Am I a Bad Wife If I Find Someone Else Attractive?

Am I a Bad Wife If I Find Someone Else Attractive?

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[bennyfugazzi]

The grass is always greener when you water your lawn

[lisaobesaful]

“My husband is great, and this guy seems great.” She’s gonna regret this if she loses her husband. A guy who is willing to sleep with another man’s wife is not “great”, no matter what he SEEMS to be.

[rebeccaoprea]

Don’t cut a tree down in the winter just because it looks dead. Seasons change.

[___Rebecca___]

This is why so many men aren't wanting to get married anymore. Her husband busts his butt and built his own business to provide a good life for his family and this lady decides to go cheat and blame it on him because he isn't giving her enough attention for a few months of the year. Then they go to court and she gets half of his stuff. Its insane. Women like this make us look so bad.

[cmore]

The fact that shes so confident that the guy would show up at the hotel or whatever tells me its probably gone deeper than shes letting on

[risingsunofjapan]

Imagine her husband finds this video and recognizes her name, voice, and city😬

[HugoLopez-nmqn]

If I heard this from my wife I would not be able to handle it ☠️

[LaneDenson]

She didn't call to be talked out of it; she called to be affirmed.

[elliecox]

“Trying to stay faithful” is a crazy phrase

[Dansyoung]

It’s funny, I listen, I get triggered…. And then I realize the bliss of being single and not having to waste my life with someone like this. True peace.

[lizaagonzi]

I feel bad for her children and her husband some people are very selfish

[IamRa-]

He keeps saying
“I don’t think you like the reality of that”
And she keeps basically saying
“Yes, I really do.”

[cgifeqd]

She is blessed with a good life and family. Someone said yes to doing life with you. Focus on being grateful for what you have rather than what you don't.

[solar]

So he’s in great shape, works hard makes money, she’s out of shape, and SHE is trying not to sleep with a coworker? Temptation? Horrible intentions in this woman, wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.

[ElizabethSotiria]

She’s already made her mind up, she’s too comfortable talking about wanting to do it and how “she’s so afraid “ of taking the next step bc she doesn’t “trust herself”.
This call was her proving (to herself? Or her husband? Idk) that she tried not to.. that she made an effort to get advice.. before doing what she’s going to do regardless.
She’s made the decision & she’s made peace with it.
Her giggling and entire demeanour screams excitement. She’s almost giddy talking about it.
She doesn’t sound torn or guilty at all..
This lady is absolutely going to cheat. 💯 😂

[roro]

There is a big difference between finding someone attractive and actively fantasizing about being with someone.

[ryankittle]

Why is this so hard for people.... "it's so hard to not get the hotel room and have an affair"... No, it's bloody easy to not book a hotel, certainly easier to no book than it is to book.

[lukeedison]

I honestly think the best scenario is for her husband to hear this phone call and know it’s her and know exactly who she is talking about. I wish I knew him and could send him this because HE deserves to be the one to decide what happens next in their life together.

[julinademooy]

Marriage takes work on both ends. Dates, breaks from work, active listening, encouraging each other's dreams, putting effort into yourself and yes also showing restraint when temptation comes.

[anngarci]

It’s not worth it lady. I’ve been in your situation and now found myself divorced and alone missing my ex husband.