How to Come Out | MTF | Transgender YouTuber

I'm Steph a twenty-something MTF Transgender YouTuber.

Happy National Coming-Out day! To celebrate this week I have been covering the topics of coming out! In Today’s video I will be discussing how to come out as transgender and any advice on that I may have gained over ten years of transitioning! As always I hope you enjoy this video and please comment any questions you may have down below! #MTF #Transsexual #Transgender

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[Reed]

I’m 19, and stuck in a family that wouldn’t accept me. I don’t have enough money to move out yet, and I know that they’d kick me out if I came out.
On the plus side though, I came out to a friend, and they were very accepting. I’m glad I have a good irl friend who accepts me as a trans man.
Let’s just hope that I’ll have the money to leave soon (I’m getting a new job soon). Thanks for the video. I really appreciate it.

Edit: I’m moving out in 3 months! My grandmother is helping me to move out from my parents’ house, and I’m so happy that I can finally live my life. I can’t wait to cut my hair, get a binder, and start my transition.

[teanne]

NEED ADVICE:

i have a very conservative family and all of them have slowly become more conservative over time. i've been trying to keep the people i grew up with from losing themselves to this, and damn did i put in some actual effort trying to deradicalize them.
Now I'm in my mid 20's and i'm realizing I can't be happy with them in my life, constantly retraumatizing me.

The problem: I have no clue how to ghost them.
My family relies on me to be their therapist. I want them to get better, but I cannot be the one to do it.

I don't even live with them anymore but they don't stop leaning on me.
My mom wil quite literally not sleep if she thinks I'm in danger (she's like, racist racist, and i recently moved to a place that /isn't/ 90% white). My dad's a joe rogen and jordan petersen listener who's a straight up narcissist. My older sister takes affter my father, and takes immense pride in being the oldest, racks up debt and then sees how long she can livev with each family member before they get upset. My younger sister believes vaccines cause autism (both my partner and I are autistic) and she trusts cops to such a degree that I can't have normal conversations with her.

I need to heal myself and be the person I've known I am. The person I've shown them again and again and they've looked away from. I've already come out to my sisters, and my online footprint is impossible not to follow if you're in my family. They don't want it to be true that I'm trans.

I feel like afraid they're going to say "we knew this from an early age about you" and then continue treating me the same.
I wish I could say "Look at the art you told me not to make. Look at how I act online. Look at my friends. I was here the whole time and you didn't notice."


I try to google help on how to ghost your parents as a trans woman but this is such a complex situation that that makes you see things that are genuinely exhausting to come across as a trans woman.

Anyway thanks for reading, I hope another trans woman knows /anything/ that could help, I'm just really trying to ghost my parents.

[heartstone]

I’m in a pretty accepting family but certain people might try to misgender me to hurt me but I’m ready for that

[skipper]

Just hinted at my mom by asking about the only trans person in our family and she put the word “brother”in air quotes.... there’s no hope for me

[Girlsforever]

Also if I can add. If you're coming out as mtf, you will lose privileges. I always knew as a man I had certain privileges and checked them as much as I could. But being a woman in the world, specifically a transwoman, you're at the bottom of the privilege totem. It's quite drastic actually. Not trying to scare anyone, just saying this is still a mans world.. Unfortunately.

[Smurfytoonz]

I have been searching around for channels like this for advice, it is tough to come out whether its family or out in a public setting, i know that living in fear constantly is not the answer and i have done that for a long time, be yourself and the rest will be fine.

[aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaash]

Im a 13 year old male and i know that im trans (mtf) but im super scared to come out to my mom because I don't know if she is going to hate me and disown me

[IDM]

I feel like I accept me as a woman so everyone else does but it’s like simple for me idk I just never felt like being trans was a big deal and I am trans!!!

[Alexis-fpij]

You look so pretty 🥺 your such and inspiration.

[chrishankey]

I posted a photo of my new me without telling snyonr it realizing what I had done. But I couldn't deny who I really was any more. Do liberating.

[kamiamini]

Love your energy it’s so uplifting!! 😍😃

[cassidycodes]

Thank You So Much I Am Coming Out Soon And I Needed To Know How To Start The Convo

[virginiazaylee]

Amazing video 🥰 This video gave me so much wisdom and guidance and also very much linked to transgender visibility video. Additionally, I would like to make video on how trans women can pass without any thoughts.

[julestreasureAreat]

Great advice. I came out to a few friends in the past year. I have started counseling and have many outfits. Physical transition will be starting most likely in late 2022 or early 2023. My employer will cover it under my insurance if I live life as a female for 2 years.

[redhippopotamus]

This is a great video. May I ask, what do you do if someone asks you and you aren't ready to tell them?

[capricorngirl]

When I came out as a Demi girl I just told my mom. My dad still doesn’t know. A few years ago my cousin came out as trans mtf And watching some family members reactions to that most of them were supportive there were a few that weren’t.

[delilahcollins]

My mom always says she's supportive, but always goes on rants about how "most trans people are faking". I'm scared she will think that of me.

[aliceelsadlf]

How should i tell family on Christmas that im tans women? I need ideas

[acetpro]

I'm literally closeted to just the people in my immediate life like family(Extended included) but I'm basically out to everyone else from people on the intern and super close friends. I must say tho, after I came out to like my closest, I've just been dropping T bombs on everybody.

[gwenekins]

I want to come out so bad and I really really want to start hormones but I’m just so scared that it will be too hard and I’ll give up on it, but I want to start right now yk? (Mtf btw)