Letting Go And Moving On Or Get Your Ex Back | Which Should You Choose?

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Letting Go And Moving On Or Get Your Ex Back | Which Should You Choose?

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Letting go and moving on or get your ex back is a question we see every single day on our channel, Love Advice TV. Many people can't decide between letting go and moving on or get your ex back, and come to us, Love Advice TV | With My Ex Again, for answers.

If you're having trouble deciding between letting go and moving on or get your ex back, let's simplify it for you.

If the relationship was toxic, if there was physical or emotional abuse, if your ex was narcissistic, manipulated you, kept putting you down, tried to pull you away from your family, or did not get the best out of you, encourage you to become a higher, better version of you, odds are that we may tell you to let go, and for you to focus on healing and moving forward.

In certain cases, the best thing that you can do is to move forward with your life. Addition by subtraction - letting someone out of your life so that someone else, someone better, can walk into your life and give you the type of love you deserve.

You should never have to lower your moral code or your values or your code of ethics, your moral compass, in order to please a partner. This is where it becomes very dangerous and when we often have to tell clients that they need to let it go, which we have no problem doing.

If your significant other isn't helping you be happy, we will tell you to cut them out of your life, even if you have feelings for them, even if you're willing to pay a lot of money to get them back. It's not worth it.

But, if you know this person makes you better, if you know that you two had a true genuine connection. If you know that you made mistakes that you want to make right, and if you believe that you can make this person happy too, and make this person better, we can work together!

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[spectranet]

Let go of someone who doesnt value you or your love . Do not beg, do not keep pleading, once you have done it with your explanation. If 2 people really want to be together then they always put their ego, arrogance and difference aside and stand by their commitment to and with each other no matter what ! This is the truth. If two people are meant to be together they will stay no matter what and if two people are not meant to be they will fall apart FOREVER no matter how much you try ....

[AngelGonzalez-exju]

I am moving on to win her back. I will let her walk out of my life. I am working on my best self and living my best life😊

[barclay]

My partner of 10 years broke up with me a couple of weeks ago which destroyed me. I've been struggling with depression for a long time and was too scared to seek help and caused us to drift apart. She developed feeling for someone at work which made her realise we lost something and broke things off.
I was feeling suicidal but your videos have been invaluable in giving me perspective on the situation. I had spoken with my Ex every day since the break up and i can now see I haven't been able to be emotionally independent. We've been in no contact for 5 days now and I'm seeing a therapist to try and sort myself out.
I hope I have the strength to become the better version of myself.

[ting]

I’m on 33 days of no contact and i don’t want my ex back! I’m feeling better now. I know there’s someone better than her. Thank you coaches for your videos it helps a lot! Keep up the good work!! 🖤

[stephb]

I will NEVER stop fighting for my ex! The heart knows what it knows and feels what it feels! He’s my one true love!

[sahilbudhiraja]

COACH ADRIAN, i had a LDR breakup 6 months ago, mate you are god for me, i started drinking on daily basis, left my job, my friends and my house after breakup. but then your videos made me so positive, i came back on track just because of you brother. now i am busy in my life, and we don’t talk too often but whenever we talk we share a good laugh, she is amazed that i am changed so much and working on my life. dude i would have died if i had’nt seen your videos. now i treat her as a good friend, doesn’t matter if she comes back or not, i am happy in both situations
thanks alot i owe you.

[konasmom]

I was with a wonderful guy for about 10 months. The month of December was absolutely craaaazy busy and stressful for both of us (huge work project for me, his place sold in 1 day with a 21 day move out, we went on our first trip together, he packed up in 4 days and moved into my place temporarily until I could sell, we applied for a loan and put in offers on 2 properties together, spent nights boxing up his stuff, I sold a bunch of furniture to make room for him, PLUS the holidays, shopping, and his birthday). It was an INSANELY stressful time and I just wanted to get through it. To others, we were the ideal couple. But we were so busy, we never had the time to discuss living together and buying property. We argued for a few weeks and one night he ended it in anger and moved everything out that night. I was somewhat shocked, but in retrospect, I saw it coming. I initiated NC immediately and will stay here for at least 30 days. We are both dark on social media and we have left it alone. Our happy pictures from 10 days ago are still up.

He texted to arrange a time to pick up his things the next day and said he was sorry and appreciated everything I did for him. I just responded with a date & time and I had my friend there to let him get his things. He was very disappointed that I was not here because he wanted to talk.

Today is Day 8. In one week I have realized that our relationship was not abusive, toxic, or narcissistic. I realized that it was one of the healthiest I have ever had and I know he has a good heart and good intentions and did not mean to hurt me by leaving so quickly. Our arguments were due to stressful times, miscommunications, and the lack of time and the tools to address them. In fact, I believe our relationship was built on love and trust and I look back with only fondness and good memories.

I have now realized that the only way to keep those fond memories alive is to let him go and allow both of us to have some emotional distance so we can each see the relationship from a different perspective and learn from it. I want both of us to be happy, with or without each other. I miss him daily but today I feel like I've let go of the frustration and sadness and I have realized that our relationship was built on love.

If you have the right foundations of love in your relationships, and you have the ability to take a step back and look at things from a different angle, you can definitely find peace and love within yourself and not from someone else. NC gives you time to reflect and release negative emotions. I don't know what will happen or when we will talk again, but i hope he will find his happiness. So will I. :)

[Scott_FutureFocused]

I've been in no contact since October. I mistakenly texted her on Thanksgiving wishing her well and trying to open communication because that was our biggest problem. And I got a very angry reply telling me she was blocking me on her phone. But in it I also sensed some hurt.
She has me blocked on everything as far as I know.
I have not attempted to contact her since. I am struggling at times like today. What makes it so difficult is that she's physically been in every aspect of my life. And the memories are amazing.
I do want to win her back and start over.
I'm considering contacting one of you coaches but I have to make sure i can swing it financially first. So as of right now I'm trying to do the best I can and hold on. And not make anymore mistakes.

[genesisyiri]

What if that ex completely shut you out and said he doesn’t trust you anymore?

[eme]

Coach adrian..I had a successful career and I got another job just to get over my ex and let it go..I also get up 6 o'clock every morning to go for a run ..I'm trying to fill the gaps. it's been 3 months and I still struggle to forget him. Do I need a pherapist in my case? I even refuse to date anybody I feel like I can't move on.

[darielwildfire]

Good Morning Coach Adrian, this video came at just the right time as I have started to ask myself this very same question. Your videos have always helped me to move forward instead of just being passive.

My Ex broke up with me in November and of course I have made some mistakes during the aftermath (crying and seeking comfort from him). But during this time he was finally honest about what he was going through (dealing with survivor's guilt, depression, PTSD and stress from work) which he never shared with me. We were together for 3 years and though it was not perfect we were happy together. The last year was really tough because my father died and I leaned heavily on his emotional support. That was probably the final straw for him as he was also dealing with his depression (which he never told me about).

Long story short after 2 months post breakup of being friends (which felt uncomfortable for me coz he was talking about dating other people) I came clean that and told him that it was not working, and also told him how he had mistreated me near the end of our relationship. I have initiated no contact and its been 2 weeks since that last conversation.

We work together and live in a tiny town. Now he is flirting with other female colleagues who I had considered my friends, is on Tinder and have started sleeping around with other women. This is devastating to me and I felt very disrespected by such a blatant display. I am really struggling to accept this and I wonder if I should just let it go?

I have been doing my best working on myself, I have been slotted for a promotion at work, I am the fittest I have ever been (exercise is the best way to let out frustration), did my first 5 day hike in the mountains and picked up old hobbies that I have let slide. But seeing how he is now makes my heart ache coz he is not doing anything to better himself and it is very very frustrating and sad to watch. How can I inspire him if he felt that I was too good for him?

[bethelbethlehem]

I love my ex so much that I will decide to let him go. 😔 I want him to be happy with or without me. It really hurts but I think its the best way to do. He lost interest about me. But I believe he is in remorse right now bec. of dumping me. I dont want him to suffer of guilt. When the time he will reach out to me, i will let him go. 😔😢

[milanvujcich]

We got back together thanks to these videos and we really did improve so much in our relationship and in ourselves too, everything was going so so well, we always laughed together and had fun. It was a very healthy relationship and then once again she broke up with me this morning because apparently, our relationship was "boring" and apparently I was "insecure" which I'm 100% not at all. And I proved that, but for some reason, she doesn't think so.

[alexisaguilar]

Hey Coach Adrian, Me and my broke up 4 months ago and She contacted me last week with a simple text saying “Hey” & I did not respond to her until next week so I called her and she told me that she needed someone to talk to and she thought of me because I know her also know everything about her & she did some questions to me about how was I going in my life and we kept the conversation going. Told me we should hang out sometime to catch up on things. Also told me that her father is telling her that I was the one for her. My ex literally change my whole life since we started dating everything was incredible being happy all the time and we had like little fights but we were not like other couples we reconcile ourselves back. We loved each other a lot she does not forget our memories that we made together. We have kept in contact but I don’t reach out first anymore she called on Thursday while she was on break so I was shocked that she did that & I don’t message her because I’m always busy in work. Her family still keeps in contact with me even though we are not together anymore and always talk good things about me when they are with her. What should I do Coach Adrian?

[roytindall]

I like your advice, I probably should book a session with you

[AjayKumar-vrpe]

moving on is very hard. very hard with whom you have planned your life.

[germansanchez]

Today makes two years since we broke up.
I still love and miss her.

[myeshak]

Very true coach... you are worth listening. All you suggestions are on to the point.

[chanyacnx]

He said he never ignored any previous person in his life the way he did me. If I had my sight set on him I should give it up. He chose someone else after we engaged. So after that I only have one choice to move on and be happy with my life without him. I love him but I completely let him go as he wish. Thank you for your videos it’s very helpful to me in the last 2 years. Thank you 🙏😊

[TheDeepanky]

Hey Coach! Thank you for the awesome content. I know I post on almost every video because I really need your help which I can't afford on personal coaching. I truly appreciate your honest replies to my comments. My bf and I were together for 5 years(2 years of LDR until present). Both of our families knew about it and were pretty serious about our future together but due to long distance, we started having stupid fights on regular basis, I had insecurity b/c of his changing personality and his growing social life outside of me. He never really helped me to get detached from him, and in the end I just wanted him completely. I realised that after we broke up. Incessant fights led to him leaving me in July 2018.He stopped responding to calls, msgs, from everyone in my family.I went to his city thrice with my mother to beg him, asked his family and friends for help which made him more annoyed and nothing worked.It's been 4 months of complete NC now. He is no where on any social media, so we are connected nowhere which really helps him to miss me way less than he could.He is happy and busy in his new job and new life. I really don't know if I should approach him ever because it has been 6 months now and he is very stubborn, once he decides on something he can't undo that out of his mechanism to avoid any guilt.Please help me if I should still wait for him, or move on or leave him forever?Please help me coach, there are so many misunderstandings lingering around me in his and his family's head about me. I don't know what to do with his stubbornness.