How To Seduce Someone With Confidence

The secret of good seduction is not to idealise the person we are trying to get together with. They are – ultimately – still just another human being, whom we would in time get very irritated with if the seduction worked as well as we want. That is a thought to lend us confidence.

FURTHER READING

“We are never as shy and gauche as we are when attempting to seduce someone we deeply like. The thought of someone this perfect coming to take an interest in us seems at once tantalizing and entirely implausible. We develop vertigo and, too often, fall. Behind our insecurity lie two conjoined fears: that we are exceptionally awful. And that the beloved is exceptionally perfect. Both ideas are hugely destructive – and false…”

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[jackgude]

Do your artists ever get tired of taking acid?

[Razvy]

"We are idiots now, we have been idiots in the past, and we will be idiots again in the future... There aren't any other available options for human being" The School of Life 2017

[MrBaldi-vexv]

So in other words... Everyone's an idiot and if you embarrass yourself trying, at least you're trying.. Therefore standing out to everyone else pretty much coming across as confident. I love it.

[hadilzawahreh]

"Someone who will, if everything goes really well, in substantial ways eventually ruin our lives"
I wasn't expecting that 😂😂

[MountainsofSorrow]

"Dating is just two miserable people reaching out to each other."

[starpravesh]

Thanks, now nightmares will come easier with the help of the animation.

[Po-woxb]

Long story short--Don't take everything so seriously.

[thebritavenger]

Honestly, I get that we're all enjoying how cynical a lot of this video is but this really gave me a lot of confidence in myself. I'm dealing with an intense crush on a girl right now, and this video helped me by making me see her as not some divine goddess of beauty so far above me she could destroy me with a sentence but just as a normal human being who has her own flaws and insecurities, just like me- and in doing so made me a lot more confident about talking to her and potentially dating her. Thanks a lot, School of Life!

[Jenkkimie]

Here are tips from a therapist:

1. Build your sense of Self.
2. Map what you do well and what you could do better.
3. Remember that we tend to be our own worst enemies.
4. Compare yourself to others fairly, both in good and bad. Or then don't do it at all.
5. Recognize your Self worth and value, learn to forgive yourself and love yourself.
6. No person is perfect. Making mistakes is okay and you can grow from them.
7. Accept and understand that not everyone will appreciate you, and that is okay.
8. Be comfortable in your own skin, don't act a play, be authentic and trust yourself.
9. Teach yourself how to initiate, have and hold conversations in front of mirror etc.
10. Effort always wins. You can read who is genuinely interested and who is not.

[MissSunshine]

Who else here puts every person they like on a pedestal? Lol

[JohnWilliams-channel]

Women care far less about what you look like and far more about who you are. If you are empathetic, even tempered, confident, and kind, you will have women going after you. A woman feels most secure around a person who has self control.

[royalgz]

How do you guys always know what i need right now 😂

[illusioncat]

i came here to suduce my crush...

now i kniw the meaning of life and relationships

[J]

Sounds more like "understanding that no one is perfect and they can do weird things just like you"

[PowahSlapEntertainmint]

"Hey girl, do you play minecraft?"

[major]

This was about approaching people with confidence, but it wasn't about seducing someone with confidence. Confident people fail to seduce others and get shot down all of the time. Seduction is a much, MUCH more complicated mating dance than simply being confident.

[malikvision]

What makes this channel different is the vocabulary of words used and the narration style being reinforced with an interesting accent.

[femryswatson]

"Conclude that we are no more awful than the next soul". Made me laugh! But interesting video, as always :)

[celiaartemis]

This man is so unpretentious and down to earth you can't help by liking his videos. I love the way he doesn't try to make things look better than they really are.

[EddiPwns]

Damn, this video really speaks a lot of truths I recently this past year realized about myself and my relation to those I find to be almost too perfect for this world compared to my own. Watching this made me feel extremely proud I was able to get past this facade and treat them with the same level of integrity as anyone one else is deserving of receiving.