why I love being single and alone

I’m not here to disparage relationships or tell you what you should or shouldn’t do.

This is just a few of my current thoughts and what I’m feeling.

Do you enjoy being single or in a relationship?

Let me know below

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[bigcheech]

Honestly, I’ve only been unhappy in relationships…every time I’m single it’s rainbows and butterflies. I looove my single life 😂

[robertcarter]

I unfortunately think to many people are narcissistic. My heart is to pure to deal with to many people. Being single, I’ve save money & my mental health

[paulnilsson]

I am 53 years old. I have always lived alone and I like it.

[jpgiles]

This video hit home for me. I thought I was alone in this situation. My last girlfriend was a year and a half ago. After the little depression of losing her, Ive been the happiest ive ever been being single. I go to amusement parks by myself. i sit on my couch on a friday night have a few beers and watch a movie. Ive only slept with one person since the break up. Even chasing girls doesn't really interest me at this point. The thought of trying to figure out a good date, when to text or not text, when to try and make a move, should i make a move. It just seems draining to me. I feel like my whole thoughts on being single was expressed through this video. My guy friends in relationships tell me all the time. "Dude, you're single, if i was single id be hooking up with girls left and right. Thats what you should do" I just think nah, id rather play guitar, or watch a sports game, Hang with at home by myself with the fur babies 😂.

Im glad jm not weird. Ive really come to enjoy the man that i am.

[innavision]

The fact is, spiritually, we are all we have. Yes you can link up with people who have like minded interests and share a similar purpose. You can do things to make it work and it can be a generally positive relationship. These are all good things. But the good times do not last indefinitely. The the reality is, you are the main character of your life, nobody is going to take that role for you. Yes devoting to a family is incredibly beautiful and fulfilling of an experience. But if you are not fulfilled first within your own space while alone, nothing life brings will fill that void. I think the more spiritually inclined you become with a love for truth, and also the more integrated on your retention path you are as a man, you realize the world of relationships is basically 90% mind games and a waste of time/energy. The race and chase toward relationship goal posts are largely motivated by ego and desire. It could all be so simple, but this world makes it incredibly complex. So the smartest way to win is to not play into it.

[waedjradi]

Whenever I reminisce on a great day I had. It is never one that involves another person.

[YanjuL-yn]

your perspective is spot on. Society has brainwashed so many people. Once you have hobbies you are passionate about and goals ; being single is peaceful. modern dating is also messed up

[MyForeverPerson]

I’m a woman 39 living in San Diego and I’ve spent 15 years trying to find someone, it never works out and its exhausting.

I am with you here. Staying single is a way of a more peaceful life

[bronks]

It’s weird. I’ll see my friends angry complaining about they’re wives like they can’t stand it. Yet they always trying to fix me up. I’m like bros if ur that miserable why do u want me to be? I’m content. the debt, risk and pain of a relationship is just not worth it.

[MrHabs]

Married at 40, divorced at 50. I’m 58 now & retired. I will never be in another relationship again. I’ve never been happier. The peace & quiet in my house is truly addictive. Stay single, fellas.

[joshuatimms]

“Anybody that did come into my life in that regard would be competing with my peace.” That’s exactly it. I’m finally at a point where I enjoy being alone that any disturbance to my comfortable way of living just doesn’t seem worth it to me anymore.

[glynnwright]

I have been married for over forty years and still miss my wife terribly after a few days apart. We support each other in every possible way, life is just a lot less fun without her around. It isn't always a smooth ride, we have disagreements, we both have annoying habits, but that is vastly outweighed by the shared experience.

[johnnybrix]

I dont get the obsession over relationships and marriage. I feel like id only do it because everyone else is...which makes me confused because im not really obsessed or feel the urge to get into a relationship. Im already happy, never feel heartbroken or anything.
Not saying i would say no to relationship...i just dont get the obsession over it
I feel like there is something much bigger than this world...

[windyacresway]

Im 55 live alone and have zero interest in modern women.I enjoy my peace and comfort.

[DominicDixon-rpjd]

I don't wanna get married or have kids

[bunnysb]

I love single. I like to save money and im very selfish and I don't want to talk to anyone if i want to make a decision. I want this my way. I enjoy not arguing and being abused physically and mentally and someone trying to control me and being cheated on. I don't miss that and don't want it. I enjoy being able to live a free life do want i want and don't want to have the responsibility of dealing with a relationship.

[NancyBuckley-nuhc]

I was married for 34 years once, and I missed him every time he was not around. That was a wonderful relationship. We worked together too so we were together a lot. He passed away in 2015, and I still miss him. I'd love to have that kind of relationship again. I know it's a very rare to find.

[sirgigglez]

im 36 and been single since birth. i love it. 😊

[electricEntity]

Wow. This really resonated with me. You said everything I feel ..and a whole lot more. 😊 thank you

[PK-zqqp]

I was married twice both wives cheated now being alone is peaceful no drama