Who's In CHARGE In Polygamy?

Who Are We?
Coaches Nazir, Fatimah, & Nyla understand the important of proper polygyny education because their religious and community leaders failed them. We made many mistakes but chose to fight for our family and the wisdom we’ve gained, we give. Our mission is to offer practical guidance about one of the oldest and strongest forms of marriage known as polygyny (a husband with multiple wives).

ABOUT OUR CHANNEL:
Whether you're single, in a monogamous relationship, exploring or already in polygyny, we shed light on its different dynamics, challenges, and successes when being done in a healthy fashion.

FOR MEN:
We focus on enhancing your leadership, helping you become emotionally and mentally strong, and build your overall confidence and skillset so you can win at polygyny.

FOR WOMEN:
Our guidance helps in embracing femininity, cultivating emotional maturity, and navigating complex dynamics to live a life of fulfillment and joy.

ABOUT YOU:
If you're someone who desires to learn and win at polygyny, we promise truth, best practices, and continuous learning.

[YumnahSampson-brfw]

Perhaps what is meant by permission is 'did you ask your wife if she's ok with it?'Or have you discussed it with her?

[aisham]

Alhamdulillah! 💜السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Nice little talk among you two.🧕👳‍♂️ Giving us the scoop on some things! "BE OUTSTANDING" جزاك الله خيرا

[bryanotieno]

Kindly discuss financial literacy within Polygyny

[baybeefaat]

Permission is the wrong word, but consultation is really important. All parties need to agree in order to have a harmonious family. And we know for sure that Prophet did consult his wives on serious issues (not polygyny of course) and even listened to them and followed their advice (Umm Salama and the treaty of Hudaybiyyah) It doesn’t threaten manhood in anyway to act on advice from your wife.

[lisathomasson]

The wives relationship might be platonic but for me to even consider it id have to be platonically married to her too. Commiting, consulting, trusting supporting, planning, all things in a marriage would have to be apart of the wives relationship. Lol My platonic wife hahaha but really, without all that itd bring alot of problems. Having that kinda relationship with the other wife would help to avoid jealousy & insecurity. This other woman cares enough about me & my feelings to consult me, trust me, support me, commit to me (as a friend for life), assuring me shes not trying to replace me...& i do the same...thats what i would need.

[goldiekhan]

I have non Muslim childhood friend who waited and froze eggs waiting for his “right time” to address his wife about her . She’s now in her 50s still waiting.

[UmmZakareey]

I like when she said(I’m paraphrasing) “We have a discussion about it but he doesn’t need to seek my permission”.
I never understand when I hear that the man married secretly to avoid drama. Isn’t it drama to disrupt your household and not discuss the changes to come?

[TheWiseChronicles]

yikes. Flat out if my husband ever wanted to marry someone else I would no longer be his wife and we would be divorced.

[beaboutpeaceandpleasure]

It's just a good position as a man to be in. Having your wife lord over you is detrimental to both man and woman imo.

[KirkWilliams]

I like this channel, I also believe that each individuals freedom is vital, he is out of the country, and she wants to go to Chicago, even if he is in a different county he can’t help her either, no freedom no love, control. IMHO

[sonyarose]

Very good information. Although permission is not required, it is problematic to not offer the same respect that you would want if the shoe were on the other foot. The woman has a right to this discussion and to make a decision about how to proceed with her own life: whether to remain or exit.
Also, although polygny may not (depending on circumstances) be physically harmful to some women, other women may find it excruciating, emotional pain and hurt can be just as devastating if not more so. It is the husband’s first responsibility to protect his wife in more ways than one.

[Joylove]

He’s not your child, but your partner. I think when you’re partner’s in anything in life you should at the least consult the other partner. 😁

[YumnahSampson-brfw]

The Prophet s.a.w. never asked any ov his wives permission to get married again.