How to Approach a Girl Without Being Creepy

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[KaizenAction]

“Send a drink” so i can get free drinks and after that I will reject you .

[tdomingues]

She lying, she would just walk away. You could see that if she was at the bar, you need to pay her drink just to talk to her, like wtf 😂

[thedudewithvideos]

That girl always wants a free drink 😂😂 Please don't interview her again, she gives bad advises 😂😂🙏

[greenmumin]

She just wants you to send her a drink, whats not to understand there???😂😂

[Dragonslice]

She'll either like you or won't, walk up compliment her ask her name, then if she's single and get her number. If she rejects you, with a smile say okay have a great day and walk away. If she's got a bf say he's a lucky man and walk away

[mosalami]

And thats why you never ask women for advices.
Never

[legacy]

1. Be cool with being creepy. If she likes you, you’re confident. If she doesn’t, you’re creepy. Who cares?

2. Stop worrying about what she thinks. Just start talking. If she’s not interested, you will know

3. Say SOMETHING. Anything is better than just being silent and beating yourself up about it later.

4. Don’t put her on the pedestal. In other words, don’t talk to her like you’re on a job interview. If you have to, think of her as somebody you’re already cool with and talk to her like that. Why be the most uninteresting version of yourself with the person you’re most interested in?

5. Don’t dwell on rejection. It happens to everyone. It’s better to get rejected than to reject yourself of ever getting a girl because you’re scared to talk to them.

[ponokunishima]

Trying is key! That’s why many guys are single and haven’t approached girls because they have the mindset of being scared of rejection and or being ignored. I’ve been ignored many times, either not being heard or she has to go somewhere or whatever, I still approach and say something. Trying and rejection is what counts!

[kehzito]

If she likes you, you’re cool otherwise you’re creepy. That’s basically it. You could send drinks all you want, you can still come off creepy if she doesn’t fancy you

[Ultrasilverr]

So I will be carrying a glass of drink on the street while walking! Thanks

[ponokunishima]

Yup, you don’t know until you try. Courage!

[kiku]

This is why you don’t ask women for advice on how to get or approach them. This woman didn’t have any real advice she just wanted a drink. She had to be reminded twice that the situation is in broad daylight on the street. Both times she went straight to “you should buy me a drink”. To really know how to approach is trial and error. Simple as that. You’ll learn over time taking the punches but asking women for any dating advice pertaining to men is the equivalent to asking fish how to catch them.

[Kadaf]

We are strong independent women

''Buy me a drink''

[FreddyKurganNimmo]

1: Be tall
2: Be facially attractive
3: Be muscular
4: Be wealthy
5: Be charismatic

If you're not *_ANY_* of those things(like the overwhelming majority of men), you're just $#¡t out of luck.

It's time people start telling the truth, to end the simpademic, and break out of this La-La land of make believe 🐎 💩 that these attraction/dating "coaches" are peddling to desperate men, perpetuated by delusionally unrealistic women.

[MrBreadman]

Say what you want about her, there’s a kernel of truth to what she said: You don’t know unless you try.

I don’t ask for permission, I ask for forgiveness.

[Zolithegenius]

If she see that your act is effortless and you could keep your cool in her presence than she may see you as a prize. You have to demonstrate that you got used to be around her caliber of woman and if she reject you is going to be her loss.
That is the experience what all females want to feel. They want to see you superrior (taller, stronger, high intelligence, provider, great social skills, competent, and so on…) and if she feel your masculine energy she can let her femininity thrive on your side.
The good news is you can transform yourself in few years and you can became the dream of those girls who rejected you before.
The bad news is; you have to keep improve yourself non stop keep your masculine frame and became her best option through decades.

[Stephan-us]

Don't learn to catch a fish from the fish. Learn it from the fisher.

[Perfect_Pizza]

Only thing that has ever mattered is INITIAL ATTRACTION.

Its the #1 root.

Even if youre annoying, arrogant, or creepy, as long as youre good loking and present well, you will get laid easily.

[danieljankowski]

"I like your coat" "I have a boyfriend..."

[Bladeclaw]

It's good he is asking a legit question. Her responses are her opinion and may or may not work. The best thing you can take away from this is, "You never know till you try". That's right. Just try and see what happens instead of speculating. For some guys this might work for others it might not and you have to approach a different way.