Why CHASING A Specific Person Is DESTROYING Your Life!

[Maxhindle]

The best way to get around chasing is to find something creative to put your energy into 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[MandyJRoss]

If you find you're constantly being a "chameleon" to everyone around you, that is a sign that you are most likely in a chasing state. When you are okay with being your true self whether or not someone else agrees with it, you go into an attractive state. True confidence is not needing approval, validation or belief from anyone else but you.

Please know this: you are loveable JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. You don't need to do anything in order to receive love. You are love, therefore you can attract love naturally just be being your YOU-nique self.❤️

[MandyJRoss]

If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today.❤️🙏🏻

[Paigular]

I stopped chasing. Now I see him for what he is and it isn't good.

[Maxhindle]

Stop chasing and start attracting… become so insanely valuable that you become even more attractive than you already are 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

[Lola-Yo]

Schools should teach this stuff, awakening, shadow work, it’s life skills. I’m in my 60’s and could’ve saved myself from much pain and been a better parent. ❤️🌈😊

[thehotcoffeehouse]

" they aren't choosing me because I'm not choosing myself". Very profound thought there.

[Mikey_Anthony]

So true. Also, it’s crucial to mention we do still need to put forth effort, be vulnerable, honest, and consistent. Communicate, don’t play games or test them, don’t do the silent treatment. Basically don’t be, or act like a narcissist.. If you miss someone, talk to them.sometimes we can’t tell so we give space, then they can even perceive it as not putting in effort when really it’s just the vibe they’re putting off that we’re responding to. Acting emotionally unavailable will not signal anyone to open up unless they are being needy.
People lose great potential partners that are into them, just because they aren’t willing to open up or at least communicate properly. Raw vulnerability is so attractive when you’re into that person, and are that person in return. That’s when synergy happens.

[RafaelElEstrella-rnbq]

Just being myself, doing what I love, and meditating constantly just being in this loving magnetic state because it’s who I am.

[holyguano]

I've recently learned to stop chasing the dangling carrot. I finally realized this is a gaslighting tactic and not signs of interest. Humiliating. It took a lot to get me to see how deep this particular red flag avoidance was but I see it now. I didn't realize the energy this was robbing me of, whoa. Thank you, Aaron, this was very helpful 🙏

[davidgarcia]

I had to stop in the middle of this video to cry and allow mysel to feel the pain of my inner wounded child for years. Damn, Aaron.. you were super raw and real in this video 1, 000 more times compared to many other ones in the past. I too was that people-pleaser and wasted so much time looking on the outside looking for approval and validation...while ignoring myself, my frame and the work I needed to do to become stronger and better.
It's been a few weeks now I've grown by leaps and bounds since I've really started focusing on myself. There really is true, indomable power in vulnerability then building up. Thank you, brother Aaron

[gavinspeaks]

Let go and have patience because by doing so you’re creating the energy of belief. And that is when the universe can give you what you want.

Much Love from a Law Of Attraction YouTuber 💜

[crookedrain]

I chose myself recently and I haven’t felt so complete in my life. It was the VERY first time I was able to lay down boundaries with a girl I realllly liked too.

[kelseymj]

Man, I really appreciate how open you are with your life, in order to make your points. It really helps me connect to what you're talking about.

[jc]

I was chasing my ex for 6-7 months after we split. I just couldn’t seem to accept it. I wasn’t used to being alone. Plus my mum and gran died & two dogs whilst I was with her so literally going into a whole new life. I resisted a new life for ages and nothing was working when meeting new girls. Recently I got drunk and called and text her again as she unblocked me and straight back to block. This time it’s very different. There’s a great shift in me that’s ready for a new future. I’m ready to move on now. I can let her go and will let her go because holding on was too just painful. I’m ready to have fun & maybe meet someone new soon.

[grizzmax]

You are pointing out a trap that so many of us guys fall into. When we see a woman we want we feel the need to impress her; win her over, try to convince her to want us, love us. And the more "high value", i.e. the "hotter" we think she is the more we put her on a pedestal. And as you've pointed out, that ends up working the opposite. That's really true. I know; I learned it the hard way.

[jasmeenlovesu]

It’s so amazing how whenever I’m going through sometime tough you instantly upload some warming and healing advice! 😊

[ellenchiapuzio]

UGH😭 I am a complete mess. Only when I get into relationship is when my anxious attachment kicks in, then it falls apart. I'm strong when it comes to my friend relationships but definitely lose it once I meet a guy, especially when I really like him😳

[thegreatnw]

This is me and yes without a doubt it has destroyed my life completely.

[Rexoij]

Wow Aaron… I am still healing from my dad abandoning me emotionally when I was little and I so often catch myself having this needy energy towards my man. I often wonder how that comes and why I feel him being distant and not GiVinG mE wHAt I wAnT and then I come back to your videos and I’m like “Huh…well…imma get back into my own energy and my own frame, because I even like my authentic self better and I’m this wonderful light creature who is not letting herself get into that low vibe energy anymore!!” So thank you AGAIN for a very helpful reminder!