its time to change my life

I need to change my life 😁

ya know just some adulting things need to be learnt: cooking, cleaning, working out, changing my last name, socializing, getting active in my community, blossoming as a human being.

I'm loosely referring to this series as "in my 20s" - since I feel like it encapsulates the experience I'm having, learning and navigating life in my 20s!

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[khalilahd.]

“Confidence comes from doing what you actually say you’re going to do” oof this just spoke to my SOUL! I have fallen so far from my goals I set at the beginning of the year and I’m not gonna lie I’m kind of ashamed. Everyone always wants to do better and be better but we don’t make a solid game plan for how to get there. I love that you’re restarting with the new season and just trying to get back on track. this is the perfect motivation I need to do the same. good luck everyone 💜

[Shanspeare]

Ok intro is me. Changing is hard but we’ve got this!!

[ravon]

I feel this, change is a slow process too so don’t get down on yourself if you’re not immediately hitting all your goals. ❤️one goal at a time and you’ll start to see your life changing in small ways :) u got it girl!

[nataliesoutlet]

Such a wholesome vlog. I was struggling to create habits for a while, one thing that helped was accountability. I started going to the gym with my friends and we’d all text each other to stay accountable, I also hired a life coach who helps me sort through my goals weekly. That was great and refreshing and made me feel less alone and overwhelmed by how to tackle things. I also just asked for help. I asked dennis to help me with meals and my in law to help me understand nutrition.

Since then I go to the gym about 4x a week without including my walks and rock climbing days. I wake up at 8am most days and 6am gym days. And I just feel all around happy.

One thing I found was the more I looked into the topic of “how to build habits” the more overwhelmed and stagnant I became. You just need accountability buddies

[adriennehilll]

You’re amazing!!! I recently got a 1:1 Pilates trainer and it’s been a game changer. I don’t have to worry about others staring at me (except my instructor who’s sooo sweet), i get to SOCIALIZE with someone (!!! Big win for someone who works from home haha) and I don’t feel exhausted after each class (compared to how some other workouts make me feel). Honestly I’ve been feeling similar as you lately and this video was so refreshing to watch and served as a reminder that we allll go through these things unfortunately. We’re all routing for you girl 👏🏻💓

[sydfrances]

i did this this past month and it feels so good to be out of a guilt cycle of not following through with promises in myself! ALSO get an instant pot it’s soooo easy to make food quickly, healthy, and you feel accomplished!

[AnnieLong]

been struggling with the same thing girl - this inspired me thank u

[hopescope]

This video was super relatable… down to the last name thing. 7 years and I haven’t legally changed mine either hahaha

[rissjmo]

I really adore how real this video is. Yes I enjoy aesthetic life style videos big YouTubers do but THIS? This is encouraging and makes me feel more motivated than any of those “aesthetic” videos ever have. Thank you!

[SophiaZimmerman]

What perfect timing!! I literally said yesterday that I was going to get my life together again Mentally, physically, and spiritually. I woke up earlier this morning, and I am taking baby steps. Because progress takes time. I'm so excited to go on this journey with you. Good luck Girly, you got this. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" Philippians 4:13🌸

[rosella]

I just cried, life has been so hard and this video was so relatable. Haley- you are such a consistent inspiration in my life and have a really good spiritual impact on me as well. Thank you Haley

[bunnieslife]

Doing these things out of self compassion rather than self criticism is so crucial! Being constantly kind and loving to myself, and treating myself as a friend and partner has helped me set new routines and healthy habits :)

[BecJane]

I'm 26 this year and I need to learn some adult things too (Y) also, I was JUST at that JuiceLand in barton - would love to socialise with you x

[inarijm]

This has been me as well, fast food for every meal, waking up late :(, and just not doing well, thank you for sharing this Haley❤️

[kelseybanasik]

You do what you need to do girl! LOVE your honesty and just how real and relatable you are ❤️ it’s so tough being an adult and so many people struggle with these things. Thank you for bringing light to this and having the confidence to share this with us. You go girl! 😁

[user_mj]

Bby I swear you just made my day 10% better. I sorta woke up in a bad mood and I’m feeling a little bit down, and you acaully made me feel better. I’m only a couple minutes into this video and I can already tell how much work and effort you put into this video. Your upload schedule is amazing too. Ily so much!!!

[alixmonette]

I swear that you help me so much in my life Haley ! You’ve already helped me start to read again and now I’m motivated to be more confident 🙌🏼 Thanks bestie <3

[juliannadavis]

i absolutely loved this!! thank you for being so vulnerable on the internet with your struggles :)) God bless you!!! ☺️

[carolineshort]

Haley I love you ❤️ your videos are literally what keep me going. I love seeing you go through all these changes and watching you grow because I’m right there along with you. I’m 22 just trying to go along and figure it out. This helps to show I am not alone in doing so! Keep it going girly! 💕

[hhannahkk]

WOWOWOWOWOW the production level on this video so proud of u haley love the videos ⭐️⭐️