5 Reasons Why Men Marry Certain Women and Not Others

Every wonder why men want to marry certain women and not others? In this video, LoDolce explains the 5 reasons that men decide to tie the knot with a woman.

Marriage. It feels like an ancient tradition these days.

But not this year...at least for me. I was in the wedding party for my two best friend's weddings this year and it completely consumed my summer (in the best way possible).

And the best part of weddings? Bachelor Parties.

Now as you might imagine on these bachelor parties, us guys talk a lot about women. So I asked my two best friend's "Out of all of the women you've dated, why did you choose to marry your partner?"

[rodrigobecerril]

1 She's my best friend
2 She's great with family
3 She wants what I want
4 She challenges me
5 I was ready

[trinityziakas]

1. She's is my bestfriend
2. She's great with the family
3. She's wants what I want
4. She challenge me to be a better person
5.I was ready
I was hoping somebody put the steps down but they didn't. So I decided to be that somebody.

[rickb.]

I think too many people get desperate about marriage when they reach a certain age and some make desperate aggressive marriage decisions as a result of age which is wrong.

[SnowFoxParty]

That awkward moment when you're marriage material but you're still single 😢

[leylapirhadi]

Timing is the most important factor in both men and women, you may reject to marry a good guy / girl because you think it is too early but when you reach a certain age you will see all your friends are married and you feel like left behind and you will probably accept even an average woman/man as your spouse. I have seen this many times in family or friends.

[sloebone]

You should do "Why Certain Men Marry Women".

I think that who the woman is less important than finding a guy who wants to be married. As a woman you could be perfect... Sexy, cool, fun, and all that, but if a guy doesn't want to get married, you're wasting your time. Don't be the girl giving ultimatums to some poor guy. You want a husband, not a hostage. Be the best woman you can be then find a guy with your same goals. It's going to work out a lot better for you.

[darciek]

They all want to marry their best friend yet I get friend zoned with no hope....

[lalagirl]

If you love ...someone because you think he or she is really gorgeous ...
then its not love .. its "Infatuation" !!

If you love someone because you think you shouldn't leave him/ her because other think that you shouldn't ...
then its not love its "Compromise" !!

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live without his/her touch ...
then its not love its "Lust" !!

if you love someone because you have been kissed by him/her ...
then it's not love it's "inferiority complex" !!

if you love someone because you cannot leave him/her thinking that it would hurt his/her feelings ...
then it's not love its "charity" !!

If you love someone because you share everything with him/her ...
then it's not love.. it's "Friendship" !!

But if you feel the pain of the other person more then him/her even when he/she is stable and you cry for him/her ...
that's "LOVE" !!

If you get attracted to other people but stay with him/her without any regrets ...
that's "LOVE" !!

if you let him/her go knowing that he has to go but doesn't want to ...
That's "LOVE" !!.

[Dancediva]

In real life its really hard to say who might get married when and for what reasons. I have a good friend who swore off men cos she had been hurt too much and decided to concentrate on her degree. Then a guy friend who she had always seen as just a friend from day one proposes to her as a joke and she said yes and 5 months later, they were married. He couched it as a joke to prevent himself from looking like a fool if she said no, most likely.This is a man she knew for 6 years before marriage and never EVER considered as somebody she would marry, just respected him for his character. She got married and forgot all about her degree. Expecting first child any time now.
Another friend married a 22 year old when she was 30. He blew hot and cold during their courtship cos of past girlfriend's betrayal and gave her a hard time basically. Certainly didnt seem ready. But got married 8 months later. Now married 5 years and have a 4 year old son.
Real life is much more unpredictable and surprising than what dating coaches encourage and discourage people to do and say and behave and look out for. People's reactions are not the same to the same situations and everyone is unique in how they approach things. When it comes to marriage, it's really just destiny.

[johnking-fdhb]

imm 35 never been married no kids yet, ... that is very sad

[nataliesamlal]

My husband is my classmate we sat in the same class and we are still marry snd happy. Praise God. . What i love about him he is genine and honest and caring

[mrsturner]

Husband said he knew that he wanted to marry me when I played D&d with all of his geeky friends and actually had fun. Plus our first date was Mario kart and pizza. From the heart to you, pick someone that makes everyday better by just being around. 10 years strong still like newlyweds.

[جعفرنور-عو]

so true. greetings from a happy married man .

[spsxzbl]

"I was ready" is such an important step because often despite having everything going right for them, couples are stuck in different world when it comes to one partner being ready and the other one not.

[duchessj]

I received like 5 marriage proposals and said no to all of them. Now that I think of it, neither of them were my 'best friend.' Maybe that's the key lol. It would make sense. It certainly is weird if I had other male (and female) friends that I'm closer to than my own partner.

[strawberriesblueberries]

True love is beautiful when there is kindness

[rosemaravilha]

Yes, be each other's best friends, as he says, you'll spend the vast majority of your time not having sex when you're married for a long time, for whatever reason, so make sure it's someone you also like a lot and love inspite of a lot.

[pavry]

also #4 is out from personal experience. i haven't dated a single guy who wanted me to challenge him and i have dated ALL kinds of different guys. they didn't want to really put in the work to be better people ... because deep down and when it gets to it, most people don't. just a fact.

[kinndah]

You just need to vibe with someone's energy and pay attention to compromise being mutual. If those 2 things are absent, then they aren't for you. Let's not complicate this.

[ayenyin]

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