Positive Traits of People with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental condition marked by a pattern of ongoing instability in moods, behavior, self-image, and functioning. For many, labeling someone with BPD can make them feel like their world is crashing down around them. You mostly hear about the negative aspects of borderline personality disorder, but what about the positives? In this video, we will be addressing the positive traits of people with borderline personality disorder to reduce the stigma around it and help those who are diagnosed with BPD find relief in their diagnosis because it can make them feel more understood.

Disclaimer: This video is for informative purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any condition. Please reach out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional if you are struggling. This video is not meant to romanticize or glamorize BPD in any way. It's just to point out that there are positives along with the challenges that come with having BPD.

Writer: Caitlin McColl
Script Editor: Brie Villanueva
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Lesly
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[KinkyLemons]

(I have bpd myself)I've never seen someone talk about the positive side of mental health issues, I cant even describe how grateful i am that you guys made this video to help educate people. It makes me feel less alone

[xLielliax]

As someone with BPD I got to admit that I've never recognized these things as something "special" - I thought everyone is able to be as empathetic, good at managing other peoples crisis and having a bigger amount of resilience. It's beautiful to see someone talk about these things as "positive traits" for something that's negatively covered. Thank you for this video ❤️

[sarahcouture]

I love how this video talks about how getting a BPD diagnosis can be a huge relief and sort of a blessing because it finally explains what the actual problem has been this whole time. That’s what it was like for me when I found out I had BPD, but most people only talk about the stigma of having the diagnosis and not wanting to be labeled.

[maxx.guti]

i have a friend with bpd, she absolutely dislikes herself because of it and feels like she ruins everything because of it, so i think this video may brighten her mood a bit
thank you!

[logan.saige]

i don’t think i’ve ever clicked a video faster than i did with this one. as someone with bpd i’m so happy to see a video like this. i’m excited to watch the whole thing ❤️

[zerosenseofself]

I started crying halfway through the video. Didn't realize how desperately i needed this. Thank you so much.

[skychanie]

I have bpd according to my therapist and psychiatrist and it’s been a process accepting this, BUT I think sometimes it’s a super power. And hell, if I can survive this, and learn to overcome it and live with it, kudos to me and everyone else who can too. There are good traits to it c: it doesn’t have to control you nor does it define you. There is always hope :D

[kaneezfatima]

I've recently been diagnosed with BPD and I've been feeling down for the past four days.. And this video literally warmed my heart... I don’t know if I can ever thank you guys enough for what you do... Love you Psych2Go 💖

[FrankMorrison-vukc]

I was diagnosed with BPD since my teenage. Spent my whole life fighting this disastrous disorder. Also suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment did wonders in my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

[leg]

This video is particularly true for people who have BPD as a result of trauma. Once you accept your brain is actually working correctly and protecting you, even a psychotic episode. You then can appreciate the positives of BPD. Emotional connection is amazing.

[markharry]

I'm not usually one for over sharing but I've just finished my first week of chemotherapy and I won't lie I'm scared of how it's affecting me, but your enthusiasm for the topic helped put my mind at ease. So thank you, you have no idea how much I needed this today

[dudleymorris]

I've never been officially diagnosed with BPD. But I have a feeling that I do have it. Every explanation of BPD perfectly describes how I've been since I was a kid...

[grimbleys]

as somebody with bpd who’s constantly worried about being a terrible person, this video is very helpful 🥲

[sianfell]

I agree with the loyalty... but personally, I show that there is intense loyalty until situations, emotions, or other things start to go wrong and build up inside, then the bad overtakes the good, and one self-sabotages the relationship... a BIG negative in BPD. But, we try, and we move. Thank you for a beautiful, re-assuring video <3

[guruu]

thank you for this video, im actually doing a speech about BPD in my class! from what i read, i hope people with bpd are okay and know we’re with them if they need help, but even if someone doesn’t have it, the same thing. may god bless you all :)

[Mylove-ljne]

I've been diagnosed with BPD a year ago, the process to accept and try to keep up with life on a daily basis but seeing videos like this honestly brings me to tears. I am 17, and it's a challenge going through high school with this, everyone tags you as someone weird but seeing that somebody believes we have nice traits it's beautiful. My heart is filled with joy and happiness. A big hug from Chile <3

[psychgomandarin]

0:00 intro
1:25 1.Borderline empathy paradox
2:37 2.Creative
3:42 3.Loyal
4:35 4.Resilient
5:12 5.Energetic
5:50 6.Passionate
6:39 outro

[anna.augustinova]

Thank you for this. I am on the borderline spectrum and I could relate to all of these points except being energetic because I also suffer from chronic depression and anemia. It was nice to see someone say nice things about BPD, not just bad things.

[Drew_HBK]

As a man with BPD where we often already get overlooked, thank you for this video.

[EcpliseCrow]

✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨
1) 1:26 Borderline empathy paradox
2) 2:37 Creative
3) 3:42 Loyal
4) 4:35 Resilient
5) 5:13 Energetic
6) 5:51 Passionate

To anyone struggling with BPD, you aren't alone. Remember that the right people will love you the way you are. There may be rough times, and you may not feel like going on, but know the good times outweigh the bad by so much. So many good moments and good people will come. You are amazing the way you are. Don't let anyone tell you different.