5 Dating Hacks That Make Him Fall For You (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?”

That’s often true in attraction too.

So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results.

As you’ll see in this video, turning a guy’s head doesn’t have to be complicated.

Just try some of these simple power moves and you’ll be 500% more sexy.... ;)

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[guinguinme]

five points
1. slow down
2. let someone finish their story
3. don't just ask questions; give information
4. be present
5. stop trying to look perfect all the time

[littlemisssunshine]

I had been properly single for 13 years and I had given up. Then the man of my dreams walked into my life in February this year completely out of the blue!!...
Have faith people!!

[Nat.]

I have a 2nd date with a guy tomorrow. Pray for me y’all

[amlyouness]

1- slow down (talking)
2- let someone finish their story
3- don't just ask qss, share info
4- be present (no distractions)
5- stop trying to be perfect

[fabulouss]

I have been married for 28 years and every single tip is exactly what my husband would 100% agree with!...The hardest one for me is not interrupting mid sentence through his "story" it gets me every time, even though I know your tip is so true...its a girl thing! Love your videos 👍

[j.belleemmanuelle]

Matthew I owe you a LOT. You've been a good mentor for me and not even mostly for dating, but for leaving a violent relationship. Can you imagine that your teachings gave me transformative thinking about myself and anough for me to stay away from a 9 years relationship? Your videos where there to help me feel confident I'd be able to find, attract and choose a guy that would complete my happiness. Thank you.

[Sallyy]

Great advice.. Now only the date is missing

[CborgMega]

My woman did everything explained in this video, first time we've met on a date... It was December 2010, we got married in November 2012. I love her with all my heart, and she makes me happy every minute of the day!

[maddyG]

Let someone finish their story and be present are crucial. It's a real turn off when someone isn't even really listening or engaged because they are too busy waiting to turn the conversation back to them.

[daniella]

"You don' t need to be perfect in order to feel great about yourself" 😨 The best advice I have ever heard in my french life !!

[shaquilleoatmeal]

Broooo when he said “or just in a moment... look up at him” and then he stared and smiled I am not even kidding, I started blushing! Ugh I miss a human being’s looks and touch 😂😭

[elizabethfolsom]

Honestly this advice is spot on. I just started talking to a close friend who I’ve now developed romantic feelings for. He’s a little socially awkward and so it took me a while to get him to realize I was into him, but taking dating slow has worked so well for us. I watched this before we went out and it helped so much. I made myself remember listen to him intently and let him finish his thoughts, but also add to them when he’s done and keep the conversation going. No phone for 5 hours, no mirrors to check myself in as I walk by, just him and me. That lead to the most fun and best date I’ve ever been on and an opportunity for many more!!

[calliecutsinger]

I feel like this video would be a good to put into use at anytime during a relationship. Because all of those things are qualities that should remain in relationships to not only make it strong but keep it strong.

[michaelj.mccall]

Would you ever consider putting out a video on how to recognize a high value man?

[trinadotson]

I love your videos! I started watching after a 33 yr marriage failed and it REALLY works! I met the guy of my dreams; we dated then married 2 years to the day we met, 7 months ago. I couldn't be happier, I dare the universe to try! thank you Matthew!!!

[mlite]

Asking questions usually works for me. Guys tell me they’re not used to the other person taking an interest in their story and they find it refreshing.

[cb]

The first thing you mention is a thing I really struggle with. Not necessarily the talking too fast part. But the keep asking questions part is really accurate. Also because of anxiousness I sit completely still and stiff. My body language basically says “I really don’t like you”. I tense all my muscles because I am continuously reflecting on my behavior. It is something I am going to work on for my next date. First step was actually going on a date after a very long time. And damn what was I nervous. But I am proud of myself that I went. Unfortunately it didn’t work out with the guy. So the next step for my next date is to mind my body language. For me, dating really is a skill that should be practiced.

[brianacrawford]

Looking particularly "Radcliffe" today. I'm sorry, but between the hair and the shirt...I just keep seeing Harry Potter in an apron. Video content was on key doe :)

[m.wilkinson]

In my sales job there is a practice we call "power of 3" where you find out 3 things about the customer and you tell them 3 things about yourself. This creates rapport and trust. And you don't always have to start of being the questioner but freely tell the other person about yourself spontaneously. :)

[paulaparkman]

Can't wait for my date tomorrow!!!! We connect on so many levels!!!