Things men say in my TikTok comments! #shorts

[georgeblair]

"I used to think the worst thing was being alone. It's not. The worst thing is being with people who make you feel alone" - R. Williams.

[Slitheringpeanut]

And the younger ladies wonder why no man wants to chase them anymore...

These were heartbreaking.

[rydeezy]

Yup they say this to us every time we are a little vulnerable yet they will use their mental health and past trauma issues in every circumstance they possibly can.

[TroubadourMusic]

She told me I was codependent because I was mad at her breaking her promises. I told her codependent people don't leave relationships and I vanished from her life.

[seaotter]

My husband and I have been married almost 22 years now. I would never treat him so disrespectful. I've read through these comments and my heart breaks for all of you having gone through a loveless marriage/relationship. Everyone deserves to be loved. Cared for. Respected. Encouraged. Made to feel like they matter. That they are important. Pampered. Wanted. I'm so sorry guys. You deserve better. You are worthy.

[robinfox]

Reminds me of this saying - "Men don't express their feelings because they're not allowed to." At first glance you'd think it's because other men don't allow them to. No, it's because women are the ones who don't allow us to.

[EthanH]

“I’m not your cheerleader.”

If you’re in a relationship with someone, regardless of gender, you should like the idea of giving them encouragement. It’s wonderful to know that you make a positive difference in the life of someone you love. Right now I’m single, but if I start dating someone I will happily be her cheerleader when she needs it.

[kevinh]

"You're worth more dead than alive" . Said this because of life insurance money during one of our many fights . After 10 years of marriage we didn't communicate anymore, when the person you're with makes you feel so worthless I can't imagine why. I worked so hard to provide for us and it was never enough.

[jeffmatson]

That is totally Reasonable and loving requests from a husband. The sad truth. Thank you for your program. Bringing common Sense for a better society.

[insaneoflex]

Sometimes i get lonely and sad, but then videos like these make me happy to be single lol

[Sarah-icyu]

This breaks my heart. These women aren’t even showing their husbands/boyfriends the basic respect most people show strangers. Men, keep your heads up and don’t be afraid to stand up for the respect you deserve. There are good women out there, I promise. If you’re married to a woman like this, I urge you to see a counselor. They can go to bat for you when you feel that you can’t.

[christopherhubert]

I was 36 and felt like her doormat. Not only did she constantly make me feel worthless, she was fooling around with a friend of mine! I dumped them both. Now I’m 62 and have had a wonderful life, and met many nice girls. She is still drinking wine with her girlfriends and never had another relationship in all these years. I still have two good sons and three grandchildren. If you get treated like crap, walk up and say “if things don’t change, you can go to hell alone, cause I’m not joining you”, and then go see a lawyer. I would rather be alone and poor than spend one additional minute with a woman that despises men that much.

[billhowe]

I broke my back and was told, “ You are not helpless, it just takes you longer to do things. Don’t leave dishes in the sink. She’s divorced now with no prospect of a future relationship.

[zackkazco]

Im dating a girl who sent me a snarky snidey comment because I didn't respond to her wishing me a certain happy holiday in a timely manner...I responded to her with "do you think its healthy for our relationship to send me negative comments when I didn't have time to respond because my phone was blowing up from work, had a car wreck that day plus I was driving home late from work in rush hour....she responded with "im sorry for being selfish and should have realized im (she) is not the only one with problems"...My point is, set the course of the relationship up early or get out if the wrong girl

[victoriousjoy]

One of the things I love about being in a relationship is cheerleading the man. It's part of being on the same team with a goal of facing the difficulties of life together and overcoming them!

[Imsoconfusedthesedays]

To the other men out there, you’re not alone bro. Keep up the good fight, you’ll get through this 👊 And to the genuine women who do have our backs, we ve got you too, always

[ChiefBeefKeith]

"Its not my fault my actions make you feel like that"

[David-wqdq]

heard so many times when I felt insecure "that sounds like your problem, not mine."

[KurNorock]

Yep. There was a 5 week period where my ex-girlfriend kept cancelling on me. So we didn't see each other at all for those 5 weeks. Then I got injured at work and ended up bed-ridden for another 5 weeks, during which time she didn't visit me at all.

So finally, after 10 weeks of not seeing each other at all, and very little phone calls or texting, I went to her place and after walking in the door to see her completely unenthused and annoyed that I was there, I asked her "Haven't seen each other for 10 weeks and now you look annoyed that I'm here. So do you just not want to see me anymore or something?" Which I thought was a perfectly reasonable question.

Her reply was immediate eyerolling and anger as she said/yelled "Oh my God! You are so clingy! What do you want me to just follow you around like a lost dog or something? Gawd! I feel like you are the girl in the relationship! I have to pee. Wait for me in the living room."

So I sat on her couch for a couple minutes wondering what the hell I was even doing. Then got up and left. Then 5 hours later I get a text from her "What the hell? Why did you leave without telling me?" To which I replied "Because I knew you would be in the bathroom "peeing" for 5 hours so that you could avoid me. And I'm not going to hang around where I'm not wanted. Didn't want to be "clingy" after all."

It was a week later I finally got enough sense to leave her.

By the way, this is the same girl that told me once that if I got her pregnant, I would never know about it. Took me several minutes to realize she was talking about getting an abortion, even though she already had a kid from her ex-husband when she got pregnant after they were only dating for 2 weeks. So she kept a stranger's baby, but wouldn't have kept mine. And to top it off, I found out later that she already had an abortion 10+ years earlier and that really fucked her up emotionally, to the point where she was still having nightmares and panic attacks over the guilt. So she was willing to go through that trauma again rather than have my baby. That one hurt. I still don't understand why I didn't leave her that night.

[robbsclassics]

I broke up with the mother of my daughter after she told me, on the day I lost my job, "I know you feel bad, but that doesn't matter. What are we going to do?" We got into a big argument with me telling her she wasn't being supportive, and her having no regard for my feelings.