How to come out as a Femboy

In this video, we talk about how to come out as a Femboy and LGBT. Whether you're gay, bisexual, or femboy, this video is meant for you! We discuss tips such as when to come out, how you should come out, and coping methods.
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[ZenBooda]

Special thanks to Ashley UwU for helping me out with this video! (I mentioned her in the video but didn’t appear somehow???)

[exobodyfoundation]

"I hate what male puberty has done to my body and that I don't think I could lead a stable life as a man" is what I told my parents when I came out as trans and it worked.

[civetmink]

I do want to come out and they aren’t homophobic. I mean my sister is bisexual and I’m asexual. The only homophobic guy I know is a random guy at school. But I’m still terrified.

[SpaceEmperorGenos]

I think a lot of people are glad you got this video out. Personally I haven't had to struggle with this since my parents and immediate family don't give a shit, since it doesn't adversely affect them. They're fine with me existing, but unfortunately there are more close minded parents and immediate family out there that for some reason think abusive behavior is okay, regardless of if their kid is gay or trans or whatever they might be.
My condolences go out to the unfortunate people who have had to tolerate this, and I think this video's helped them, especially your segment about logical thinking and what to think about during anxiety episodes.
Solid video as always, bubba. <3

[Jemboi]

I'm 14, so if i came out as a bisexual Femboy, i would depend on them to buy me feminine clothes, which would be very embarrassing.

[greenscreenfx]

I must keep this video for… future endeavours

[amuffity]

Hello everyone! I just want to say thank you Bubba for reaching out to me to making this video. Its ok if the editing mistake happen im cool with it. I am trans, havent came out yet but I have lots of knowledge into coming out. I was really happy with the video, it was wayy better than I though it was going to be. Nice work Bubba and thanks!

[moonjae-inthpresidentofr]

My plan is gonna be get tall girlfriend and start doing little things like doing matching nails until my parents are just used to it. It’s easier to come out as femboy than trans or non heterosexual bc u can just gradually change and it’s bc I’m doing stuff bc my girl wants to do them. It may be a problem when she breaks up with you but it’s all good cause the used to femboy you by now

[seasa]

Issue is, my family is pretty much really into the Islam Religion, and the LGBT is frowned upon greatly. My father came to know my sister was trans and he flipped and never forgave her for it, practically disowning her. Fam divorce made it easier for him, but his grudge never gave away. So I’m not exactly certain that it’s the best to come out to him… the whole extended family agrees with him too-

[hewhomustnotbenamed]

I'm shit scared of coming out to my father as a bisexual femboy. He can barely tolerate me wearing a woman's t-shirt, I can only imagine the hell that would break lose if I tried wearing a skirt or tried to have intercourse with a dude.

And the thing is that I don't know if I can keep the secret forever, because that would involve hiding more and more of my life as time goes on.
I don't know when is the optimum time to tell him either. If I tell him now, I'd have to deal with his shit since I live under his roof. If I tell him when I'm moved out, he might feel betrayed because I didn't trust him.

[PalafelWaffeln]

One problem I have, my Mum is super supportive she often told me that she would support me if i were gay or smth. I think that she probably kinda knows already cause she once just asked out of nowhere if I were gay. But my dad on the otherhand is the most homophobic person i ever met.

[tojiko]

Wow, you're smart for your years. Awesome vid. I already came out to my family (unfortunately I still live at home and over 18). What leaves me heartbroken is my parents straight up said to me "if you flaunt around the house in a dress or even in a skirt you're out". That went about as well as I thought tbh.

[dekkyowo]

THIS IS SO FUCKING HELPFUL, THANK YOU!!!
My mom is neutral and tolerant, but my dad is a big homophobe, my mom is starting to suspect im gay, but im slowly prepping for the big day (21.06.2025) to come out to my mom officially, i know that she will accept it, its mainly the fact that if i come out earlier, my mom will just say that im not sure of my sexuality. this really helped me. so again, thank you.

[ayo]

Bro I respect femboys who don’t fkn change their voice to sound more feminine like just be you if someone is gonna like you it’s because we’ll YOUR have a good day my femboy friends ❤️

[Inturnedreal]

It’s terrible we live in a society where parents kick out their own children, friends bully other friends because of how you want to live. Good luck to all reading

[ryosukehasuki]

I officially came out that im a femboy yesterday my parents are the closest people in my life and there are very supportive it took me 10 years to find the courage and confidence when i hit puberty back when i was 13 since I'm a girl trapped in a male body i knew something wasn't right i didn't feel masculine i felt feminine and now I'm 23 and revealing that I'm a femboy to my parents was the happiest thing i did in my life

[WTBuilder]

I have one of the best parents I could ever imagine having, they respect my boundaries, give me privacy and mostly love me as I'm their son.
However...
When I started letting my hair grow, out of nowhere, my mom made it clear that if I was homosexual, I would not be considered her son anymore, yikes.

[Bumblebee]

I've... *sort of* tried and only embarrassed myself. Like i told my parents i wanted to be more feminine and it spiraled into the whole femboy thing. They were extremely weirded out and my mom even said it was traumatizing, so.

I heavily recommend against it and just wait until you move out of your parents' house. Especially since it's just...wanting to wear girly clothes as a guy. That's how i see it anyway. Really sorry to those who see it as more, don't mean to offend anybody.

[Average_Panda]

I’m not even gonna bother coming out to my family, I’m waiting until after I graduate get a job and an apartment to do ANYTHING. To make this make sense, my family is super religious, and will never understand me and would kick me out immediately

[yoshinawavt]

I'm actually a femboy but my beard is not, it makes me M A N.