The ignorant narcissistic enabler

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[jimratzlaff]

"Other people stood by and watched this happen to you and said nothing." Really painful when the "other people" are family.

[northofyou]

I was in therapy for years with several different therapists. No one ever said to me, "Your mother is a narcissist." My whole life shifted into focus when I began studying narcissism on my own. My entire life made sense suddenly.

[Peppermon]

The whole “they are family. You can’t leave family.” So many other people made me feel bad because I should just put up with the abuse because they are “family”

[SteeleMagnolia]

Being the scapegoat of the narcissistic smear campaign is one of the most painful experiences imaginable

[profesorhaven]

"Narcissism is a public safety issue." -Ramani

[lorinapetranova]

"Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King jr.

[alissar]

The problem is people love messy, gossip, something to talk about in their mundane lives as long as it not about them so they sit back and enable.

[MaciekRabizo]

Narcissism awareness is a true game changer in life. The worst part is that most people don't want to believe any of it, even tho they are constantly under narcissistic abuse. Oh well, that's not us here, on this channel, thanks to dr. Ramani :D Thank you again, and can't ever than enough for all this knowledge.

[AyeAsh]

SHOCKINGLY, I've had therapist gaslight me in regards to narcissistic situation I was in. But this person also openly admitted that they have low self worth. They couldn't even understand that I had the STRENGTH to walk away from someone so damaging. They cannot do it themselves. Be careful who you seek understanding from.

[ai]

“I stopped explaining myself when I realized other people only understand from their level of perception.” - Anonymous

[mysmirandam.]

Theres ignorance and then there's willfull ignorance

[sharonclarke]

When I left my narcissist family, enabler said I was the one who needs to forgive them because family is important. It's not about forgiveness, but about my own well-being.

[markpfeffer]

6:47 -- "Self gaslighting tends to be very reflexive in survivors of narcissistic abuse, especially when they're surrounded by enablers who don't get it."

Thank you so much.

[gmamose]

I think there are people in life who just really don't want to know. Either they've never experienced it, or they have and they just don't get it. My experience was so painful that I was like a bloodhound searching for answers.

[a.dahliaadler]

"But he/ she was also nice to you". She/ He wasn't always bad to you. This is not a justification!

[abbykendrick]

My grandmother was the worst enabler I’d ever known.. constant invalidation of feelings just to keep appearances of things being ok.

[whiskersandtailsII]

For me, that was the worst part of the abuse I endured...I felt like no one understood the situation. That was the loneliest period of my life. Thankfully it is in the past and I have been able to move on.

[pri.sci.lla.]

My narc decided last night they would “punish” me by leaving me alone! I wanted to jump for joy! That’s all I’ve ever wanted, just to be left alone in peace and allowed to blossom.

[annewrites...]

"Other people watched this happen to you and said nothing." Once again, you have opened my heart and poured in healing. I am so grateful xxx

[gregansen]

"The relief of talking to you is that I don´t need to explain myself." Yep, an 11/10 there.