How To Stop Caring About Your Appearance

How To Stop Caring About Your Appearance

Hi everyone, I wanna share 10 tips on how to stop caring about your looks and gain back that control in life, let me know your thoughts:)
1. Ask yourselves why
2. Understand that others don’t pay as much attention on your appearance like you do
3. Accept and love yourself
4. Don’t let beauty standard defines your beauty
5. Stop comparing yourself to others
6. Understand that perfection doesn’t exist
7. Try to be the best version of yourself instead of the most beautiful person
8. Stop checking yourself in the mirror
9. Find things that work for you
10. Push yourself to go out without trying to look perfect

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[charlize]

a lot of people talk about photoshop and how people present themselves differently on social media, but i find myself feeling insecure when i see girls at my school who look drop dead gorgeous. I see people in real life who are beautiful and have nice bodies. that’s what makes me the most insecure, because i feel like i can only make myself look somewhat decent on social media.

[mario]

I'm crying watching this. I wasted many precious years of my life trying to look "perfect". Looking back i look so pathetic doing so....i cared too much about what peaple will think about me, it felt like a big rock in my head my head was always heavy...many girls compliments about my looks but i always felt i should do better :( i failed to enjoy my school years because of this.i hope the one who is reading this will get to enjoy their life at it's fullest

[angelaroberts]

I think your head is perfect…. I have a big head and seeing your video made me realize no one is thinking about the size of my head. When I see you I don’t see a big head at all!

[lotussims]

This video helped me a lot, thank you
I was picked on a bit for my looks but I am trying to not seek validation from everyone else and just accept myself, especially for things I cant control

[play-lg]

thank you so much for this! i literally want to change myself because i literally obsessed and tired about being perfect. But i want to be myself, love and be kind to myself as well to others, i want to stop thinking about what people think of me and enjoy my life as long as i lived. Because literally im very very obsessed about my looks, trying to be impressed by everyone, and seeking validation from others, im very tired of it, but now i just want to accept the very flaws that i have. i realized that as well. sometimes i look at people, they have some flaws to but i couldn't pay attention to it, thats when i realized that people couldn't care that much about how i look and they pay attention more about themselves.
and the truth is if im asking why am i so obsessed about how i looks is because i felt people always point out my face, they point out a little tiny things in my face and saying im ugly in my past self. so now I've been trying to be perfect, trying to be more pretty so people could like me but i had to stop because its literally control the way i lived, i want to lived...

[matteodavis]

Thank you this helped alot I feel like I can't get a SO because of my hair but this video helped me to not care about that and care about my personality. Thank you.

[vickicarringer]

I'm older now, so I have to learn to be OK with my older face. I have to say it is not easy. I wish I didn't care.

[floralxxfading]

I normally don’t comment on videos, but I just have to say I watched this at the right time, and you helped me IMMENSELY! Thank you 💚

[evalisseblooms]

yes i literally would put a bobby pin on my nose and i couldnt breathe because i told myself id finally be pretty and desireable if my nose was slimmer, if skip classes and have whole panic attacks.. ik exactly how u feel
and though ive grown its now grown into my asymmetrical features and now im analyzing how i look… im watching this for help

[ravinnundlal]

Respect to You, for Being So Open & Honest✌🏼This Video Will Certainly, Help Many🤍Whilst I Believe, that being Presentable is Important, a Genuine Personality/Soul will Always Shine Through✨May We Never allow Society/Social Media, to Blur these Lines🙏🏼You Have Stunning Eyes, Cassandra😊Stand Proud & Confident, in Who You Are✌🏼Much Love, from South Africa🤍

[juice]

This was such a wonderful video. Thank you for this! 🌸❤

[Mai-sxyf]

Let’s be honest it is easier to say this when you’re conveniently attractive.

[alysiam]

Good points! :) I need to work on this myself it’s very hard for me to leave the house without at least some makeup on...

[hiso]

I was he exact same and got diagnosed with OCD and everything started to make sense.

[whoisabdy]

Really wise words and eloquently said. Thank you!

[Bushrasew]

Because of my appearance people treated my like shit, ur looks is an important factor

[stephenwarr]

Far too much of our lives, we try to please OTHERS. We should learn to accept others the way they are and NOT how we'd like them to be!

[Loupoonug]

The thing for me is that most girls hate the beauty standards but still participate in them. If we truly want to let go of these standards, so that people are appreciated for more then just their appearance, but also for who they truly are, then we have to do the work ourselves. Then again I am not saying that you should not care for your body, like go to the gym, or eat healthy food or have a good hygiene or take care of your skin, but realize that you more then just that. You should love yourself regardless of what you look like, don’t become shallow and think that appearances are the only thing that will get you somewhere. Humans should be able to love others regardless of their appearance too. It is hard but the people that will love you, should not only let appearance guide their affection for you. Honestly I don’t dream to be like by others just because I am pretty now, we should make true connections. It is okay to want to look pretty but it should not be for others to like you or accept you, and it should not be to escape your “normal appearance”. If it is then you should ask yourself if you truly love yourself and why?

[ashley_brown]

My case is SO much worse than yours. I am thinking about and obsessing over about my appearence for about 10-15 hours a day. I am literally spending around 5 to 6 hours a day just doing my makeup (multiple times a day). My makeup/beauty addiction is ruining my life and I feel trapped. I am going to therapy for this and other issues I have, I hope I can overcome it and be free again😢

[lizabbonnie]

Omg I recently made a video like this. Your so beautiful by the way