason of my jealousy.

[alonuloaye]

Thank you so much, coach Adrian. Now, I understood my feelings for him. Your advice was right in time of need😃
Love from Nagaland 💕

[staceymariethomson]

I became a self of myself. I know this and feel like that was why he left. I stayed at home with our kids and had no drive, no life anymore.
We broke up 8 months ago, he has been in a relationship with someone else since then although he says it was 5 months but they want to move in together now. I have taken steps for myself and do everything for my self I just don't know how he moved on so quick. Any advice?

[agentcannabis]

What about “I love you deep down but I don’t love you the same way anymore”.

[Sandeep_In_America]

The girl i loved also said the same at beginning she was lyk my gf but after her x bf came she said this to me i love u so much as a frend ur special to me but i dont have romantic feelings bout u

[evazquez]

I love and am so grateful for your advice. Thank you.