Why Women Pick Fights

Let's talk a bit about what happens AFTER you get into a relationship. Like how to have a harmonious fulfilling relationship on your terms. And guess what, the occasional fight is part of that. Here's how to handle those fights:

[ToddVDating]

Please let me know if you like these videos about things beyond cold approach... like relationships, social skills in other contexts, female psychology, commentary on being a man in 2024 etc... and if there are particular topics you'd like to see along these lines. Thanks!

[trafford-ve]

As I watch this enthralling video, it resurrects the painful memories of my recent breakup—a relationship of 4 years that ended just three months ago. The woman who meant everything to me decided to leave, plunging me into a vortex of heartache. Despite my desperate attempts to reconcile, I find myself trapped in a cycle of frustration and longing, unable to envision a life without her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I find solace in expressing my lingering affection for her here.

[SycrosD]

“Apologize for what you did. Do NOT apologize for who you are.”

Gotta remember that

[sickranchez]

If women pick fights sometimes they're trying to test your masculine core.

The best way to react to them is with calm, humour (if appropriate) and don't argue back. And NEVER apologise if you're right, as this will lower your value in her eyes. If there's ever a girl who goes mental at me I walk away and either wait for them to calm down or walk away for good. Simple. Let them know you love them, but you're not willing to talk to them when they're shouting and screaming at you. Boundaries are very important. The worst thing you can do is reinforce this behaviour and put up with it. Unfortunately, a lot of guys do this in fear of losing their girl.

[andremotivation]

The women who start fights like this will either end up in a really bad situation i.e domestic violence or ruin a good relationship because she doesn't want to communicate properly like an adult. A monogamous relationship takes two. Alot of women take it too far and lose out big time.

[mostafamahtab]

Gem video to get out of sticky situation and possibly divorce

[NeerajSingh-gnhu]

a full practical guide for group sets and mixed sets, and how to game in these situations .

[mtlicq]

Yes, all these things, including the add-on at the last 1/3 of the video. Narcissism exists, in some cases. Also, you know, sometimes people (male or female) can act 'crazy' simply due to inadequate sleep, also nutrition issues, deficiencies of the vitamins that are necessary & beneficial for brain health, B-Complex vitamins & zinc, the "stress vitamins" during times of general stress, anxiety, from any & all sources accumulating on her; Also, too much sugar and sodium intake. If you're a couple, steer her (and yourself) towards less sugar & sodium/salt, and have a daily multi-vit.

[amers]

I never apologize because they never do this, so I don't think it's necessary...
Just don't repeat what you did and that's it...

[ATRTAP]

In my experience it’s just been easier to get a new girl then to say “I’m sorry”.

[hscsscjscbangladhormo]

no other coaches explain details like you. They only show things on the surface.

[jaheinema]

Great video! Helps a lot to understand the beautiful but also really confusing female nature.

[amphibious]

Todd, start every video by explaining why people should listen to you. I believe you would grow significantly faster and people can immediately answer the underlying question of "why should I listen to you?" Or "who are you to talk about this". I've followed your content for a while and have gotten into an amazing relationship because of your videos, soon 3 years now. And I know if you explain all of the success and experience you have had with women, and helping others find love, at the start of every video, you would blow up.

[jojo-urli]

Todd: How valuable would you say is keeping ones hair for dating? Are you on finasteride and minoxidil, would you say it's worth it despite the side effects?

[foam_on_face]

@Todd V can you make a video on how to deal with the girl when your value has indeed decreased for whatever reason - financial loss, can't go to the gym cos you're really busy, temporary emotional changes etc

[icmxhjd]

If guilty - say sorry. In all other cases tell her she can leave.

[andresfj]

How to handle ex gf blocking your game??
For example, both of you be in the same friendships social circle and she starts tryna get to know those girls who potentially could be her "replacement", to get ahead and take action before you.
I live in a small city and its hard to deal w this, rumors spread more quickly than a virus and she doesnt want to see me hitting another girl

[americanexpat]

There's another big reason that is missing here. That is, if you are not appreciating or respecting her - and this is distinct from paying attention, then she will pick fights about rather meaningless things. However, that is actually a good sign because in that situation she still cares enough to have the fight. Once she stops picking a fight in this instance, she's given up on you.

[superseiyan]

1. I’ve noticed “right now” always overrides the general good vibes of a relationship or the fun time you had last week. It’s hard to handle for me, any tips?

2. How often do these mini-flare ups or “fights” happen ?

3. Is positivity and staying calm as a man ok or does it antagonize?

4. Guys don’t say “calm down!” 😬

[swaggybaconcheese]

Watching this on data cause it's been so long and Im not around wifi