How to seduce anyone 🫠 stop trying so hard

[ThebestOne-scuo]

Revandles forbidden books (thank me later)

[esotericbliss]

My take always: 1. Let it happen naturally and detach from the outcome.

Don’t seek that validation and assurance. Validate yourself and don’t try hard. Feel yourself and be confident.

[ronlecoq]

Summarizing : be authentic and don't give a shit about the outcome of the interactions you have.

[tinyproject]

There is no seduction as being authentic.

[EvanNagao]

I'm trying so hard to stop trying so hard 🤣

[Abcd-gjfu]

Honestly, disinterest and unshakeable self-concept are literally magnetic. Tried and tested many times. 👍🤞

[MrNihatOzer]

In short, be yourself and let the seduction happen automagically. What a beautiful and positive message you are giving. Keep up the good work!

[wheijden]

Agree Francesca. When I was young I was trying hard, and you never get the girl you want. Now I dont care, just living my own life, and as long as you are happy and have a good aura around you, things happen you never imagined or thought it would happen.

[christianriddler]

I noticed that intense eye contact with a small humble smile, a genuine approach and complete honesty works amazingly. You talked about being indifferent to the outcome and it is very true, it works wonders for myself and for those around me. As an introvert however I don't have much use for my charms xD.

[MrAgsalud]

Yes. It's an energy that is 2nd nature. Like a person is naturally sexy, and is like you say totally free from the outcome of other peoples' reactions. If you have it, you know...

[smollilbean]

I love listening to you talk about confidence, self esteem and when you're talking about being a better, whole person in general! I wish you make more longer videos like this. I don't have any recommendations but i hope some people in here suggest good and unique ideas.

[robertvermeer]

I think there is a big difference between men and women trying to seduce the other. Women can probably get away with just sitting pretty, but for men, who need to somehow show his status and wealth, it's a totally different ball game. Plus, I think, there are many men (including myself) and women who really enjoy the flirting game.

[Thefly]

As a guy, this is my take:

Looks ste.important, but they are like a minimum threshold. What really will get me to like you and pursue somthing with you is your personality, and how you interact with me.

If you act cold, aloof, "femme fatale" etc... You actually look really needy in my eyes. This is because I know you are doing this because you are seeking validation. This makes me question if you really are the girl you pretend to be, or if it's all just a facade.

If you are able to interact with me normally, without acting aloof, playing cool, being mean, trying to hustle drinks from me etc. And you are ALSO beautiful/sexy, that will make me insanely attracted to you. Not many girls do that

[clintr]

Being yourself is not bad advise. The problem is these day alot of people try so hard to be someone. Don't even know who they are.. Should also add, be your best self. Always seek self improvement to be the best version of yourself

[ludsayuri]

I love this, I'm so tired of people telling you should be Jessica Rabbit 24/7, I just wanna be myself, bruh

[wavestation]

Great message. You have to love yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. And just live in the present moment. The rest will come naturally.

[gh.k]

I honestly like how you explain things!
I'm an Arab and I just love psychological analysis!
Thank you!♡

[kaiser]

I have a golden retriever personality, and I'm very confident. I don't know if it is seductive, but my female friends are always writing me to hang out or see how I am.

[Dominicus]

Funny. People know that you are into them and they don’t want it. People think you don’t care and suddenly they want you. Yet every single woman I know is asking where the men are that will treat them well….. hmmmm…. Couldn’t possibly be the men that actually showed interest would be willing to treat you a certain way 😂

PS. Most men who are good at seduction know exactly what we are doing. It might come off as natural and that we aren’t trying to hard and all that jazz, but we know exactly what we are doing. The seduction is intentional and we don’t care if it works because if you say no someone else will say yes soon. It is a learned skill just like any other

[abilityup]

I see what you're saying about not trying too hard. Attempting to seduce is still a bit of a spectrum in terms of trying. You still need social skills to flirt and tease but non-nonchalantly. You also need to build rapport, because only teasing/flirting gets annoying real fast. If only have the rapport building without the flirting/teasing skills, then it becomes a friend zone. You need to do both confidently without looking for a result. Don't react angry or sad if you don't get the reaction you want. You just move on and keep being fun, eventually you'll find people with matching energy.