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[Teksura]

I had an ex with this. She literally told me that "peace and quiet" was "too much of a roller coaster", and that was why she was always stirring stuff up.

[RaccoonRecluse]

I feel like there's a lot of people out there who also don't realize they're doing this because they are running on autopilot due to trauma.

[gr_unn]

I think that sometimes is IS fun to get people riled up— As in, making them somewhat annoyed by something stupid you’ve said, or by starting a silly back and forth over something inconsequential that might mildly irritate the other person in the short term, but doesn’t really matter to them in the long run.

What ISN’T ‘fun’ is stirring up genuine emotional distress and angst in other people for the sake of ‘drama’; like making people panic or cry with frustration, or using their own issues and insecurities to draw reactions out of them and provoke real full-blown arguments. That is truly just asshole behaviour.

[pure_chaos]

obligatory "here when there are only sex bots with emojis"

[acat]

I also want drama, I just don't want it to involve me.

[zacharydragonsblood]

I'm just the guy in the background with popcorn

[NicoRagnarsen]

Sometimes this is a trait of people with ADHD. Both my mother and I (ADHD-havers) will subconsciously start arguments when there's no need, just to get rid of boredom. I'm having to train myself to NOT start arguments for no reason. It is honestly a terrible trait to have. I once told my father about this little habit of mine (and how often it appears in other ADHD-havers) and he looked at me like I was insane. My mother yelled at me. Thus starting an argument for fun and proving my point.
Our brains don't function normally when it comes to being satisfied or happy, so sometimes we look for excitement in unhealthy ways. Addictions, unhealthy eating, fights, etc.
And no, I'm not a psychopath. My brain doesn't work properly and I have unhealthy coping mechanisms, but I'm not a psychopath.

[kacbcd]

True but sometimes it's fun to watch dominoes fall

[InfinityMakesVideos]

Cant wait for people to use that in thier arguments

[A_Professional_Idiot_mk.]

That’s absolutely fun sometimes

Like giving a hypothetical and arguing the stupidest possible side just to slightly annoy someone, but it’s not a big enough deal for them to reasonably get mad.

Like arguing for using headlights in space

[choryllis]

A lot of people do this as a trauma response.

It's the same reason why people who were abused by their parents, or abused by romantic partners, continue chosing abusive romantic partners. The trauma of all the fight or flight signals reorganized their brain so they no longer know the difference between "healthy" and "familiar". So they actively seek out the same kind of people because it's all they know.

[AsAMonkeyInAPinata]

I wonder what that makes me if I don’t want to be included the drama, but I do want to know everything about it 🤔

[greenapple]

I'd do this but only with people who are just huge assholes, incels, douchebags, bigots, just plain stupid, or all of the above. If they're not doing anything bad, I'll leave them alone.

[VincentMothlingIamDyslexic]

Also like don’t 99% of people have mild need drama to some extent but most of us are content with media to fill that. And some go to the comments to stir shit.

[elaexplorer]

Ok but it really depends on the people. Getting A-holes riled up in a way they can't harm anyone and everyone sees them for the A-holes that they are could be fun, at least fun to watch (or most of tv wouldn't have an audience).

[dy-wey]

If you're dating someone like this, RUN. they WILL start to cause drama in your relationship when they can't get it elsewhere and they will try to gaslight you into thinking it's normal. It's not. You're worth more.

[SaberCat]

This is my older brother. He likes to argue and belittle people (most often me) just to get me upset. He always smirks when I finally do. Even when I sit there staring blankly at him, he'll keep going hoping that he'll upset me. Been doing it for years. My twin finally started to notice like a month ago.

[seraphilight]

I'm just a sadist.

I'm nice to people who haven't bothered me. Unless it's a stranger in a moba- uninstalling is the goal.

[alchemysaga]

Lot of people in the comments acknowledging that this is bad, but because they are also acknowledging that they do it, they have to insist that it isn’t bad when *they* do it.

A toxic trait is a toxic trait, regardless of the environment. Best case scenario, it's maladaptive coping that you still have a responsibility to unlearn. Worst case scenario, you're just as bad as the people that you think it's "fair game" to do it to, and are probably further reinforcing their own beliefs that they were justified.

Or, in short, you took the pollution in the room and doubled it for everyone else.

[Wyzai]

3 comments and 4 bots. Nice ratio.
Anyhow, I'd just call it troll personality.