How to Reconnect with Friend After a Fall Out | @CyrusAusar

Falling out with a friend can be a really difficult thing to navigate. Reconciling depends not only on the reason for the falling out but also on the personalities of those involved.

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[subject_changed]

"give it some time" coming up on a year without that old best friend. I dont think things will ever go back.

[bagi]

My situation is complicated, life was good once, but then everything fell apart because of my mistake and I would do anything for a second chance. I mean it's probably too late now. I can't say that I'm depressed because I'm only 16 but I'm still really sad.

[benedictdelacruz]

I just started college and found this core of 4 that i got to be a part of. We were going strong until an incident where i got singled out. I thought they would stay by my side but they didn't, and I got mad about it. And now i ended up feeling like I have to be the one to apologize for reacting that way.

[alyssavalerros]

This is so helpful. Thank you for always providing us with solutions.

[StrongElite]

Thank you so much you have given me the courage to reconnect with my friend.

[williehenderson]

My friend ended our friendship because it wasn't guniue friendship. I loan her money almost a year she need financial help but she really didn't make payments back to me and all making up excuses.

[TinkyTru]

Yep… I don't have pride with people that I care about.

[nathanw]

I know this kind of resentment will eat you up inside a bit so this vid was v helpful for me to hear preciate you putting yourself out there bro🙏

[heyitsajmartinez]

I havent reconnect to my childhood friends for 11 years. I dont know how to reconnect.

[keitho]

Humans are complicated creatures. Wish We can turn off our emotions.

[azan]

hey i’m not sure if you will see this, but i really need help and you look like you have the answers.

[jayq]

Thank you for the video Cyrus! Can you please tell me if this apology (over text) seems sincere?

I’m respecting your desire for space but I’d like to apologize. I’m sorry for coming across as if I made some assumptions when I was bluntly stating how I felt. Next time, I’ll better control my emotions and be more mindful of how I word things. I’d like to talk in person and clear the air. If you’re not willing, I understand, but if you are, tell me where and when we can meet. 

Hours later at 1 AM I realized that it kind of seemed like I was gaslighting, so I texted her again and said:

More specifically I’m sorry for accusing you of certain things.

I hope you respond. She is a really great friend to me.

[roysalazar]

It's been a year. I messed up and she started a new job and just like that, one mistake i did and it was over.

[gabecollins]

I had a friend a while back about a year and a half ago I fell out with and I don’t know why I haven’t said or done something sooner. It almost feels weird to just suddenly after more than a year say something to become friends or at least explain what I did when I could’ve done it much earlier. I’m not sure what they think of me anymore or if they’d even consider talking to me again. What would be a good approach to talking to someone you fell out with because of something that was my fault after more than a year? It used to be a good friendship but it all changed quite quickly. I feel it best to try because the worst that could happen is they ignore me or just say they don’t want to talk anymore. It’s at least an attempt.

[beegsex]

It’s been a month since my friend & I stopped talking. I said something really hurtful & she’s blocked me off since.

[carmenramirezcruz]

Thing is...the situation we were having was causing me anxiety, so I started blocking. RN we have an open chat in FB, but I feel like he don't want to be too close to me, like he might be bothering. But we had an awesome connection and I miss him as a friend. My mind is a mess right now.

[ahamofodu]

Thanks this was helpful my friend decided to end a 17 year friendship on my birthday

[buhblue]

it’d been years. it was my fault and i don’t know how to get it back.

[youreincredible]

Its been a year no contact, was friends for 16 years, i think i was a convience and the jealousy on their part got too much.

[rithushanr.]

So basicly i forgot a Friends Birthday but the Thing is i did Now the month but not the day but he knew my Birthday and gave me a present but i didnt gave him on because i didnt now and i didnt spend much time whit him anymore so i forgot His Birthday and didnt spend much time whit him anymore pls help i really want them back life whitout friends is very sad for me😔