NARCISSIST'S FINAL DISCARD: How To Know When Over is Really Over

Are you wondering if you're dealing with the narcissist's final discard? The truth is that you decide when over is really over, but there are a few things we can learn about this narcissistic discard that can help you overcome that relationship and put it in the rearview mirror.

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[mikeriolo]

The final discard is when they know u have figured them out.

[blastprosful]

"THEY GET BORED"
They need a fresh supply.
No longer is your love and attention enough.
They need to see who else wants to put them on a pedestal.

[vampireslayer]

Fortunately I saw the discard coming like a freight train. In the devaluation stage, my pride was not going to allow her to destroy me. I loved her, so my ending it hurt...a lot.
Today 5 years out now, I often forget her name. But I will never forget what Narcissists, Sociopaths and Borderlines do to good people.

[The_Darius_King]

She broke up with me yesterday and is already in another relationship. I blocked her on all social media, blocked her number, and I'm focusing on myself from here on.

[face]

This is exactly what I went through, I had to go through 3 discards to finally learn my lesson. I didn't want to believe they were a covert narcissist.

[illmeeillmee]

Only YOU control the final discard! It doesn’t matter if the narcissist dumped you or you dumped the narcissist. No contact is vital for survival and your well being

[keyamoore]

The Finial discard will come from you. They are done when you are done. ❤❤

[keeshbe]

The hardest thing to do is letting them let you go.

[nismofury]

You go no contact with an elderly mother and everyone thinks you're bad. They don't contemplate the years of abuse you had to endure.

[dianedibiasio]

How to make a narcissist suffer? Ignore them ;-)

[caseywatson]

Once you realize who they are and they stop fighting for the relationship through their actions and not their words. ACTIONS. It hurts, but it is better to cut them off and go no contact.

[joyelbel]

The cycles are shorter the further you go. Once they realize you are on to them, they waste less time on you.

[markleisa]

Hello, it is important to note that with each discard you're feelings become less and less for the narcissist, because, if someone loves you they wouldn't ever treat you this way. Nothing is ever their fault, you made them act that way. It will never be like it was in the very beginning.So save yourself alot of hurt and cut them loose now.

[TrixieBoo]

When I left my ex, he came out with how sorry he was and how he realised what he has done. He started crying and blaming his childhood then begged for one more chance. When I didn't fall for it, he turned nasty. He accused me of cheating and told everyone that I was abusive to him. I didn't let it get to me and I moved into my own place. He then wanted to be friends. I went no contact and have been living my best life:)

[vesnalukic]

And yes, they come back and beg and say they've changed and when you finally hold them accountable they go right back out the door.

[rturtle]

This is the hardest thing for me. I’m struggling and i miss him even though i know he can never change and be the person i wish he could be.

[anitarohm]

When the Narc starts their "Devalue Phase", it's time to "Discard" them. LMAO.

[adambrown]

The most annoying part is most narcissistic people are very attractive, so finding a person to fill your shoes is easy for them. See with narcissists it's not about the person that fills your shoes, as long as those shoes are filled.

[ean]

"They cycle through people like they cycle through cell phones."
YOU NAILED IT. 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[exx]

I got a HOOVER today. He left our 21 year marriage 10 months ago. I so enjoy not responding