My Wife Is Not Virgin | I want to divorce her | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem

Speaker: Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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[Kdvskyy]

May Allah protect us from this type of situation.

[tousifj]

~ I WAS INTO A MARRIAGE WITH A NON VIRGIN~
After 2 weeks of my marriage, my wife's ex had given me intimate photos of her with different people. I was shocked and traumatised.
I got a fatwa to accept her. I went to accept her. Before going, I spoke to her over phone where she expressed hapiness. But when I went her place, she told that she had not done anything wrong. She said whatever she had done was before marriage and I should not have over reacted. And she asked khula (may be luckily) because I "said many bad things". I dont know what was it. I said her if there is anything I said in anger I am sorry for that. I want to resolve the issue. She didnt agree. But she did take money for the Khula.

I married again. May be with the most innocent girl on earth. My wife loves me a lot. She is highly dedictated to our family. Allah has listened my prayers.

[perdana]

If you feel cheated and it causes you emotional distress then it's best to divorce and move on because that's the best for everyone. Marriage is for peace. If after learning the fact of who she is, you lose your ability feel peace, then there's no point in the marriage anymore.

[acahn]

My advice to all our brothers and sisters that aren't married. Please stay far away from zina despite your desires. It can have a detrimental impact on your future. If you can, get married young. You don't have to be financially settled to get married, I wasn't. You have time to grow your wealth later with your spouse

[ari-jv]

I’m a woman and I wouldn’t like if my son was a virgin and married a non virgin.

[proofofmyexistence]

This is scary. No man would tolerate this especially if he himself was pure and put it as a requirement before marriage.
Anyways may Allah protect everyone and grant all of us good & pure spouses.

[Entertainment]

Rise your Hand if You think this man should divorce her present wife

[Fearlesskash]

i would immediately divorce if this happens to me. Not my cup of tea to tolerate this

[mayg]

There is a correction I want to point out. Not every unmarried woman is a virgin in Islam, that's not the meaning. Every unmarried woman is assumed to be a virgin, unless there is evidence to suggest otherwise. In this case there was an actual confession, so there is no disparity. And in the Quran Allah tells us to marry so we may find peace, but what peace is one expected to find when you were deceived before the nikah and one of your 2 conditions were not fulfilled. It's really up to the man, but if this was my close relative or a friend I really care about who asked me for advise, I would tell him to divorce

[xgamershub]

Multiple men? Damn if it was one okay a mistake but now it's not even a mistake it's a choice made by a grown woman

[thatmichiganguy]

If he wanted her VIRGIN and she wasn't, then that's a major lie
Sheik started explaining the definition of 'virgin'
That's irrelevant. The man wanted a woman who was not touched by another man. Period

[bigrunts]

It’s haram to say you’re a virgin when you’re not.

[muhammadosama]

He has a right to divorce her bcz she accepted she lied and had multiple men before. If she repented Allah will forgive her but he is not obligated to keep her now he is armed with this information. I would divorce her asap.

[TruthSeeker-vysm]

No man can tolerate this after finding out

[wahabrehman]

I think Sheikh missed point, and is completely dismissing how this man feels

[lawalmuritala]

She took undue advantage of him 😢
That's already a ground for divorce 😭😭

[hammadb]

I don't think Sheikh truly understood, the guy was a virgin and wanted a virgin and rightfully so, men have higher sex drive than women yet my guy stayed virgin despite his sexual desires, you have no idea how hard it must've been for him, and all he asked in return was a wife who's a virgin.

So why are you telling him to accept it, it's not even about forgiveness it's about the fact that she lied to him and she was not the kind of person he wanted, so why are you telling him to suck it up????

He has the full right to divorce her, so stop saying "if Allah forgives her sins why can't you?" Because my guy ain't known as "the all forgiving", plus it ain't about forgiveness it's about the kind of person he wanted to share his life with.

So disappointed on Sheikh's advice

[strokedout]

Bro if your wife had a promiscuous past, it’s going to mess up your future. Idk why this man is saying to just accept it. You can’t find peace knowing your wife has been dug out by multiple men before you. Leave her and find another. She should’ve been straight up with you before your marriage.

[WolfyGamerPro]

Surah An-Nur 26:

"Wicked women are for wicked men, and wicked men are for wicked women. And virtuous women are for virtuous men, and virtuous men are for virtuous women. The virtuous are innocent of what the wicked say. They will have forgiveness and an honourable provision."

He tells that clean past was one of his requirements for marriage. So, by lying did she violated his haqq. Now he's to blame because his wife is a liar? How could you trust such a wife? That so called sheikh is partly wrong.

[yamazaki]

So its ok to commit adultery before marriage and lie, deceive to future spouse?
Repentance doesn't give you free pass to deceive someone especially your future spouse.
Muslim men have choice to marry Christian or jew women but Muslim men will opt for Muslim women because they are thought to be more modest.
i am afraid that your advice will give more freedom to those who commit adultery.
instead of condemning the act you are giving leverage.
Guys do not compromise in such situations, we must protect our women from such fitna.
may ALLAH subhanahu wa ta'la guide us to the straight path.