How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Deeply

3 Ways to Forgive Someone Who Has Hurt You Deeply

1. Prepare in Advance to Forgive Someone “When” They Hurt You Deeply

The more you believe in someone’s perfection, the more it hurts you when you see their imperfections. By preparing for imperfection before you see it, it can better equip you to offer forgiveness, because it will be needed.

2. Forgive Imperfect People Who Have Hurt You Deeply Because of Your Perfect God

Christians are called to always forgive not because people deserve this but because God always deserves this from us (Ephesians 4:32).

3. Remember that Reconciliation Is a Process But Forgiveness Is a Choice
God wants us to be reconciled when possible. Sometimes it’s not possible because you would be then acting unwise with your heart (Proverbs 4:23). If you do reconcile, it takes time to mend the relationship. Forgiveness, however, is a choice we can make in an instant. Forgiveness is when you no longer punish someone even though they deserve it.
Forgiveness is not a feeling. It’s a decision.

[potato]

The timing is crazy!! God knew I needed this.

[denisewilliamson]

Amen! I had to forgive someone who hurt me because I didn't want to block my blessings. Forgiveness also helped me to move on ouietly! Forgiveness helping me heal better, and I also had to forgive myself too. I am at peace now! Thanks for this video! 🙏😊

[MisterSubtleMasterSean]

I think, after seeing this video, I better understand it like SO MANY of us everywhere, and I can manage this until I am completely capable of it once and for all. Just giving my POV, and being upfront about it.

*No matter what YOU and I go through in this life, the ONLY uncommon thing about these human life's problems, are how they're uncommon for YOU AND I uniquely*

[michelleward]

I've been hurt in relationships with people and I have learned. 💙

[Internet-ezb]

Thanks man you make me realise how to stop thinking of negativity though

[ivanmoreno]

Forgiveness is a decision not a emotion

[chansonjimson]

I will forgive my enemies and I wish them the best and Good things for them.🙏

[RotaryMC_Hello]

Amen lord.
I forgive everybody who has hurt me.
Even tho it is a never lasting pain in my head, I still forive them, even tho they would not accept it.

[evasccl]

So timely... finally i understand it, whilst i have not witnessed it in my life as I grew up, mostly it was resentment and a reminder of the past that I saw in my family... now I know. Thank you!

[jeffreybabino]

About five years ago I had to forgive somebody that hurt me very badly in life so I did I knew it was the right thing to do this person was dying I knew that God wanted me to do this✝️🙏❤️

[pyromanjake]

It isn’t our place to punish someone for their wrongdoing. Yes it hurts, but forgiveness will always make feel better. Let them be judged by our Heavenly Father as you will be.

[dawnstonerock]

I love this! My ex and I are working on this after 40 years. Yes. Really. We are different people now. I never would have imagined this happening.

[EieiExamplEeiEi]

I can forgive but I never forget what they had done to me.

[velvetvasquez]

Forgiveness is very hard yet are Heavenly Father forgiven us for our mistakes and sins for what we done to him 👈🏼thank you lord Jesus for dying on the cross👈🏼✝️💜so that I can have a second chance for a better blessing life 🙌🏼🕊️🙏🏼so if God and the lord can forgive me who am I not to forgive thou who have hurt me!! I will let go and let God to deal with them !! And keep a peace of mind knowing that he will never let me down on taking care of my enemies for sure 👈🏼☝🏼💜✝️🙏🏼🙌🏼👍🏼knowing that he keeps his promise!!

[mommovesherbabies]

They are always forgiven… I can’t help myself. 😢

[colski]

Forgive because it was you who seek them and found what you were looking for. Real forgiveness is ALWAYS Self forgiveness

[xcobyxzei]

I fell for someone online. They lied to me about big things. I’m deeply hurt. I keep thinking about them.

[clairefeltsman]

All is forgiven be happy everyone thank you for all the lessons learned, health, happiness and love to you all in new year ❤goodbye I’m free amen god amen Jesus I WISH YOU LOVE, doors closed, I’m moving on thank you

[yantekuzumaki]

This is really spoke to me deeply man, got hurt badly and this came up as a notification. I wanna forgive them for god.
Also question, is it out of character for god to punish those for hurting people when the victim doesn't want them to be punished and rather have them apologize for their actions?

[joyjewel]

If forgiveness is not a feeling, then what does it mean to forgive someone from the heart as Jesus said? Just trying to understand.