When You Don't Approach Your Crush

When you are not approaching, when you prefer to sit in your room all day and dream of a life where you are in total control.

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[ComicalRealm]

"If I had a dollar for every girl that found me unattractive, they would eventually find me attractive" - Johnny Bravo

[nightj]

Your mind haunted by a girl that's probably thinking about someone else. So surreal yet too relatable...

[vicentediaztrepat]

In this context, there are 2 pains you can experience. The pain of discipline or the pain of regret.

[petak]

why are you obsessed with a woman who won't like you? why are you glad she's single again if that won't change absolutely nothing to you? don't you realize you're destroying yourself?

[SpectreXS]

At 18: "Should've approached the redhaired girl! Silly teenager me."
At 20+: "Insomnia girl was right beside me all along, dammit!"

[cogito-matthew-sum]

There's only 3 ways that could go wrong when you ask out your crush:

1.) She rejects you
2.) You lost interest in her when she says she likes you too
3.) She tells you that the earth is flat

[Harryenderson]

What's really strange is that as I get older I lose the interest in chasing after a woman, instead I'm more worried about basic survival

[ronswingz]

When I was 16 I had this girl from another class I had a crush on she was always in a group with her friends so it was hard for me to approach her. After a couple days I went for it and I said hi how are you doing? And she just ignored me while she stared at her phone so yeah I got kinda rejected in a harsh way but luckly my feelings where also gone she was not worth it.

[nilon]

I am 27 and I still regularly have dreams of my crush from 7th to 11th class, even though today I don't even find her that attractive anymore. It's crazy how some things are so deeply embedded in our brains that it doesn't go away.

[takeoasylum]

I never had the balls to approach my crush in highschool and it bothered me for a while. I realize I couldn't do it because I had personal issues, with my grades down the toilet, no money, dysfunctional family and no social status...yeah I have no chance

[grubbygeorge]

I never approached my high school crush. She was so gorgeous; found her attractive the very first time I saw her in class. Perfectly my type. From the way she dressed, her hair, her personality. In her presence, my heartbeat was faster and I could feel the proverbial butterflies in my stomach. Haven’t looked at any other girl in class in an even remotely similar way. Was thinking about approaching her and confessing the feelings I had for her… but ultimately, I decided against it. She was married and it would’ve made English classes REALLY awkward.

[DepressoShot]

im quiet kid and I approach my crush that day when i was on highschool, and it's the biggest regret I've ever done, I got bullied as time goes on to my toxic classmates, fake friends, and crush, that's why my anxiety become worse. When i see a girl I feel emotionless, because what I've been through since highschool.

[mythmakergwen]

I approached a few of my crushes before. Here are their responses.

"Ewww."

"You are a great guy but I only think of you as a friend."

"Sorry, you aren't handsome."

"I am not ready yet." -This one then proceeded to have a boyfriend the next day.

[windestruct]

The real question is how to approach a crush without acting weird

[Slangtalker]

I was this guy my whole 20s in one way or another. Took very few risks. I'm turning 34 in 29 days and all I have is regret. I still guard against putting myself out there, it's a hard cycle to break once you start..so don't start enjoy your youth zoomers.

[ШынгысАлиакпар]

20 years old college student
I want to share my story even though I am pretty sure nobody will read it. Recently I confessed to my crush and got rejected, but the only feeling I had was a big relief. The girl was hot, smart, and very energetic person so I tried to approach her, we walked once and even had a good time. Talked all summer in social media. But I wasn't her interest. After getting rejected, I somehow felt much better than before feeling confession. Sometimes we need to take the shit together and do what we want regardless of possible outcomes. Continue to go forward and belive in yourself.

[skorpion]

Easy fix: Don't obsess over women that you don't know personally. When there isn't a basic friendly relationship in place, the likeliness of getting rejected is stupidly high.

[StanislawWiadro]

I'm currently in a relationship with a girl that i had a crush on. I'm so glad it didn't end like in this animation. I had the courage to make moves on her and then tell her that i loved her, it turned out she feels the same about me. It was really shocking because i never experienced a relationship where i was loved back by the girl just as much as i love her. She's honest, pretty, loving and she's just the sweetest girl ever. We both plan on building a future together, and i just feel like the happiest guy in the world.
Honestly it taught me something. That you can find happiness at the most unexpected moment in life. Don't let fear overpower you and always chase your dreams, you only live once.

[Pointlesshandle]

The reason you should ask her out no matter how much the odds are stacked up against you is because the pain of rejection is temporary but the pain of not having the balls to find out and seeing a missed opportunity slip away forever last much longer.

[Androrac]

The real tragedy of the story is that he doesn't realize his friend sitting next to him is best girl