How to Get Him Hooked in the First Two Weeks (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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You know those tricky early dates?

You go for drinks. Maybe a picnic. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy similar taste in movies.

Then texting.

Then maybe a kiss. (Why not? He’s cute.)

Uh-oh, now you actually like him. Crap. Err, I mean, great.

Now what?

If you really want to know how to keep him interested well after the first date, so you can finally stop freaking out whenever you realize you like a guy, this is the video for you...

Directed by JAMESON JORDAN
Written by MATTHEW & STEPHEN HUSSEY
Animation by MICHELLE GARCIA
"Wait Right Here" by Adi Gold

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[grizzlegrowlsem]

1- real dates only! Sample text back to Netflix and chill : As much as I like cuddling, I prefer to get out into the world with someone first. Keeps it interesting.
2-Try! Gestures matter.
3-Get excited about the little things!
4-Be a grownup and pick up the phone. This tells them the standard that you expect from him.

[goddessvibes]

Seriously, the Netflix/chill or hookup culture is the curse of this generation. Wish i was born earlier

[LeslieKatrice]

I️ love that first one- “Come over” is not a date!! The woman sets the standard for what is acceptable behavior.

[MilkPudding]

"I wish someone has invented an app that actually allows you to speak in real time." HAHAHHAA

[blondeegirl]

I've given up. All the F boys, emotionally unavailable men, games... I can't do it anymore.

[constantinasay]

"Make your reaction to things something somebody wants to experience" powerful

[MelindaMysticWitch]

Mathew.. it'd be really great if you made videos targeted towards men and teaching them how to date, and properly court again to earn a woman's heart. The issue is.. women are being told that we have to adjust ourselves.. but not one video has been about men altering their own behaviors, reactions or responses. If it's truly a two way street (which it is) then please consider making videos for men on addressing women. It would be great to allow men a chance to better understand the emotions of women's needs.

[Bellachris]

I’ve been applying your advice for a few months now, and they totally work! No, I didn’t meet the love of my life yet, but I have so much more confidence in myself, I’m living my life to the fullest, I’ve met lots of people (yeah, guys included!), made new friends and became more outgoing. Your advice doesn’t only apply to dating, but to life in general and that’s something that I really love and I’m thankful that you’re doing what you’re doing to help people all over the world. Thank you for everything, Matthew! Please come to Montreal some day, it would be amazing!

[DJMatthewDC]

I'm a straight guy. I love watching your videos, Matthew, explaining things from a different perspective. Just gonna say congrats for your future 1 Million subs. You deserve it man! thank you for all the work!

[uchoko]

03:03 - 03:13

Can we just take the time to appreciate the amount of diversity in this animation! Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

[corabrei]

Me following all the tips= getting 0 guys

[lvigilful]

I watch your videos even though I’ve given up.

[Bdiscovered]

HE'S TALKING AND TALKING BUT I'M NOT LISTENING - TOO BUSY STARTING AT THOSE ARMS.

[SlightlyRadMTB]

I love when a girl buys me something. It shows that she's trying to make me happy. I don't need her to buy me things, but the gesture is so attractive. It shows that she has a giving energy, which is key in a potential mother of our children ;)

[budgreen]

As a guy, I have to say you are spot on with your advice brother! Setting precedence early on, and picking up the phone and calling! And that metaphor ( or not) of buying the popcorn, in my opinion, is golden...

[lindseymosby-davis]

Okay, so I'm seeing quite a bit of commenting about how his tips don't work. Coming from someone who used them and got married as a partial result of his videos, they do! BUT... there's a little caveat.

In order to get you to understand the video in linear terms, he makes his approach to instruction very... calculating. It's very one, two, three, etc. However, it's not a linear subject, and I''m sure he knows this! His tactics start to come naturally after some trial and error. And it feels good. It feels good to demand respect, to be charming, and to be a team player. You eventually identify with it, and so, the really great ones who are actually looking for a relationship come knocking.

Just a warning- the wrong guys will run if you use Matthew's advice on them. They don't think you'll put up with them- and that's a good thing!

[Marielaq]

I can watch Matthew all day long and not get tired of him lol😍😍😍

[puttputt]

When young women get excited about things it drives guys crazy, like “whoah she actually likes being around me”.

Ive also never been called by a girl, would definitely make my day

[addy]

3:11 I noticed the hijabi cartoon girl and it made me go 😃😀😍. Thanks you for including a representation of your muslim hijabi viewers! ✌

[corgisrule]

So basically, we have to be the adults in the relationship when it comes to communication...I see. 😂