90 Year Olds Share Advice For Their Younger Self

I asked a series of 90 year olds what advice they would give to their younger selves if they could go back in time and change things, as well as several other questions about their biggest mistakes, what it feels like to be their age, and more.

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[esskayaussie]

At 51, I wish I had followed this advice; don't ever let someone else talk you out of doing something you believe is a very good opportunity.

[kiranrazor]

That old man said cardio and diet extenteds a life. One of the greatest and wise advice which actually works.

[yobirsprouts]

Just getting the right partner extends your life by a lot. I'm a man, and when I look at the way these old women were acting around their husbands, I immediately knew that they were part of the reason the men lived so long.

[stephaniekonieczny]

The mistake that most of us make, is to fall for looks and rush into a relationship too soon. We need to get to know if that person has the right qualities that suit you, that they are not aggressive, jealous, unkind, etc, have the qualities to be long term partner .

[isacare]

"Do not worry so much, adversity will eventually pass and you will come on top" Amen to that

[ladyd]

I am 84 still married to my 85 year old husband (66 years). The advice I would give is perservere! Don't give up bc a hardship comes your way! Don't give in to addictions and /or failures! Make your family your priority! Even if you have to work a lot, you are doing it for them! But always be there when they need you! No marriage or life is perfect! Accept the things you cannot change; change the things you can; and have the grace to know the difference, as the prayer goes! Don't give up or give in!

[Whynotcreate]

As a 30 year old this gave me chills. I keep dropping out of school because I have such a hard time with it but that sweet woman motivated me to go back and try until I graduate, I'll think of her when I'm having a hard time and do it for myself and for her.

[thelammas]

“I go to the gym and do a little cardiac”. 😂😂 Bless him.

[oldpete]

At the age of 75 i will always remember an old man telling me as a 14 year old to never be an old man on a park bench wishing I'd have tried something. My career went on to include about 7 different trades each one after getting proficient at what i was doing then moving on to something new. It was exciting to tackle new adventures as well as always having a fall back plan and never ever being out of work as well a supporting my family...wouldn't change a goddam thing in my past...oh ya...I'm still with my wife of 53 yrs !!

[JuanDeLaGarza-gqlp]

73 years old here, I would say find the right life partner early, trust God, find a career that you enjoy, can make a living at and helps others. Be prepared to put in the work to meet your goals and most importantly love and help your children.

[nancyhagan]

73years married for 40years divorced 4years ago

Know how to set boundaries
Research your partner's foundation
How she/he was brought up
So you don't pick people with disorders

Your Financial power must not be handed over to anyone

Sort out your traumas and know yourself before you marry

Negotiate everything before marriage

[kmanyrivers]

I love the simplicity of asking your elders. It is so missing in our culture and I love your respectful, curious heart.

[starraustin]

Read to your children every day from infancy. Not only educational, but opens their eyes on what is possible and drives them to hope, imagine-and have empathy

[AJ-ksef]

The couple in blue, with the white hair were so sweet ❤ She clasped his arm and he held her hand while they answered questions about life. You could feel their love. Just beautiful!

[Veronica]

I would say to young women, do not waste your time on relationships with men who don't deserve you, don't get involved with men with "baggage", do not fall out of touch with good friends no matter how busy you get, get the best education you can, do not judge other people harshly, treat other people the way you would like to be treated, and always be genuinely kind to other people and to animals. Cultivate a good heart and soul. Leave this world a little bit better than before you arrived. God bless you all.

[adan_isa]

I wholeheartedly admire the couple from India who eloquently expressed profound insights on personal growth while demonstrating exceptional self-awareness regarding their strengths and weaknesses.

[johnmilanmusic]

Im 68, transitioned out of my 9-5 into my dream job teaching playing music at 43. Having a supportive partner made the leap a lot easier. Ive met and inspired so many wonderful children and adults. The risk is worth it because it often works out !! 👌

[vincentrizzo]

Most people never make it to experience their 70-80-90s . We should be listening to them a lot more often. God bless!

[sbanimkhumane]

Man her smile when he said " one another " you cud see the love in her face. The spark is still there

[SavanaT]

Getting "degrees" in school is a good way to show validation from society. It gives society/culture assurance that you are competent. But ironically, depending too much on society's validations is also a lack of strength and courage from an individual level. You can learn more from reading books and self learning, but society won't trust your competence based on that.