4 Tips On How To Approach Women (WITHOUT BEING CREEPY!) | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I go over 4 tips on how to approach women without being creepy. It's no secret that more women get approached by men than men do women...so it's important to stand out from the crowd! Thank you all for watching and let me know some stories you've had with approaching a girl in public.

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[LivingALifeOfAbundance]

My motto is rejection from a woman can be a way God saving you from a headache you don't need. The woman that's meant for you won't reject you. Give her a compliment and keep on moving.

[draconian]

A guy can simply say "hello" and be considered "creepy" if the woman is not attracted to him. I've seen so many women bad mouth guys behind their back for simple things like that.

[FFE-jszp]

If shes attracted to you, it doesn't matter what you do. If shes not, it doesn't matter what you do.

[p.k.]

1. Make it Make Sense
2. Keep it Clean
3. Be Confident
4. Read the Room

[ericv]

If you're attractive, it's not creepy. If you're unattractive, it's creepy.

[shamyshamuswow]

Note - confidence is not being sure of yourself, its being ok with yourself even if something goes wrong

[lilfrank]

One thing that helps me is to have casual conversations with people I interact with from time to time local waitress, hair stylist, or even co-workers. Not necessarily being romantic but just breaking out of my comfort zone and be more conversational in order to connect with others. It really helps boosting confidence

[HungrySlothDEFCON]

For those who are in a hurry👌🏻:
Props to Courtney Ryan🤙🏼🤙🏼🤙🏼🔥
1. Make it make sense
2. Keep it Clean
3. Be Confident
4. Read the Room

[adamthomas]

Attraction is important, but here is a HUGE thing nobody really talks about. We’re all different and are attracted to different things. Just because 1 girl says your not attractive doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. Some women dislike bald guys, some love them. Some men like thick girls others don’t it’s not a personal thing, don’t let your pride get you down.

[lukepascal]

I can say from experience, that when approaching a random girl and sparking up a conversation, it's important to be preceptive to her demeaner. If you're feeling like she's being aloof, and with short answers, she may very well want to be alone. Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong. She just may not be interested, or she's preoccupied with something in her life. In that case, it's important to pick up on that early. If instead, she is being conversational back, it's a clear signal she's possibly interested, and that would be a good time ask her out.

The point being, you can tell pretty quickly if it's the right time to ask for her number. Could be a bad day. Or she may just not like you. But being receptive towards her demeanor is an important skill to learn imo.

[noahkales]

If you’re an attractive lad, what you say and how you say it doesn’t matter all too much. If you are not incredibly attractive, what you say and how you say it matters a lot more

[Ash-epnz]

Dating a woman these days is like a job interview to be brutally honest.

[sdude]

Tip 1: Be hot
Tip 2: Don't be ugly
Tip 3: Be confident
Tip 4: Don't be awkward

[sifugurusensei]

What I learned in my 46 years is that you should never justify what you're doing. I still have to work on this because I am used to explaining myself. Just to look good. I need the attitude like take it or leave it

[focusfernand]

At the end of the day, it comes down to practice. I've always been a shy person, and have struggled with communication my entire life. This is why when you decide to put yourself out there, you have to keep in mind that you're going to inevitably make yourself look like a fool at least a few times. But the more you get comfortable with yourself, getting into awkward situations and fumbling over your words, the more situational awareness you'll develop. My dad told me that when he first started trying to ask out girls he would get rejected by at least 99/100 (and yes, he asked out that many women, hundreds actually), for most of his life it was a numbers game, then something clicked and he suddenly began to have more success. I'm still not great at this myself, but I have consciously put an effort to get into situations where my wit and level-head are put to the test. I've learned that my dad has his way of asking people out, and I have my own, the same will be true for you. I believe interacting with women is a skill, and just like any other skill, you need to practice to get better. Watching videos may be good for learning concepts, but you can't learn skills simply by spending time in front of a screen, you have to put in the work. Good luck to anyone and everyone who reads this long-winded comment hahaha, we're all fighting the same battle, just don't give up. Rejection is always an opportunity to learn :)

[baalzamon]

The only difference between creepy and romantic is whether she thinks you're hot.

Edit: I'm sure dudes would feel the same being approached by women. Attractive women would bring positive feelings. Unattractive women would leave me wondering if they'd take a subtle hint or if I need to be direct or even harsh, regardless of any supposed "game". I understand the principle here.

[seymorepencilart]

About the point regarding “approaching with confidence”: When it is said like that, as in, “just be confident!”- I think a lot of men think, “Well, why didn’t I think of that!” As if confidence is a choice. When you’re insecure, and you feel like you have nothing to offer, it’s hard to just will confidence into being: it feels like you are putting in a show for a woman. You end up thinking of what kind of man the woman you want to ask out would like, and change your behavior accordingly. You use ‘game’ to navigate your nervousness. Is “being confident” something women can just do, or is confidence just something women are just better at faking? It’s not about “being confident” for most men. What are we supposed to be confident about?? That she’ll like us? What is it about our confidence, fake or not, that is so attractive to women? That’s my question! Thank you.

[tims]

A quick note on something Courtney mentions about being appropriate is that people with ptsd never feel as safe as they did before an incident so its about accepting that, and that life goes on as almost everything in life is challenging, demanding

[VoiceOfThe]

It’s only ‘creepy’ when it’s unwanted and she’s not attracted to him.

[Cormac_YT]

Dude just be confident and positive it will make her feel so much more confident

Make eye contact take your hands out of your pockets and pay attention to your body language

Smile be friendly stand up straight get to know her


Dude read the room bro if she says no do not keep pursuing it just be a gentlemen and tak eit has a loss or a win its all practice rejection happens to all of us


Be proud of yourself for getting out of your ckmfort zone