What is Femininity and how can women be more Feminine?

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[sadiapsychology]

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[HANANEC]

How To Be more feminine :

1- Start accepting, recieving.
2- Comunicating our needs. Speaking Up.
3- Choising a partner who wants the same Life objectifs (starting a family or not …etc)

[isabellezionchipochaishe]

1. Start receiving
2. Be nurturing
3. Boundaries

[GodHelpMe]

Femininity:

1 - Accepting; receiving: YOU ARE THE DIVINE FEMININE. YOU ARE THE QUEEN.
2 - Communicating your needs. Speaking Up. RADICAL HONESTY.
3 - Choosing a partner who wants the same Life objectives/values...

If you're avoidant,
you most likely have said to family members
- who had a major role in your childhood:
"You only accepted me or liked me
when I was happy/obedient/emotionless."
This one simple statement fits with ALL
the core symptoms
of avoidant attachment:

1. Being overly self-reliant
(and in doing so, you hide your needs, emotions, problems, and acute illnesses)

2. Pushing down anger until it explodes
and manufactures the boundaries you crave
but can't always ask for

3. Not wanting to burden others with your problems

4. Wanting to fix your own issues to avoid looking incompetent
or even getting bullied and teased/mocked

5. Numbing out emotions with self-soothing behaviors
that are either totally unhealthy or pseudo-healthy
(like getting addicted to working out and healthy eating)

Remember ALWAYS
this process is all about YOU!!!
Not him.

He is just a catalyst.

Consider,
he may be your twin flame.
Look into that.

After he initiated your trauma,
you're now left to deal with
and to heal: all that has come to the surface.
GOOD! This is a blessing.
Albeit painful.
A necessary blessing, nonetheless.
HUGE-HUGE gift!

Major advice!!!

Listen closely!!!

NEVER ever
CHASE HIM.

He will run further
and you will lose yourself more.

You are the feminine.
You are the divine goddess.

You just be
and approve (or disapprove)
whoever comes along.

It's a yes: you meet my requirements,
or: it's a no,
you do not.

Be clear
on whom you're accepting as a partner
and DO NOT settle for less
(or you just delay what's meant for you).

Accept your struggle, anxiety, fear, sadness. Whatever comes up.
It's all human, and in need of your attention.
If you push it away, block it, or run from it...
You will just have to deal with it later...

1) Put yourself first and foremost!

2) Fall in love with yourself. Be your own dream girl.
Glow up and level up. Be the best version of yourself.

3) Rejection is redirection. Embrace the energies of miraculous possibilities.

And,

Any time you have a painful

1. Find the belief...

2. Write 11 DISADVANTAGES to having the belief

3. Write 11 ADVANTAGES to having the belief

If you can NOT find advantages
then that’s EXACTLY why you're stuck!!

When you finally see both sides...

Your mind will STOP thinking about it
'cause your brain will be rewired.

So you gotta keep at it,
until you find the positive
to the negative...
And therefore, ultimately
rewire your brain!

AND REMEMBER:

STOP making it all about manifestation
when really, it's actually all about VIBRATION!

If you haven't heard today...

You are so very loved
and you are so very worthy
of love.

The hardest part
is learning to love yourself
and to know: it's not all your fault,
and to see: that you're beautiful;
wonderfully perfectly
brilliantly created.

You're stronger than most;
a true leader/warrior in the making.

Keep going
and keep thanking.

Remember Jesus was an outcast
and he suffered more
than any human being
could ever endure...

And the most important message here is to forgive them
and to forgive yourself
and to love all.

Keep walking in truth.

One of the great poems of the Zen tradition
ends with this description of the awakened state:
“To be without suffering over imperfection(s).”

AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER:
I am one with the Divine.
I experience, peace, BLISS, love, and joy:
CONSTANTLY AND CONSISTENTLY.
I experience everything as grace AND AS LOVE.
I am at peace. I honor the Divine within me.

[youtubeaccount]

I love it how she is beautifull and intelligent, but doesn't act arrogant en still comes off as very humble giving great advice.

[Sexyhamster]

I understand on the surviving mode, and being tired. I was with a feminine man before, and he doesn’t like to make decisions and take the lead. I ended up leading on everything. In the end, I got exhausted, and we broke up.

Being with a masculine partner now, and I let him lead (He is happy to lead), and I am so peaceful and happy. When I don’t have to think of our next step all the time, I have sometime to think about the next step for myself. ❤️

[nickyb]

I like Sadia because she mentions that she has made the same mistakes too. She is relatable and not pretending she gets it right all the time herself ❤

[LejlaEnigma-oymj]

I have both energy, I am brutally feminine soft woman, I can go from one extreme to another in a second! I know my power ! Depends on the situation and work I’m doing

[becomingyourwarrior]

Love your encouragment to hold true for what you need and your value. So many people sacrifice and drop their standards because they feel starved of love. Keep reinforcing your own self worth and your own self love and don't accept crumbs !! xx

[amyj.]

Yeap, people have attacked my femininity too and so that's when I realized my femininity is a gift but being kind to others is free

[judith]

I love Sadia! I’m a teacher too, but sadly even when I was in middle school I saw so many girls talk like men(curse) and physically fight with other females. Femininity is not weakness ❤

[helenaevaherczegh]

Yes, at my workplace, people say.. I am too good, too, carrying to kind, too nice.., I can hear people think I am weak because of this....I can't change, and I won't I just have to have more boundaries...

[kamillab_ingham]

She is who a real high value woman is! Ladies learn from the best, Sadia….

[fionah]

I once saw a quote on FB. It said "Women are not here to do what men can do, we are here to do what men can't do." I thought that was interesting. It seems the concepts of masculinity and femininity have both become very twisted and tied up into a Gordian knot in our culture. It has become very difficult to unravel. This could become a very long post but I will try and be concise. Somewhere along the line women were brainwashed into thinking that nurturing was analogous to being subservient or servile which was somehow seen as "less than." Of course there are many things that men and women can BOTH do, but I think the point of the quote was thought provoking. Men have really been painted into a corner too. Many of the inherently masculine characteristics are now being termed "toxic." Certainly the negative interpretations of this may be true, particularly for men themselves. If you haven't read it, I recommend The Hazards of Being Male. The positive manifestations of masculinity and femininity both should be embraced, encouraged and celebrated. I think the beginning of the problem started with the assumption of gender roles being the ONLY choice for men and women and that they had to be very rigid and were used to force people into molds that were not natural to them but were promoted as being the only acceptable societal choice. Many people are quite happy in embracing traditional gender roles as delineated in Western society. Not everyone is, and we all need to find (or make) our own place in the world. When certain psychological characteristics were determined to be masculine or feminine, it caused a divide. We all have both kinds of characteristics to a greater or lesser degree. I am pretty much a tomboy but loving and nurturing people and animals comes very naturally to me and I embrace it as the best part of myself. I became a caregiver, nursing assistant and mental health therapy tech. I love the part about anticipating needs - very important in both personal and business relationships. Customers like to feel nurtured and cared for too.

One comment on the pleasure part mentioned in this video. Pleasure is not the same as happiness. Dr.Robert Lustig's Pleasure vs Happiness videos are wonderful and say it much better than I can- long versions and short versions both available on YouTube.

[shahinakhan]

Wow u definitely good Sadia beta. I am a grandmother and our generation was definitely very different from todays. We were patient loving caring and very considerate and made life changing compromises!!! ❤

[VeX]

There is something unique about Sadia when she speaks. It feels like she is the peoples emotions. She is able to articulate exactly what our needs and emotions try to tell us.

[almira_elli]

For me, receiving and speaking up have been transformative steps on my path to true femininity. It's like a sacred dance of self-discovery. 💖

[sasharemez]

If your man is a narcissist, telling him your needs he will us them against you.
I always told my ex, but he would exploit it and cause me pain.
This tip of communicating a need works with a normal man.

[marialourdesmendoza]

As I raised myself and become a strong woman, i forgot to be feminine. And it has a huge impact to my relationships. I didnt realized that until I listened to podcasts about how to be feminine. And it is for us ourselves as a woman, not actually for others/ partners.