Divorce Without Losing Your Mind (or Money)

IAre you a man facing divorce and feeling overwhelmed? In this video, John Griffin shares his expert advice on how to navigate the divorce process without losing your mind or your hard-earned money. With a focus on divorce empowerment, John provides valuable insights on how to approach divorce with a growth mindset, ensuring a healthy and thriving post-divorce life. From divorce planning and strategies to personal development and relationship insights, John offers a comprehensive guide on how to emerge from divorce stronger and wiser. If you're looking for a good divorce that sets you up for a fulfilling life, this video is for you. Tune in to discover how to navigate the challenges of divorce and come out on top.

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00:00 The Courage To Decide
02:39 You Need To Take The Lead
05:05 Control Your Behavior And You Can Change Hers
07:26 Have a Vision For The Future
08:23 Divorce Mediator
11:05 Strategies and Tactics
13:20 Children Are The Priority
14:52 Don't Litigate The Marriage Now
18:47 Reconciliation May Be A Bad Idea
19:55 Have No Fear
20:50 Get Out In Front Of It

[christopherlindsay]

I did exactly what this video recommends and it turned out well! She was having an affair, didn’t really want to divorce (as John points out, she was probably scared) but wouldn’t end it with the other guy. We had many deeply emotional conversations, and I told her I didn’t want to live like that anymore and something needed to change. I had already done my homework and prepared my vision on paper for what a divorce would look like and shared it with her. She knew she messed up and said she didn’t want to hurt me financially, so we included a waiver of maintenance. We got a mediator and filed jointly, uncontested. I was friendly and amicable throughout. Everything in my plan was included in the marital settlement agreement. I got the house, no alimony, 2 years to pay the equalization payment because of the high mortgage rates, for about $2, 500.

[Cjwilkins]

3 best things that helped me when I went through my divorce at 24.

1. Not being established financially at the time so there was nothing for her to salvage or take from me.

2. Being young enough to have learned my lesson at an age to where I didn't have to learn the true dark reality of female nature, in Union form at 40 or 50.

3. Filing for divorce the minute she betrayed our vows and became physically violent with me.
( So many men take decades of disrespect. Getting out of it when she showed me she didn't want to be my wife was the best thing ever.)

Love your channel and your daily crusade to make men better John!!!

[scanstyles]

My forth year as single (I never mention or write anywhere I’m divorced because it has a negative impact on the words and life is so positive now). Coming home from work today, everything is quiet, prepare and eat dinner, watch news, do laundry and then relax time. An old girlfriend I fact wrote to me: “Do you want a visit in the upcoming weekend?” “No” was my answer “I’ve got plans”. But I don’t. The freedom as a bachelor is a relief in so many way. So You guys who are going through divorce: be patient, as John mention, behave, close the door quietly and afterwards live Your life to the fullest 🙏

[greener]

I've helped several friends navigate their divorces. The advice given here is pure gold.

[americanflyer]

Just went through a very, vary nasty divorce. I tried to stay civil and keep the lawyers out of it. My friends and family begged me to hire a lawyer. I finally did when I realized she was out to ruin me in every way possible. Negotiating was useless. Went all the way to a court trial. Her attorney was "too busy" to come so mine roasted her in court. But it was mostly for naught. Even with all our evidence the judge gave her almost everything she wanted. Yes, the courts are stacked in their favor. Still glad I had an attorney though. I have enough to re-build. Otherwise I would have been ruined. Life is peaceful and quiet now. I feel like I can breathe again. Good luck, gentlemen.

[mh-dope]

Divorced a foreign woman 1 year into the marriage at the age of 40. No assets to divide, no kids, no lawyers needed, no nothing. Just told her to sign the divorce papers so we can be both on our way. Got off scotch free. Don't know her whereabouts don't care

[WilliamMartinez-vqbn]

Thanks. Please keep em coming we all men need these at least 3 times a week thanks

[robertclaus]

I agree with you regarding not talking disparagingly about your soon to be ex, especially to your children.
An important addendum. I didn’t allow my children to talk disparagingly about their mother to me.
I corrected them when they did, and told them to respect their mom that she was a good woman, and they shouldn’t ever speak that way about her. (even though I really didn’t believe that)
It didn’t take long, before the children finally looked at me and said, “come on Dad don’t be so stupid, mom had boyfriends you didn’t know about!
I learned a lot of new things (that they saw and heard)that I had no way of knowing.
Children always want to feel smarter than their parents. You’re giving them the opportunity to feel that way, and perhaps leverage valuable information for your divorce in doing so.

[papj]

Another good one John.

When we decided to split I did a dissolution statement on a spreadsheet to divide the assets. (This was easy as I have always done my wife's tax returns so knew all her investments.)

Generally, in the UK if the marriage is a long one (>10 years) and there are no kids under 18 then it is a 50/50 split.

So, it took an hour or so to complete the spreadsheet. My wife said a friend of hers did the same thing, gave it to her lawyer and he just agreed it and charged them £12k, so we agreed no lawyers to get involved.

As for the legal divorce, a no fault divorce can all be done online with no lawyers needed for the sum of £600. I said I could do that to avoid any other fees.

I think I have got off lightly and would always advise staying amicable and try to avoid the lawyers.

[dont]

I didn't see it coming (twice). The signs were there but I was naïve, chose to ignore them and thought being a good guy was enough. It wasn't. After the second, I decided I needed to educate myself about women's nature. Can't change the past but I sure can change the future.

[MrBusta]

Brother, I really needed this video today! Wife met with the lawyer yesterday and we are meeting this Saturday to discuss dividing our assets. I'll be so glad when this is over, it's been a rough road. I completely resonate with living in a state of hopefulness.

[byroncummings]

The only way to come out unscathed is to not play at all. I got friends that divorced and it damn near ruined them. One even self-deleted, just isn't worth it.

[flyfastasduck]

This could be the most important video for any man about to go through a divorce could ever watch. Its contents could make the difference for you to have a favorable outcome from your divorce. John, you're doing amazing work.

[Brent-zs]

My cousin tried stay on good terms with his wife in the divorce and his ex still burned him and said I want to take everything so no other woman will want you.

[mikesvatek]

This was the video I needed today as I walk into the early stages of mediation. Thanks for all the great content.

[anthonymurray]

You're an absolute God send. Watching from the great southern land of Tasmania.

[Haneefan-Musliman]

Thanks again for your amazing content brother John. Your channel and George Bruno's channel are truly an inspiration for those who are going through or been through a divorce (myself included). God bless you man!

[SufferousTosh]

The 2nd greatest accomplishment in my entire life, was my divorce. 1st was quitting the booze.... Both equally rewarding. Don't let the abuse continue....

[abstractholiday]

This is the best divorce advice you are going to receive on YT.

[WilliamMartinez-vqbn]

I have a friend who married for the first time at 62, , , she put the sqweeze on him she told him marry me or its over they dated 4yrs. Shes 10 yrs yuonger, , he recently said to me. , " i dont know where all my money has gone"" i told him i know where it went, , , , he just stared at all men know woman are SPENDING MOST ARE NOT VERY GOOD WITH MONEY!!!!